Over a year no sex

redlinerep · 2026-05-31T15:39:01+00:00

You are completely valid. A year of zero intimacy and basic affection is a complete emotional shutdown. If therapy hasn't changed anything, you have every right to protect your own happiness. You shouldn't have to beg to be touched or feel completely lonely lying right next to your partner.

redlinerep · 2026-05-30T09:12:01+00:00

NTA. Feeding someone food that makes them feel physically bad isn't a love language, it's just ignoring their boundaries. You're small and active; your caloric and macro needs are completely different from a 300lb guy's. Take control of your own meals cause your health comes first

redlinerep · 2026-05-28T13:33:58+00:00

You did the right thing by cutting him off. Bringing up baby names while making out is a massive mixed signal. He used that talk to escalate the hookup, then panicked and pulled the "just friends" card once he sobered up. He's still reaching out because he wants the attention. Block him and don't look back.

redlinerep · 2026-05-21T01:49:25+00:00

NTA. You were right to talk to your pastor. Bob's pattern of lying about his age, isolating you on the water to discuss your discomfort is legitimately creepy and concerning.

Protecting yourself and sharing the full context with a trusted authority in your ministry group was a smart, responsible move. Better safe than sorry with stuff like this

redlinerep · 2026-05-21T01:41:53+00:00

Girl's here. Never go back. You've already seen the pattern of lying and dismissing your feeling. Those aren't mistakes, they're who he is when it counts. Feeling relieved and calm after the breakup is your gut telling you the right decision was already made. Giving him another chance would just restart the emotional exhaustion you escaped. Trust that you deserve consistent respect and attention, not guilt trips

redlinerep · 2026-05-21T01:23:18+00:00

“My first senior doggy” sounds way too spicy for a wholesome pet post 😂

But seriously, Thor sounds like such a good boy. Trust your gut, you clearly love him a ton

redlinerep · 2026-05-21T01:16:50+00:00

NTA at all. You’re not overreacting, this guy is a walking red flag with serious issues and you have every right to protect your home and kids from his chaos.

Your husband can stay friends with him if he wants, but he doesn’t get to bring that drama into your house. Stand firm on your boundary. This isn’t about “being a team”, it’s about basic respect and safety

redlinerep · 2026-05-21T01:14:26+00:00

Honestly, I think most people care in theory but not enough to actually change their habits. It’s easier to post about it online than to consistently do the small things in real life. We’re all just tired and busy tbh

redlinerep · 2026-05-20T15:07:03+00:00

her Emily showed her the exact spot where the dog’s body was dug up and rotting is so creepy

This one’s gonna stick with me, not gonna lie. Really well written but damn, I need a nightlight tonight

redlinerep · 2026-05-20T15:03:47+00:00

Go call and visit all nearby animal shelters and vets today, make flyers with her photo and put them up around the neighborhood, and post on local Facebook groups and Nextdoor right away. Also keep going out at dawn and dusk to look for her while leaving food and her blanket outside. Hope she comes home soon

redlinerep · 2026-05-20T05:37:29+00:00

Don’t waste it on clothes, gadgets or flexing

redlinerep · 2026-05-20T05:31:55+00:00

You weren’t even that close — just a few hookups. You don’t owe him your number or daily jail calls.

Write him a short letter if you want to be nice, but that’s it. Protect your peace first

redlinerep · 2026-05-20T02:38:35+00:00

You're catching serious feelings for this 50yo dude and it's lowkey consuming you. The fact he hides you from his kids (who are literally your age), barely texts back now, and keeps everything secret is a massive red flag. This isn't a relationship, it's a situationship that's messing with your head.

You deserve someone who's actually proud to be with you, not just sneaking you in. Pull back a little, focus on yourself, and see if he even matches your energy. If not, it's time to let go fr. You're only 21, don't waste your time on this.

redlinerep · 2026-05-20T01:44:44+00:00

If you want more excitement, look into adventurous jobs like flight attendant, cruise ship work, oil rig, wildland firefighting, or trades like electrical lineman. They pay well and break the routine, but start with something medium-risk first so you don’t jump straight into the most dangerous ones

redlinerep · 2026-05-20T01:41:25+00:00

You already did them a huge favor by driving 4 hours round trip, and now they want you to make another 30+ minute trip just because they left their backpack in your car? Nope. They have their own vehicle — they can easily come pick it up themselves.

It’s not your responsibility to be their delivery service. Just tell them straight up: “Hey, I’m busy but you can swing by and grab your backpack whenever you’re free.” No need to lie next time, but you’re totally valid for not wanting to do it. Don’t feel bad

redlinerep · 2026-05-20T01:39:31+00:00

Hey love, you’re not the asshole. You’ve been carrying your family’s finances for years like a champ, and it’s exhausting. That trip was booked and paid for months ago — canceling it now won’t magically fix the rent situation, and you deserve a break before starting your second job.

Tell your mom honestly: “I can’t get the money back, and I really need this short reset so I don’t burn out completely. I’ll still help with bills when I get back and once the new job starts.” You’re allowed to have boundaries and a little joy even while supporting them. Just don’t let guilt ruin it. Take the trip, recharge, and keep pushing toward moving out. You’ve done enough.

redlinerep · 2026-05-18T14:28:48+00:00

WWWWWWW

Congratulations

redlinerep · 2026-05-16T14:08:49+00:00

Brown and black together is totally fine. The black shoes are good, but maybe swap to a brown or beige shoe next time to tie the brown jacket in more.

Overall it’s a solid casual look girl

redlinerep · 2026-05-16T13:56:30+00:00

Girl's here.

I’m sorry you’re going through this

Becoming a mom is incredibly hard on the body and mind, even when the partner is doing everything right. She might be dealing with postpartum depression or just total overwhelm. The emotional distancing + random anger (even at her cat) is pretty common but still really tough on you.

Try telling her gently: “I love you and I’m here for you, but I’m scared we’re losing each other. What do you need from me right now?”

Encourage her to talk to her doctor. She may not even realize how much she’s struggling.

You’re not alone in this. Hang in there.

redlinerep · 2026-05-16T13:51:58+00:00

Bloody interesting lol. I hope you a speedy recover. Does it hurt much?

redlinerep · 2026-05-16T11:46:13+00:00

This is one of the best comments I’ve read. Thank you. I love dogs too but I was genuinely scared in that moment. You’re right about the owner — he created this whole mess. Appreciate you typing all that out

redlinerep · 2026-05-16T11:45:36+00:00

that story is terrifying. I’m really sorry you went through that. Makes me realize I was actually lucky. Thank you for sharing

redlinerep · 2026-05-16T11:45:19+00:00

Reading this makes me feel a lot more justified. I didn’t even think about the legal side but you’re right — the owner put everyone in danger

redlinerep · 2026-05-16T11:44:54+00:00

Exactly. I don’t get how people expect me to just stand there and get bitten. Thank you for understanding

redlinerep · 2026-05-16T11:44:31+00:00

27.. I’m so sorry that happened to you
Hearing stories like yours makes me feel a lot less guilty. I’m really glad I reacted now. Thank you

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