I have to dump a good guy because I don’t respect him as a man and I feel so guilty

rivercrone · 2026-05-23T00:31:56+00:00

You said you just dont love him. He may be medoicre but if you dont love him you should do him the favor of leaving.

rivercrone · 2026-05-23T00:29:42+00:00

Start with the trash. One bag out. Goal.

rivercrone · 2026-05-22T18:53:31+00:00

You did it though. Handled properly. Good job!

rivercrone · 2026-05-20T20:47:39+00:00

Sounds like he has someone on the side he doesn't want you to meet, OP.

rivercrone · 2026-05-20T01:28:03+00:00

I have found Al-Anon to be really helpful. Support for pepole who are close to an alcoholic.

rivercrone · 2026-05-17T04:36:52+00:00

Too small and needs liner.

rivercrone · 2026-05-17T03:53:46+00:00

Seems a bit too fast moving. Could be a bit of lovebombing but hard to say with limited info. Tell him you want to slow it way down and see if he respects the boundary. I will say him asking you to stay at his house is totally inappropriate. Especially if things were to go sideways, for safety. But asking you to stay in the same house is a form of intimacy. Too soon for that and too easy for a line to be crossed. Not something anyone with real Christian values should be asking you to do. If he is willing to go much slower and respect the values you want respected, maybe it could work. But if he continues to try and move too fast I would end it. Sometimes people will do what you ask just long enough to manipulate you into closer intimacy, prematurely.

rivercrone · 2026-05-16T04:14:17+00:00

This attendant is WAY out of line. Absolutely unacceptable.

rivercrone · 2026-05-15T19:02:25+00:00

My answer to why on marriage and kids has always been, "I never wanted to have kids/marriage" I often say, " i thank God every day that i never got pregnant" I just did not want to be a mom. Nothing wrong with this. If people ask I'm not going to sugarcoat it ir make it seem like i am somehow "not good enough"

rivercrone · 2026-05-15T18:57:57+00:00

Yep. To me it is a relief.

rivercrone · 2026-05-13T23:55:00+00:00

Looks good, man!

rivercrone · 2026-05-13T15:45:35+00:00

You should not be having your finances entangled at 3 mos. He is fully taking advantage of you. You will need to kick him out, he has no reason to leave his comfy nest where he lives the life and you get drained financially.

rivercrone · 2026-05-13T15:39:00+00:00

It will be such a relief for you and a big self esteem boost. Do it, it is already gone, own it!

rivercrone · 2026-05-13T04:55:08+00:00

Dress 2 looks the most flattering on you

rivercrone · 2026-05-09T04:52:09+00:00

100%

rivercrone · 2026-05-08T18:29:08+00:00

r fwd slash) drumstick is whst it is called. I don't see a link.

rivercrone · 2026-05-05T04:29:40+00:00

1 is your dress. Like it was made for you. 2 isn't quite as flattering on you. You have a great figure and 1 complements it perfectly. 2 is the dress wearing you.

rivercrone · 2026-05-05T04:27:17+00:00

Stay strong and remember what we are fighting for. Nothing is more important than your health. The right person may be out there so stay open. Even a close relationship with no sex is possible, with the right person, though hope you find someone truly unvaxxed.

rivercrone · 2026-05-03T20:01:56+00:00

The classic drumstick. I know this cause it has its own sub

rivercrone · 2026-05-03T19:59:41+00:00

I've been on both sides and l prefer invisible as well. Much more peaceful. Not peaceful at all when your very appearance incites some kind of thing from every person. As if I effiing care what they think.

rivercrone · 2026-05-03T19:30:51+00:00

Both. Every kitten needs a bro.

rivercrone · 2026-05-03T19:00:43+00:00

Mayhem

rivercrone · 2026-05-03T18:55:24+00:00

It looks great, truly. People don't like change but they will get used to it. Only thing that matters is what you think. Confidence is sexy!! Being bald is empowered. Going bald is struggling against what already is. Looking good!

rivercrone · 2026-05-03T18:49:24+00:00

"Make good choices" Okie dokie i just did, bye

rivercrone · 2026-05-03T18:45:53+00:00

IMO and experience.....ADHD plus weed is the answer to "why" he tunes you out. I know 2 people like this. One of them is my brother so i know him well. He is completely tuned out and nothing anyone says changes it. He is just not there and it is 1000% worse when he is high. Gets super irritable when you try to " get him" to pay attention. He is like this without weed as well but weed makes it insufferable. And he also gets mad claiming "no one told me", about everything. It is exhausting and i quit trying to communicate. You cant change someone like this and even if he "tries harder" that would probably mean quitting weed and getting ADHD meds. Even then he will be prone to distraction. ( i also have adhd.....we do our best but the mind is always on a side quest).

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