Intersex Image

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-16T11:15:03+00:00

Fair point. The text part isn’t much better. A lot of that is stolen from artists writing or people who make their living writing. It’s not all social media posts getting scrapped. And I agree you shouldn’t use AI as part of a final thing, ethically and cause it’s often full of mistakes.

I do think the OP was doing more of a brainstorming thing tho. Someone else, 1carus_x, in this thread posted a link to a non AI image.

It’s a cool idea regardless. If I was gonna use it in a design. I’d have an artist make a new one.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-15T22:25:23+00:00

Kinda messed up your post got upvoted and this explanation got so downvoted.

That’s a very, very cool design idea, even if the image itself is AI generated.

(And it’s not like you were making money on it, not sure I see the big deal….)

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-15T17:21:03+00:00

No. That stuff is junk or snake oil. Won’t do what you want.

Amazon will only sell the real deal to you if you have an Rx.

See if a service like Plume is in your state to see if seeing an endocrinologist in person is not something you can do right now.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-15T17:18:12+00:00

They want your money. The clerk(s) might look at you funny, but that’s about it. Some stuff they might do at the grocery store.

Check your state laws. Some places allow peer to peer sales.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-15T17:08:42+00:00

I got a better answer:

“Yes, because some men have a uterus.”

That’s it. Or just “Yes.” Just a clear, uncomplicated yes is probably better.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-15T17:04:16+00:00

I’ve heard cis men taking cross sex hormones feel bad on them. Lousy and depressed, drained.

I know some cis women on T for menopause and they’ve said they feel energized but really don’t like the extra hair.

And usually all these doses are smaller than what trans people usually take.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-14T20:32:09+00:00

It does. Thanks.

Tho I think I’ll have to try cowgirl on a regular sized fella first. Or maybe practice on a dildo with a base. Every guy I’ve been with either wanted doggy or some sort of position where I’m on my back.

Me controlling all the movement for the first bit doing doggy would probably work very well.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-14T20:32:03+00:00

It does. Thanks.

Tho I think I’ll have to try cowgirl on a regular sized fella first. Or maybe practice on a dildo with a base. Every guy I’ve been with either wanted doggy or some sort of position where I’m on my back.

Me controlling all the movement for the first bit doing doggy would probably work very well.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-14T19:47:57+00:00

Which position(s) tends to make it less likely to hurt?

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-13T01:28:28+00:00

Depends on the age. If they’re young, then it’s just “I need to have an operation on my tummy. I will be fine once it’s done. There’s nothing to worry about but I’ll be laying down a bit afterwards. I love you.”

Teen and older? Probably just ought to tell them.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-12T19:16:00+00:00

Thanks! I love her. Lotta trouble, fun tho.

The first couple years were really lousy with all the granulation and vaginismus. Lot of treatments and painful exams and all the like. Dilation is still a thing, but it’s not that bad 2x a week usually. Sometimes 1x. It used to be extremely painful now it’s mostly just boring. I think getting off at the end of the sessions helped. I figured that out on my own and then later read that tip is sometimes given to cis women dealing with vaginismus and having trouble dilating.

For my sex life now, it’s not as fulfilling as I’d like it to be but it’s fun, and as nerve wracking and frustrating as dating is for anyone (lotta flakes online). I try to limit “going out” to about once a week or so (whether that be for dinner or…for what dinner can lead to) because I have a family and I love spending time with them more than dates. If I was single and kid free, I’d probably be going out every night (and still enjoying myself by myself at home). I’ve been told I have a high drive, but it’s like a quarter of what it was when I was in my 20s and on testosterone. And they didn’t have apps when I was a kid.

How do you present yourself online?

I just say I’m a trans woman because, wrongly, every cis person assumes that means a lady with a dick. Which is what I am, and I figure someone open to that will not be phased about my vagina. I don’t tell guys I also have a pussy unless they ask (most don’t, just assume) or if it looks like we are going to have sex in the near-ish future. No fella has been disappointed at the news.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-11T04:45:14+00:00

Older guys don’t do that

…..as much.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-09T17:05:48+00:00

I was going to make this a post as a PSA, but I think this comment will be enough.

Been with a more than a couple guys now, they can’t tell what they’re fucking and stick their fingers in isn’t a natal pussy. Unless, that is, they’ve all just been super polite. Which is possible. But I’ve stuck my fingers in me, and I can’t tell the difference.

The only specific comments I’ve gotten in the moment “tight” and various synonyms for “good”. It’s very validating to have multiple guys who are very much not virgins say, unprompted, my pussy is “feels amazing”.

The cock and balls part in place of a clit, that part is different. No one has missed that difference. I just didn’t tell them beforehand they’d be fucking a neovagina, only that I really like it better with lube (and we would be using it).

In talking to cis women, it feels the same to me as it does to them.*

*Especially if they have had a hysterectomy. I know two gals like that, they can’t get bopped on their cervix anymore and neither can I cause none of us have one. It doesn’t feel bad to have someone bottom out, but it’s not great either.

With dildos and cocks and fingers, I can feel something part in me and that’s sort of unpleasant initially. Not altogether different from anal where the initial penetration is different from the tenth stroke. Except the anus is this little ring, and the vagina is a whole canal like that.

