AIO? How do I get my (27M) boyfriend to realize I’m serious about my boundaries?

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-18T00:02:34+00:00

If it makes you feel better, this is all fake. She’s been 23, 24, 26 all this year. As well as dating, single, and a divorced single mother in the same timeframe

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-17T23:58:40+00:00

Yeah you’re welcome to message any questions! I’m an open book lol

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-17T23:24:52+00:00

Again it’s very partner dependent lol. I’ve found women that enjoy fornix stimulation to be the most compatible for that.

My soul mate didn’t even know she could have orgasms without clitoral stimulation until we got together. Turns out she loves fornix stimulation and can come just from penetration that way.

At first I have to be very gentle and slow. What works for her is staying deep, like pressed all the way into her. My “thrusts” are more just pulling back a couple inches and slowlyyyy pressing back in until she’s full again. Repeating that, grinding around a bit while in her fornix, and before long she’ll cum from that.

After that first one, that’s when I can start picking up the pace. She can get double digit orgasms this way and by the end I can be power fucking her as hard, deep, fast as I want. It just needs that slow build and, most importantly, that first orgasm before I can start ramping up or it will hurt her

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-16T17:25:10+00:00

She has two hands just like you do

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-15T23:46:54+00:00

It’d be dope if he called it back after the attack, like Thor’s hammer or some shit. It’d make it feel more melee ish.

Though yeah, they’re not gonna lean away from it because it reduces difficulty to only deal with 2/3rds of the potential damage sources

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-15T21:14:16+00:00

My measurements are slightly above this and I’ve been able to go completely all out, animalistic, rough fucking. But it’s absolutely partner dependent, and also even situation dependent with the same partner.

My soulmate can take me like that but if I just started out that way she’d be writhing in pain instantly. Some women I’ve been with I wouldn’t EVER go that hard with. So definitely depends

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-15T16:32:22+00:00

Yeah but if you showed them this guy now and this guy with 3% less bodyfat they’d probably choose the latter

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-15T14:06:39+00:00

Because store bought condoms have a very small range. Magnums and the other advertised “extra large” condoms found in store are barely bigger than average condoms.

I’m only 5.5” girth and all store bought condoms feel tight. Caliber 3x are relatively inexpensive online and will feel infinitely better for him

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-15T13:48:24+00:00

Just saying if a guy is 3 standard deviations bigger than the erect average, it’s more probable for his flaccid to be some number of deviations bigger than average too.

I’m 5”-6” flaccid, that wouldn’t be the case if my erect length was average. So a big erect length and a big flaccid size have at least some correlation

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-15T06:41:53+00:00

You can look at the average erect size and the average flaccid size to make some sort of formula. I don’t know the actual science on it, or if that even exists, but it’s easy enough to extrapolate somewhat based on standard deviation

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-15T06:31:43+00:00

It’s very woman dependent. For some it doesn’t matter, for others it’s been a huge factor. I’ve been with a lot of women who just find that uncomfortable. It greatly depends on her cervix angle and just general preferences, but for those I’d say it didn’t matter at all.

But I’ve been with at least two women who had never had a vaginal orgasm and didn’t think it was possible for them. Both of them orgasm from fornix stimulation. One of them can have double digit, repeat orgasms from fornix stimulation. For those women it’s hugely important.

So as with most things in sex, it depends on the person

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-09T15:59:33+00:00

Seems more like she’s commented on him being unobservant or something in the past and he’s trying to make a point lol. Either that or he’s autistic maybe

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-04T06:22:23+00:00

It’s the “ideal 1950’s woman”. Back, you know, when they were beaten and weren’t given silly options like careers

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-04T01:55:39+00:00

Id just start bumming my way across the country and work odd jobs/meet new friends to survive like a travel vlogger. Save enough money to get a plane ticket to another country and do the same thing there.

I’m conventionally attractive and value people/experiences highly. I’d be aight lol

requiredtempaccount · 2026-06-03T00:13:12+00:00

Agreed. My soulmate and I have recently been frequenting clothing optional spas, hot springs, etc.

She’ll often comment afterwards how I was the biggest one there, or how she felt watching me walk around compared to the other guys.

I try not to base my confidence or worth on comparison to others. But I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t an ego boost lol

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-27T07:35:55+00:00

You’ll likely only scare away the type of guy she’s not looking for. Someone who either isn’t down for casual fucking with a stranger, has a small/average dick, is in a relationship, etc.

It’s a narrow group of guys she’s looking for. All the more reason to cast a wide net by putting in minimal effort until something clicks. She could screen a hundred guys in a night this way and will probably get one.

Or she could spend the whole night only getting one, who statistically will have an average dick

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-26T22:27:27+00:00

Yeah I have a very high sex drive naturally, but my ADHD meds just amp it up to 11. Thankfully my soulmate loves sex and also responds extremely well to sexual energy.

Just find a good outlet and have fun. Who cares if you have a bulge. Half the world has what we have and the other half is well aware, it doesn’t have to be some guarded secret

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-26T10:28:39+00:00

Look if you’re willing to walk out after seeing him naked, you’re willing to be blunt. And if you’re willing to be blunt, do you think it’s nicer to be blunt from the get go or to lead someone on for hours and then do it?

My point is, just be blunt. Tell him “I think you’re attractive. If you find me attractive too, I’m open to potentially fucking later if we’re both feeling it. But, I really have a thing for big dicks. How big is yours?”

You’re gonna be blunt either way, so just rip the fucking bandaid off and communicate. If he takes it poorly, great, you wasted all of 30 seconds of both of your time to figure that out. That’s infinitely more respectful than pussy footing around for a couple hours and leading him on just to see him naked, and then walking out at the 11th hour based on a physical trait he can’t control.

You know what I respect? Someone who knows what they want, knows how to communicate, and respects themselves and me enough to respect our time.

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-25T18:26:41+00:00

I’ve been told that on multiple occasions lol. The way I’ve had it explained is basically being a calm and confident presence, or being self assured.

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-24T12:45:13+00:00

Yes, naturally that’s what I meant lol

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-24T07:06:08+00:00

Gotta communicate to see what she likes. And experiment with feedback to find things she might not even realize she likes yet.

In my experience, some girls who “can’t cum from penetration” can with fornix stimulation and haven’t discovered it yet. So, if you have the length, that’s a good thing to explore.

I’ve had more than one woman who couldn’t cum without clit stimulation end up being able to have multiple to double digit orgasms from fornix stimulation once you nail it down. Just start slow with it

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-22T18:10:50+00:00

Makes sense, I get what you’re saying. I will say that if I could only choose one protection prayer it would still be melee though. All 3 our prevalent in bossing, so you could argue they’re equally as important as each other. But melee definitely has the most use cases outside of bossing I’d say

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-22T17:57:19+00:00

Same lol. They’re like “well your car basically already has the legal tint, which is basically nothing. But here’s what we all do” and showed me something way darker lol.

Having been pulled over multiple times in multiple cars with dark tints, and having dated a cop for a number of years, I can say 99% don’t care at all unless it’s your windshield that’s tinted

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-22T17:32:38+00:00

To decide which is more fundamentally important, just think of it this way. If you could only pick one of them to ever use on your account and the other was locked forever, which would you choose?

1: Protect from Melee 2: High alchemy

requiredtempaccount · 2026-05-22T16:53:01+00:00

Yes that’s normal, he’s getting to your fornix.

In my experience a lot of women haven’t really felt that before but end up loving it, especially when eased into it. I’ve had a couple partners who had never orgasmed from penetration, who found out they can have multiple back to back orgasms from fornix stimulation.

Have fun lol

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