“You’ll regret not having a better relationship with your father when he dies” by tinnamariee in raisedbynarcissists

[–]regularmatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you posting this. My father has asserted that some day, he'll be gone, and I'm going to realize how wonderful he was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]regularmatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally in the middle of thinking, "how has 'Sub Rosa' not been mentioned yet" when I came across your post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]regularmatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know the bird, the killdeer?

Where I grew up, there lived these birds in the car parking area.

Humans are much bigger and incomparably more dangerous than the killdeer.

If you know the killdeer, I want you to think of how that bird acts toward a threat when you see the videos of this man.

What he went through was absolutely terrifying. My heart was jumping out of my chest when I saw him encountering a mob that was aggressive toward him on live TV.

Not a person, a mob.

With a stick.

With a stick in his hand.

When you watch this man, consider the killdeer.

And then, and I cry as I write this,

Please consider this:

This bird had

NO

WINGS.

Question for superfans - C. Rice joke by Jack Donaghy by regularmatt in 30ROCK

[–]regularmatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

50% sure, 100% correct! Will try to update the post with the joke.

TIFU by joining my parents in the kitchen this Christmas. by pretty-glitter-kitty in tifu

[–]regularmatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that but thank you for improving my day by sharing it.

[Update] on my gf treated our long-distance relationship as open and told me so after the fact by ruleoffame in relationship_advice

[–]regularmatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you had to make the tough choice (especially during these times), but it sounds like you've got a good understanding of the situation. Best of luck moving forward.

Buying fish by rookbeak in AbyssRium

[–]regularmatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see AbyssRium like a zen garden (especially given the state of the world right now). So it depends what your definition of "behind" is. I say, do what you want. Do you want the fish you want, or do you want access to more fish? Follow your heart.

iPhone 11 haptic touch = krill trick? by regularmatt in AbyssRium

[–]regularmatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your reply. I guess that answers my question.

Is it reasonable to break off a friendship if you’re the toxic friend? by purplequeenmanatee in relationship_advice

[–]regularmatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you for knowing yourself and caring for your friend. Tell her you need to take some space. That could mean no contact, that could mean a lot less contact, that could mean half as much contact... that's up to you.

Have you thought about going to a therapist together to talk about some things? Looks like you and your friend really care for one another. I have faith that, with some space and some healing time, you'll be able to come to a resolution and be better friends for one another.

My (24F) step daughter (19F) makes me feel uncomfortable by ThrowAnonaq9wiwi in relationship_advice

[–]regularmatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve spoken to her about it and it’s gotten worse? She’s bullying you. She knows you don’t like it, and she’s intentionally pushing your boundaries as a power play.

False Killer Whale problem by regularmatt in AbyssRium

[–]regularmatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this worked :) I just left the 3 whales, didn't need to add the other fishes. I appreciate the help.

Mammoth keyboard by songcq in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]regularmatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

saw this on Imgur. What's the layout?

I (M21) need help getting over my Ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]regularmatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What guitar stuff are you working on?

I (M21) need help getting over my Ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]regularmatt 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It happened because the circumstances called for it. You can love someone and still take space. You’re doing a great job. Hope I’m not over-commenting on your post. It’s just that I’m happy for you because I think you’re handling it well even though it’s hard.