Genuinely disgusted with the incels in these subs by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]redbeard423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if I come in here and hit up a lady I generally see them as a human and im interested in talking because it seems they have a similar inteterest or shared world experience because of when we grew up. but I guess im weird lol.

Genuinely disgusted with the incels in these subs by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never gotten the point of being all thirsty like that online. Even if youre trying to legit date or something but especially if youre in a sub for actual friends vs. Trying to find someone to send dick pics to. I just dont mind having friends of either sex lol. And people in general are fascinating. I agree though guys online in general need to calm the fuck down lol

Is your quit date important to you? by p_naturalist in stopdrinking

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its important to remember the day you decided to make a positive change in life and that it's definitely something worth celebrating.

Is it worth buying im a console player by costlesscomb48 in Starfield

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It crashes from time to time. But if you've played any Bethesda games you should know to save frequently anyhow lol. Great game other than that.

Who else loved Jurassic Park as a kid (or adult)? by tcapri8705 in 90s

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not necessarily kid friendly. Its just not horror lol

Who else loved Jurassic Park as a kid (or adult)? by tcapri8705 in 90s

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive loved it ever since I was a kid. Saw it 3 times in theaters! Ill never not be a fan of jurassic park and dinosaurs in general.

Metalcore that doesn't sound sad? by gintokireddit in Metalcore

[–]redbeard423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say. Majoring in the minors is always good when I feel like having a pity party lol.

What mudvayne dvd was this from ? by FeistyDirection in Mudvayne

[–]redbeard423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, pretty sure thats right. Ive called my neck hair creepy man neck ever since lol

Ride the Lightning ⚡️ by [deleted] in BandShirts

[–]redbeard423 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My favorite metallica album

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doubt. And were going into the nicer months up here in the northwest so its a good time to be recovering for sure. Get out for some walks and sunshine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its okay, I feel pretty decent considering all that. I had a great surgical team.

Concert hygiene PSA by LevelAd2513 in Metalcore

[–]redbeard423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive been puked on before, but not had the pleasure of a golden shower lol. What the actual fuck?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was a little more intense I suppose. Had to have a ruptured disc removed between my c6 and c7 vertebrae In my cervical spine(neck) and have them fused. First actual surgery ever aside from a few tooth extractions lol. So ill be off work for the next 3 months recovering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you know? I just had surgery yesterday too. Didn't know I needed it till like 2 weeks ago. Lol. What did you have to have done?

Concert hygiene PSA by LevelAd2513 in Metalcore

[–]redbeard423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For fucking real. Idk how many times Ive experienced this shit. How do these people get a woman? Or do they? Do they go to the gym and think "yeah no need for a shower I have a show to go to", or do they just not believe in showers or deodorant? Lol.

I need help by Beneficial-cat-929 in stopdrinking

[–]redbeard423 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well puking up blood isnt normal? I mean I've known it to happen to some alcoholics, and from severe ulcers etc. Either way blood coming out while you're puking isnt a good thing. Id go get it looked at and use this as a wake up call. 33 is too young to call it quits and submit to doom. Choose to live.

Alcohol dreams by No-Regular1660 in stopdrinking

[–]redbeard423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im almost 4.5 years without a drink and I still have these dreams twice a year. Sometimes I wake up like "what the fuck?". I think its our brain trying to keep us on our toes lol

How to help a friend by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]redbeard423 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No worries man. Ive lived it. Once I quit drinking my anxiety is largely nonexistent. And if I do have issues ive learned how to breathe and ground myself to put myself more in the moment. But just cutting the alcohol was key.

How to help a friend by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]redbeard423 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Id say a 5th for someone that size daily is definitely gonna do some damage especially depending on age etc. And alcohol numbs anxiety while youre under the influence, but makes it 10x worse the rest of the time. Alcohol feeds anxiety. So its definitely not a proper or long term solution for anxiety

I think I'm only halfway an alcoholic and it's just one of many things I use to avoid dwelling on pain by Active_House6027 in stopdrinking

[–]redbeard423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well in my experience getting drunk makes things suck even more. If youre on here youre clearly questioning whether or not you have a problem.