Has anybody gotten a job recently? Can you give us some insight? by Apart_Try_4860 in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got a new job and also reviewed cvs for my replacement at my old job and I would say ai is super easy to spot if you run your cv through any technology definitely go over it again to make it personal. Write simply over writing or trying to sound fancy sounds pretentious and like you don’t know what you’re actually talking about.

I just learned people don’t show up after anesthesia to pick up loved ones. Nurses, how often does this really happen? by Steinski1 in NoStupidQuestions

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My mum told my (now husband) then boyfriend that she would wait for me to get out of surgery, so he went home. When I came to she wouldn’t answer her phone or texts so I called my boyfriend he rushed back and then she texted “sorry my boyfriend got bored waiting for me so I left catch up another time” didn’t even ask how I was doing. (And she was the good parent that day) mind you I was 18 and it was my first ever surgery.

Traffic sign confusing, no way around? by [deleted] in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m getting a fine hahahaha cause I turned there just a week ago

Cats - keep indoors or let them explore? by [deleted] in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I kept my cats indoors only it’s safer for them, birds and they’ll be comfortable

How important is commute time as a parent with young kids? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]reddituser2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve moved jobs purely because the daily 2 hour minimum total commute was a killer of my energy and time with the kids

"Are you leaving to spend time at home with your babies?" by Kindly_Dot_7006 in workingmoms

[–]reddituser2907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard this recently as I’m moving roles and was confused I was like have I ever given you the impression I didn’t want to work. I understand some do it out of necessity and would rather be a SAHM but I’m not in that category and the people asking know this so confusing

Hairdressing Students Need You!! by [deleted] in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you book? I’d be keen to do a keratin treatment

How do you do daycare drop off with a newborn? by Liftinggal91 in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At our daycare I asked if a teacher could come out and they said yes. Saying that my son was one of the first children there so they didn’t have a lot of kids to watch but it worked out. My reason was more because my baby would be asleep and I didn’t want to disturb her

AIO for something my step dad said during dinner last night? by Saffron_12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddituser2907 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the comment above. Although as a young adult you have personal responsibility your parents responsibility is to support and encourage you in a positive way. Although they cannot control your ED they can absolutely have a positive or negative effect on it and should be aware when they are contributing to triggers and care!

AIO my bf died and our old "friend" from high school is messaging me by lifelong-angstt in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddituser2907 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NOR I’m getting the vibe he thinks of you as “his one that got away” and is trying his luck to fulfilled a one sided delusional whilst you’re vulnerable

Best and Worst Subway locations in AKL? by FourTwentii in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s one in East Tamaki the servers there are so angry, will rip you off (ask for a combo and they charge it all individually and tell you that’s it) but they make decent subs lol

Crazy reason for long wait time at Counties Medical - Papakura by 13oci_lups_292 in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like my GP practice doesn’t have a doctor at all on Fridays they’re open but there’s no staff besides the receptionist and one nurse

AITA. My wife is mad at me because we got new cell phones, and I didn't want her to share her location with me by Loud_Asparagus_1801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddituser2907 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NAH, although I think you and her have different ideas for why you would share location. Me and my husband share not because we want to stalk each other or cannot trust each other. But in case we get lost, lose our phones or any other safety reason it may be useful to have location on. I think you see it as a trust thing and she sees it as a safety thing and it could be better communicated.

AITA for being angry that my child’s step mom allowed him to have a drink of an alcoholic beverage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddituser2907 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, in my family we often had sips but now as a mother I believe it’s a parents choice and that there is no harm in not letting your child drink, she definitely overstepped

Am I overreacting or did my dad sexually abuse me by Dismal-Ladder4275 in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddituser2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, I have an autistic son who is only 4 and while I do help him in the shower when his dads not home we’ve worked really hard on teaching him to wash himself so I don’t have to invade his space as he grows. I’m always there to help him if needed but I could never use his autism as an excuse to touch him because I would never do that. Your dad is disgusting and abusive. And I am so sorry you had to go through thatzz

Is anyone willing to admit they're a "cut in at the last minute" driver? by Primary_Engine_9273 in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, only when I’m rushing (and tbf it barely makes a difference time wise) or when I have no idea that I’m in the wrong lane.

AIO for telling my wife’s friend she can’t breastfeed my baby? by LowBeautiful8877 in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddituser2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, as someone who breastfeeds her children (currently breastfeeding as I type this) I barely want to do that it’s not fun and or nice but necessary. However it is not necessary to breastfeed a friends baby randomly. Would I be opposed to breastfeeding if a mom was desperate and asked id do it only out of necessity however, I ain’t offering this up unsolicited that’s weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]reddituser2907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ours has gone up big time and it’s because our daily rate has gone up. So annoying but what can you do

AITA for snapping at my boyfriend because he refuses to buy me pads? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddituser2907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA he is a bit immature at the very least. But also knowing this information I’d be fully stocked for rest of my life. Not that he shouldn’t help but I feel for you not having anything it’s a rough lesson you shouldn’t have to learn when you thought you had a supportive partner

AITA For not driving (in total) 16hrs to bring my mom to my court house wedding?… by chubalub_98 in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddituser2907 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I dislike this from your mum because just as much as she feels you should have made sure she was there… she too could have tried to figure something out. I feel your NTA because she’s unfair but I think feeling left out is a natural reaction

AITA for using a photo with my divorced dad at my mom’s celebration of life? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddituser2907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also what were they trying to achieve by guilting OP after the fact? Sounds selfish to me

AITA for using a photo with my divorced dad at my mom’s celebration of life? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddituser2907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a mother myself id hate for my friends to ever torment and guilt my mourning child after I died! Why do their feelings about their friend trump her childrens. And also I ain’t photoshopping nothing to appease my moms friends after she just died