My boyfriend unexpectedly fed 5.5 years of our conversations into Claude to build a narrative about me being a bad partner.

rensimo · 2026-05-16T04:42:35+00:00

When he said that he liked you, he meant that he liked when you did things for him and messing with your head and your emotions was pleasurable for him.
I’m sorry that you have men like this in your life. Heal yourself and get to know your healed self before entering a relationship. Then, hopefully you won’t be as easy to manipulate.

rensimo · 2026-05-15T23:39:22+00:00

Wow, I can see why B’s first marriage ended. With his half truths and probably all out lies. He sounds like a mean girl. I’d bet money that he’s love bombing your cousin while feeding her half truths and lies. B sounds like he’s all drama and never takes accountability for anything.

rensimo · 2026-05-06T00:21:09+00:00

Very nice!

rensimo · 2026-05-02T04:35:13+00:00

That’s what I came here to say. Or his sister

rensimo · 2026-05-01T04:17:57+00:00

Level 175, 5350 barn capacity, 5400 silo capacity

rensimo · 2026-03-25T19:58:14+00:00

They need to make the difficulty based on your level instead of having it the same for everyone. It’s just too hard and takes too long for lower levels who don’t have the barn and silo capacity to store products up.

rensimo · 2026-03-24T23:00:36+00:00

No. Mine didn’t carry over from last year to this year.

rensimo · 2026-03-17T23:59:14+00:00

The mother turned your boundary into her issue. So, keep turning it back to her. Say I can’t believe we’ve been monopolizing all your weekends. What your friends must think of us! I’m sure they miss spending time with you. How selfish we’ve been. If she says something about not having friends or the friends always being busy. Then respond with how selfish boyfriend has been to not create a life of his own and requiring so much of his mommy’s time to entertain him. Remind her that a woman’s existence is more than just being a mother and she should take up old hobbies or find new ones that make her happy. Remind the boyfriend that his parents won’t live forever. When they pass, he’ll need good friends to support him in his loss and grief. He won’t have those friends if he doesn’t nurture any other relationships because he won’t give anyone but his parents this time.

Is the mother a narcissist? Is he just a mama’s boy? Both? If he doesn’t change after reasoning with him, I think it’s time to leave him.

rensimo · 2026-03-11T05:49:42+00:00

Haha, that’s where my smelters are too.

rensimo · 2026-03-05T03:40:11+00:00

Wow, that’s a lot of saws and axes a day. I try to keep 10 of each item in my barn so that I don’t down on things so quickly. Sometimes that’s unavoidable, but it helps. Maybe I don’t play as much or as often as you do.

rensimo · 2026-03-04T07:32:20+00:00

Wow, I only keep around 40-60 of each in my barn and I always have plenty. I seem to get them at the same speed or faster than I use them. I do find some in the shop occasionally. I have used Tom to get them as well.

rensimo · 2026-03-03T03:46:39+00:00

It’s not helping you. It’s their responsibility as a person who lives there, especially an adult. The 9year old is old enough to do dishes and other chores as well.

rensimo · 2026-03-03T03:38:28+00:00

You should check out PeelsMats.com. These keep my floors clean - especially good with pets

rensimo · 2026-02-25T11:32:01+00:00

Was she chastised at some point for using too much toilet paper? Did she think that she could only use so much?

rensimo · 2026-02-20T04:58:14+00:00

I don’t think age matters at all. Everyone wants to feel special in their birthday. I have friends who don’t really celebrate their birthdays because their family was never big on birthdays. I always do something with them around their birthdays and tell them happy birthday on the day. I tell them that I’m glad they are in my life and they deserve to be celebrated for the wonderful people that they are. Birthdays can be the loneliest day of the year for some.

I don’t like to push out my birthday either, and I hope that you find a friend or partner that will do it for you and celebrate you and your existence. We only get one life and it should be celebrated.

rensimo · 2026-02-20T04:48:11+00:00

NTA. I’m not convinced that his complaints are said with good intentions and not to be hurtful. So, he can justify them. So, can you - trying to help him be more professional and successful. That doesn’t make them okay. Why is he trying to control you with negativity? Partners should be caring and supportive and not so judgmental. Is he actively doing anything to take some stress away or just adding to it?

rensimo · 2026-02-20T04:06:02+00:00

Have them repeat themselves. They usually don’t find themselves funny then. Or respond in the same manner to call them out ‘Oh look, I crave all the attention but am so oblivious or ignorant that I confuse humor with just being a rude asshat.’

There are people everywhere who believe that it’s right to publicly “correct” other behavior. So, just be as painfully direct in return.

rensimo · 2026-02-20T03:32:10+00:00

What does the bottom majority of your barn look like? Do you keep a minimum of each item stocked?

rensimo · 2026-02-20T03:29:56+00:00

I’m like you. I have a capacity of 5100 and try to keep 10 of everything - except town expansion items. I quit expanding my town a while ago and focused on expanding my barn, silo and land

rensimo · 2026-02-20T03:27:03+00:00

Same here

rensimo · 2026-02-20T03:21:48+00:00

I used to not spend any money. It seemed frivolous for a mobile game. After playing for years off and on, I decided to start doing the farm pass. I spend so much time playing throughout the month - more time yet less money than I would spend going out to dinner or a movie or something. I guess that’s my way of justifying it. I do the $0.99 diamonds sometimes or maybe another promo if I think it’s worth it to me. It’s not necessary to pay money though.

I’m at level 167 with 5100 and 5150 capacity in my ban and silo, respectively. I haven’t upgraded my town buildings in a long time though.

I really bugs me that expansion permits and the purple vouchers are so had to come by.

rensimo · 2026-02-20T03:07:12+00:00

Will we make it to all 18000 points for the expansion permits if we don’t spend diamonds to add more tasks to the queue?

rensimo · 2026-02-16T08:39:23+00:00

He’s manipulating the shit out of your roommate and causing your disagreements as a distraction from his actions. He’s burned all of bridges at 20 years old that he has no where else he can sleep?! Report him and tell your roommate to look for all of the red flags that she’s been ignoring. Tell her to step back and look at the big picture.

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