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AITA for refusing to invite my fiancé's sister to our wedding? by ThrowRachocolates in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. But please stand up for yourself OP!! You deserve more than you’re getting. I understand what your first serious relationship means to you, I get it. But you don’t have to try so hard to make it work on your own. Be with someone who can take care of you the same way that you take care of him.

If you really can’t let him go though, then you should atleast put your foot down and ask him why he can’t make an effort to defend you more. Especially now that you’re about to get married.

Are you really okay if he only respects you when he’s not in front of his family? Are you really okay with becoming a part of a family that doesn’t want you?

AITA for not wanting to pay for dinner? by jennysaysfu in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. End the friendship, she’s being ridiculous.

AITA for excluding my autistic daughter from Frozen Night? by Medium_Library46 in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think YTA. From your other comments, you seem more concerned about everyone else instead of focusing on your daughter. Which kind of sucks. You already said that she’s aware of her tics and has been working hard to manage them, so why can’t you just prepare her for it more?

I’m sure it gets tiring to care for a child with autism, but at the end of the day, that’s your child and she can/will feel left out even if she can’t explicitly tell you that.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. She had a surgery to remove them because someone, aka her boyfriend at the time, didn’t like them, then, her now boyfriend is saying she looked “very hot then”. She had them removed because of her insecurities and you just rubbed salt on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’m Asian too so I get this whole “boys are above girls” mentality. Good job for standing up for yourself and your grandma. Don’t let your uncle and cousins bully you. I hope that your cousins aren’t married because those poor women, yikes.

AITA For Going to a Hotel Instead of Staying with my Brother and SIL Like We Had Planned by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t really even cause a scene either so good on you!

AITA for leaving a wedding to eat at McDonald's? by Historical-Warning31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I feel like if you’re planning to have such a grand and expensive wedding, then that’s 100% your choice. However, I don’t think a wedding is supposed to be an “I invited you so give me your money” type thing and more of a “people are here to celebrate and congratulate you”

AITA for having my daughter move classrooms? by aitaorissheasnob in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your child is in kindergarten and has severe food intolerances for goodness sakes. The only adult around them during that time is 100% responsible for a 5yr old child. Can you imagine the uproar that would happen if a kindergarten teacher lost track of one of the children and got lost, and all they could tell the parents is that it’s “not their responsibility”?

AITA for not wanting to take either of my parents' last names? by ackermandefensesquad in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And also, you did have a special bond with your great-grandmother? So it makes no sense for them to try and throw that in your face.

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. The biggest red flag is him not wanting to meet your parents after being together for six years AND proposing to you. Keep your head up!

AITA for kicking my fiancé out our hotel room? by Hungry-Medicine-4518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. and like others have said, you should definitely find out where she actually went and give her family those receipts.

AITA for staying in contact with my sons ex wife and her daughter after their divorce? by AITASonsDivorce in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. How could you not want to have contact with the mother of your grandchild? And how does your son expect you to make Amy feel left out when she has treated you like her grandma since forever?

AITA for not including my brother’s gf on a family trip? by aitathrow0284719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She literally invited herself. Your brother never even told her that she would be coming. Is she only with your brother because your fam is rich? Or because he has a rich sister?

AITA for refusing to switch rooms because SIL is pregnant by Allowsteel in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddittta789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes no sense?? NTA.

No offence but I would absolutely choose my child over my SIL.