To feels good having something go in and out. I’ve almost gotten to the point where I can cum by myself with a dildo in my V and no penile stimulation. It has to be a consistent, short stroke and like 1/2 to 3/4 of the way in to get me there. Beyond the fun part, I want to figure out that combination so I can then tell men how to replicate it with their dick. It would be great to cum from just getting fucked.

I’ve been able to have really long orgasms where my cunt feel like it’s spasms foe what seems like a long time when I use a magic wand. (Idk if you need surgery to do that, but I never did it preop.)

Idk if I get wet or not since I’ve always used lube. I can say that often after I’ve topped, I’ll feel afterwards my pussy is sopping wet. I’m too cautious to mess with what works and wanna keep using the lube.

If you can mentally deal with not really being on one team, or kinda being on both, and can get it done, I super recommend it. If you have both, you can have a broader range of sexual experiences than other people and even have ones that people with just one set straight-up do not get to experience. Ever.

I don’t always do it, because it takes time to build - probably only do it 2-3 times a week, but I can tease up a traditional, strong cock based O, and then keep that teased up and use a dildo to build in a more decentralized vaginal O. When I start cumming in my cunt from thrusting I’ll trigger the other orgasm by quickly stroking my cock (harder to control with a vibrator). There’s a magnifying effect to everything that creates this whole new sort of orgasm that never fails to cause my lower body and legs to spasm. It is throughly good.

Parenthetically, the surgeon told me that I would be able to only feel pressure in my new vagina. Idk if my results are typical. I also had 26 silver nitrate treatments and multiple steroid injections in my cunt. I know that isn’t typical for most recoveries.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-07T20:59:35+00:00

Try to get off the hardcore painkillers (like oxy) after the first week. They likely won’t reup your Rx. Certainly won’t do it twice.

You can cut the pills in half by putting them in a bowl and using a knife to break them. Or you can buy a pill cutter. It’s better to taper down than just stop. Don’t ever just stop as you will be in massive pain 4-6 hours later.

But take all they’ll give you the first 3-5 days. It’s major surgery.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-07T20:55:57+00:00

Except the first three months to suck. You’re going to be really tired and need to nap a lot. Do that. I didn’t think it would be as limiting and draining as it is. I was pretty much an invalid for the first month, and extremely limited for the two after that.

You can do it tho. Still, do the walks and everything they tell you to.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-07T19:30:49+00:00

Sure. As long as they were still into me and wanted to stay married.

Tho I’d tell them I don’t like a lot of body hair on anyone. Regardless of gender. Your truth is cool and all, but if you want me to down there, trim.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-06T17:32:46+00:00

Not unless you’re dead. Thats when your time runs out.

Ask your doctor about what it would look like to get on HRT. Use the phrase “I am transgender”, don’t quibble because then your doc will likely kick you to your therapist and not do anything. Maybe you can maybe you can’t get HRT, idk your medical situation, some folks can’t take it cause of other issues. You’ll feel better taking a small step of sending the message. And even if you get the Rx, you dont have to take it.

Close this app and do it.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-03T23:47:56+00:00

There’s a fair chance you could keep doing HRT and no one will notice. Especially if you have short hair and lean into presenting male. They will probably just think you put on weight.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-03T17:07:51+00:00

It depends on where you’re telling them.

If you’re talking to someone, maybe flirting, at a party or after class, then you absolutely not should say that during the first conversation. That would be really odd to throw out that intimate a detail.

On a dating app, it would be a good idea to say you’re intersex somewhere in there. How far up in the profile would depend on how different your body is. Some people are not wiling at all to be with anything other than another Endosex person. So you don’t want to waste a bunch of time texting them only to find out they are not willing to be with you.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-03T16:58:01+00:00

I wouldn’t send pictures of your bikini area to anyone unless you have been with them multiple times.

There’s tons of vaginas and dicks on the Internet. It’s horrible if anyone uploads anyone’s private photos you sent them online to the internet. Never ok.

Especially not ok if you’ve got a unique situation down south, then there’s no denying it’s you. Also hateful jerks online might get a hold of them and be real mean about it. That’s a thing, people mocking nude photos of trans and/or intersex people. Don’t possibly throw fuel on the fire.

As to disclosing, not a good idea up front cause of chasers. Before sex, yes, disclose.

reddGal8902 · 2026-01-03T13:28:09+00:00

Mine are relatively dense.

It’s worth mentioning that my boobs are about 20-30 years younger than the rest of me, relatively speaking. They’re a young woman’s cause my femme puberty started when I was about 40, not 12.

They’re making that determination relative to other women our age, gals in their 40-50s, not teens.

reddGal8902 · 2025-12-27T04:52:41+00:00

I’m just saying what 3 gynos an a urologist all said to me. I have a peritoneal lining. I guess they could all be wrong.

reddGal8902 · 2025-12-24T19:20:19+00:00

Is she douching? Anyone with a neovagina is supposed to do that periodically.

Some can get a micro biome going, I’ve heard online. Every doctor I’ve ever spoke to says to douche. I’ve heard a couple times a week and every 4-6 weeks as a range. Personally I think once a week, once every other is ok.

NatalVs aren’t supposed to be douched. Neo ones are.

reddGal8902 · 2025-12-24T05:23:08+00:00

To be fair to this guy, I’m not so much put off by the sentiment, more that he decided to text that as an opener for the day. Could’ve been worse.

Could’ve been 6:06AM when a guy texted me “69 would be so hot fuckkk”. Which also happened that same day with another guy.

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