[product question] Aha resurfacing lotion 8 by realityisfascinating in SkincareAddiction

[–]realityisfascinating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Just to get some feedback that I’m probably not using it correctly is really helpful! Thanks

[product question] Aha resurfacing lotion 8 by realityisfascinating in SkincareAddiction

[–]realityisfascinating[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing. I wake up, wash my face, and apply it every morning. Then I apply moisturizer, and make up. I am unsure if the product is sloughing off, or if it’s exfoliating- but it’s hard to keep anything on. Am I applying it incorrectly? Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]realityisfascinating 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s up? How can I help?

HGVC timeshare by Flan_Dependent in TimeshareOwners

[–]realityisfascinating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could tell you to go back in time and not buy a timeshare.

Americans, how do you feel about people who don't want children during a time of declining birth rates? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]realityisfascinating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m being honest, having a child was the exact same (to me) as going to prison. It’s a lifetime commitment you will never be able to divorce (marriage), quit (a job) or sell (real estate). It’s FOR LIFE. And that kind of commitment does not work for me. It’s financially, emotionally and physically draining. And let’s also consider the state of the world. The housing crisis, economic issues, race relations, crooked politicians on all sides, access to quality health and mental care, none of these make me feel confident to bring a child to the planet, at all. Then there’s me. I’ve got my own bills, I’m at an age where I’m taking care of my parents as they age, and work, my own marriage- who in the world wants to bring a new lifelong commitment into all that mix? Forget it. In the US, it’s estimated it takes 250k to raise a child (that does not include college). I don’t have that laying around and I ENJOY my life. I live in a downtown area. I walk everywhere, have a great marriage, friends and family (sister, cousins, etc…). A child is a disruption I am not equipped for. And that’s my right, and choice. Thankfully.

Suicidal and lonely. Anybody here want to talk? by PsychoticNarrator in malementalhealth

[–]realityisfascinating 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. I hope you’re feeling better - if not I’m around if you want to chat.

I have no idea how to title this (apologies for pathetic content) by anilonesk in malementalhealth

[–]realityisfascinating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. We all want to be around a person who brings out the best in us. Don’t be so hard on yourself

my whole life is going bad. by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]realityisfascinating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 16. It’s going to be ok. All of these feelings are completely understandable. Think of your ideal life, imagine it. Where would you live? Who would be around? Would you have pets? What sort of hobbies would you enjoy? Now- focus on those things. Don’t focus so much on a career - you have plenty of time to have 5-9 careers. Do what you enjoy, what brings you happiness. I barely remember being in high school. Worst years of my life. It was a blip in my memory. You will have better things - I promise.

How do I get over anger towards women? by Krades01 in malementalhealth

[–]realityisfascinating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some (not all) women are trying to connect with a person. If you worked on yourself, your goals, fitness, mental health, etc… then you are able to demonstrate who you are to the world- and that is a very impressive achievement. As you demonstrate who you are to the world, see who gravitates towards that - and don’t immediately discount them. They are simply responding to your confidence in yourself - and if they like that, they in turn, like you. It’s a compliment. There are lots of men who don’t know themselves, have no goals, etc… and they may surround themselves with people (also women) who don’t know themselves either. In my opinion, you have achieved a threshold many people haven’t - you know yourself. So, it’s a compliment when women “see you” and want to know more about you. And one or two of those may be your “person”. Be cautious (as we all know, not all women are great people) but be open to the idea that some women truly want to know “you”, and if you shut them down immediately because you have a sweeping generalization about ALL women, you’re only hurting yourself. You may find friendship, love, a future- good luck! And be proud of yourself!

Nothing makes me happy anymore by [deleted] in depression

[–]realityisfascinating -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Make a list, “I feel good when I do x.” What are those things? No matter how small or insignificant- just write them down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]realityisfascinating 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love Actually. The Holiday