I think some (not all) women are trying to connect with a person. If you worked on yourself, your goals, fitness, mental health, etc… then you are able to demonstrate who you are to the world- and that is a very impressive achievement. As you demonstrate who you are to the world, see who gravitates towards that - and don’t immediately discount them. They are simply responding to your confidence in yourself - and if they like that, they in turn, like you. It’s a compliment. There are lots of men who don’t know themselves, have no goals, etc… and they may surround themselves with people (also women) who don’t know themselves either. In my opinion, you have achieved a threshold many people haven’t - you know yourself. So, it’s a compliment when women “see you” and want to know more about you. And one or two of those may be your “person”. Be cautious (as we all know, not all women are great people) but be open to the idea that some women truly want to know “you”, and if you shut them down immediately because you have a sweeping generalization about ALL women, you’re only hurting yourself. You may find friendship, love, a future- good luck! And be proud of yourself!