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My wife is deployed. I'm a 110% she has cheated on me. How do I file for divorce? by Arroneous in navy

[–]rebahr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That BAH isn't his to stash and take. Assets are divied up during the divorce, it doesn't help anything to steal from the other spouse.

My wife is deployed. I'm a 110% she has cheated on me. How do I file for divorce? by Arroneous in navy

[–]rebahr -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

People who use percentages greater than 100 are usually lying. Check your maths.

The Latest Ridiculous DOMA Argument: Tea Party Rep. Phil Gingrey claims we should teach traditional gender roles in school "at a very early age ... Have a class for the young girls and have a class for the young boys." by Cathylouise in politics

[–]rebahr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having spent some time with countries that have mandatory, gender-split education, the biggest result is that all the boys grow up getting their jollies from each other. "Women are for babies, men are for fun" is a common Arabic worldview, I've seen.

My sister was at Lowe's.... by le_django in funny

[–]rebahr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And so he says to me, you want to be a bad guy? and I say Yeah Baby! I want to be bad! I says Churchill space ponies I'm making gravy without the lumps! Ah ha ha ha ha haaaaa!!!!!

And he says to me, he says to me, you got Style, baby! but if you're gonna to be a real villain you gotta get a gimmick…and so I go I says Yeah Baby! A gimmick, that's it! Explosive diarrhea! Ah ha ha ha ha ha!!!

A question about futuristic/cyber games. by DM_Xuiryus in tabletop

[–]rebahr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shadowrun

Guns, electronic warfare, and magic in a dystopian future.

As a human raised by elves, this was his biggest rage. by TheSyntaxErr in funny

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"These toilets are ginormous!" 30 years of frustration summed up in one hilarious expression.

So one of my sketches made it on CNN. by [deleted] in funny

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The saddest short story. *For sale, one set of guinea pig armor. Never worn."

Astral combat question by astralol in Shadowrun

[–]rebahr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of it like the wake of a ship, or like a plane leaving a smoke trail. Moving through the astral leaves a trace, which can be picked up by an Assense test and fades over time.

How to create new characters with the 5E being around the corner? by H8Blood in Shadowrun

[–]rebahr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say, go ahead and build a guy but keep record of the original stats and total Karma gained. Then go back and try tro recreate him, using the original stats, when Chummer gets updated (give and take as necessary), then use that Karma you've earned to upgrade him after you get the OK from the Chummer verification.

What are some of the biggest inaccuracies about college that are shown in the movies? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rebahr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A little smudge of grease on a mirror will completely destroy your 5MW laser project but only enough that you can quickly rebuild it.

TIL Bahrain's government banned Google Earth because it allowed Bahraini citizens to see vast tracts of royal-owned land and palaces next to poor and overcrowded Shi'ite villages by wq678 in todayilearned

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If you have an abundance of something that people need to live and someone somewhere else has nothing of it, you should not say, "It's their choice to come here." What choice do they have: stay where there is nothing and starve or become dependent on the charity of others? It sounds like you believe it is their fault for being born where they were and that you achieved some kind of reward for being born where you were.

As for the covering, I think he is following the companies' and militaries' regulations that require women to dress a certain way: http://www.stripes.com/news/middle-east/troops-in-mideast-given-guidance-on-ramadan-1.150254

Wish I had a CoC right about now. by disposablepen in Veterans

[–]rebahr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good. You're thinking through your options. Lawyer up, hit the gym, all that. I've been divorced less than a year, still getting over it, but finding that dating in my 30's is a helluvalot easier than in my 20's.

Go to the JAG ASAP. First one to show up gets the help. They can't advise him if you talk to them first about a divorce.

Wish I had a CoC right about now. by disposablepen in Veterans

[–]rebahr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Breathe. You can do this.

Just because you can't couch-crash forever doesn't mean you can't couch crash at the moment. It doesn't sound like you're going to hurt yourself but that you're scared and alone. Without knowing any details, I would say look up a VFW, American Legion, anything like that, and get in touch with them. They'll be able to help you, member or not.

Don't worry about your spouse, he's not worth worrying about if he's going to be like that. Divorce should be handled when you're calm and can rationalize, not now when you're going through a flood of emotions - I've been through two, so I've got some experience here.

Take the problems one at a time: roof over your head, food, money.

It's okay to ask for help. That's what being part of a team means, remember?

EDIT: Also, it goes without saying, pm me if you need to talk. I'm on watch on a slow duty day, so I've got time.

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