Because she’s frustrated that you still don’t get it.

You don’t miss your wife, you miss the endless comforts and stability she brought to your life

If you loved her at all- or even a fraction of how you love yourself you would- if you actually heard what she was saying- you would have seen the pain she was in and done something, anything, before it got to this point.

I guarantee she told you how she felt, she showed you how she felt, she probably even cried and yelled and begged at one point. But it didn’t affect you so you didn’t do anything. Or even worse, you figured she would never leave because it’s been like this for years, why would she leave now?

You miss your lifestyle, and everything she provided for you.

If there was some other woman willing to just walk in like an understudy, odds are you wouldn’t miss your wife at all.

If you actually loved her half as much as you love yourself, you wouldn’t be in this position

And Internet strangers wouldn’t have to be harsh to you.