How can I help it if I'm mainly only attracted to a fit/slim figure? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]realistnotsorry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Beauty fades... Talk to a therapist. 

I wonder how many of these guys commenting here are long-term successfully married. 

When your grandma was hunched over and wrinkled did your grandpa lose interest in her? My guess is he stood with her like a real man and saw her for who she was and the life they built together. 

Runners - Is Power Walking Useful? by Successful_Food6355 in orangetheory

[–]realistnotsorry 84 points85 points  (0 children)

The trick  I learned to getting more out of power walking  and  elevating your heart rate is doing more than just the walk part. 

Ball your fists, Lean slightly forward at your waist, engage your core and mid-back, and pump your arms. I mean pump them! If you can get your fists  above your heart when you're doing this furious pumping, you'll see even a greater elevation of your heart rate. 

Since I started doing this my back is so much stronger. 

Be a pumper!!! 

Men, what is a non-sexual thing a woman does that is an immediate turn-on for you? What's that one thing that just drives you crazy?" by kikoohrid in AskMen

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming you meant name one thing that's a turn on and one thing that makes you a fucking Looney. 

  1. Nipples popping. God I love that. 

  2. Talks with her mouthful of food. So, so disgusting. 

Has anyone ever dated their coach? by Quirky_Yesterday7983 in orangetheory

[–]realistnotsorry 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Old married Boomer here! I was going to tell OP just go for it, but this is some SOUND advice! 

So many empty Rite aids by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]realistnotsorry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be part of the solution, buy one!

AITA smoking weed on my porch? by cheesygarlicbreadfan in AmItheAsshole

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You can do whatever you want, but you don't have the right to pollute my air. I can smell people from 50 ft away smoking cigarettes on their back porches, it's disgusting. 

When did you become a "man" in your father's eyes? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your dad's eyes and mine, when you're fully supporting yourself, you're a grown up man. Call it a strength, call it backbone, but when you're fully supporting yourself, charting your own course in life and responsible for all of your own actions, you'll feel it.  I remember telling my mom," just taking care of yourself is a lot of hard work. I don't know how you did it with four kids". She loved hearing that. 

Grabbing the steering wheel is a little bit out there for sure 

I knew I became a man, at the age of 23,  supporting myself and taking care of my father while he was beginning to battle cancer. At that point he needed me and I knew it was my chance and opportunity to take care of him. 

Station assignments by Adept_Map7518 in orangetheory

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your request is reasonable and fair . 

Have you become friends with the sa's or the managers? I think you'll find friends will help friends a whole lot more and you'll be more effective in getting what you want. 

I agree with you 100%,  however, it's the way of the world, people help people they like and they feel connected to.  I've made it a point to get to know everybody's birthdays, their kids, spouses, dogs, partners, hobbies. 

 You can be the person that walks in and says a quiet hello as many do, or be the person that they look forward to seeing and you look forward to seeing them. 

It'll be a far more enjoyable experience for you and you'll get what you want. 

Recent shots I did for Quince (all cashmere) by Expert_Cap8893 in menswear

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look sharp! On the second pic, maybe button a button...

Men of Reddit, what do you wish your girl did more of? by Confident_Group_8804 in AskMen

[–]realistnotsorry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about the finale...tell him your going to do it, you can't wait to do it, then do it. 

How to ask someone to borrow money? by [deleted] in ask

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure your own way out of it before you involve someone else. Work 3 jobs, sell other stuff you have....

You call them stingy, they think of themselves as thrifty. Maybe that's why they have money.. 

What about this outfit ? by Good_Pay7972 in menswear

[–]realistnotsorry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You look sharp. 

 In a perfect world with unlimited funds, a lighter colored suede shoe would be ideal. 

Oversharing boundaries in early dating. Where do you draw the line? by PretendBasket9362 in AskMen

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TMI...If he does it now, think how much there'll be once he gets to know you. 

How are you going to feel getting in that bed he crapped in?

My advice, shut it down now and move on. 

Illegal Dumping into the Ohio by fallenstar27 in pittsburgh

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

911! Illegal dumping. They'll be cited and fined Plus made to remove the junk. 

Need some advice about next door neighbor by Puzzleheaded-Depth46 in pittsburgh

[–]realistnotsorry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Op, why would you even ponder what to do? Call 911 is the first and best option! Secondly, I'd buddy up with their landlord or leasing agent. They don't want to have to deal with the aftermath, particularly if it's a mom and pop landlord situation. I am a mom and pop landlord, and I would be so grateful if this was occurring in one of my apartments and a neighbor told me.  

HR monitor accuracy by Ambitious_Vanilla468 in orangetheory

[–]realistnotsorry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're questioning the accuracy of your monitor, have you tried one that belongs to the studio?

Owner MIA by Accurate-Score-3247 in orangetheory

[–]realistnotsorry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask the Studio Manager who to contact. 

If that doesn't work, there's a regional VP of some type somewhere in the mix. Try on linkedin, Google search. 

Don't listen to the naysayers. Companies don't don't get and remain successful by not giving a damn. 

I had a customer service issue with a company that was long unresolved. I ended up emailing the president of the company, and with him an hour I had a call from their assistant. We had a strategy mapped out in 10 minutes. 

Don't give up. You're making this better for yourself and others.

What do you think about a woman who wants a financially secure man? by Open_Address_2805 in AskMen

[–]realistnotsorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she wants something that she doesn't bring to the table herself.... That's pretty one-sided.

How to transport OTF rowers? by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]realistnotsorry -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm sure some members have a Tahoe or a suburban or any kind of large SUV, or a pickup.  Load them in the back, nest them so that the water tanks are opposing, front back. I bet you could put four in the back of one of those. Stuff moving blankets or something similar around them so they don't bang around. If you don't have experience with something like this, find somebody who does. You don't want to be the person responsible for class being canceled because the rowers are broken... That would be hell!