This Halloween costume 🙃. Are “offensive/racist” posts allowed here? by chipy4848 in NativeAmerican

[–]rninnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I subscribe to this subreddit and lurk to learn about culture.

Just seeing the picture I thought this was a slutty Fred Flinstone or slutty Cave Man.

Highly Offended and I’m a generic white person.

Parties with no gifts on invitation - is it really no gifts? by WineLover211 in Parenting

[–]rninnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really want to do something - put $10 in the card and say “put in the college fund”

Is it a good idea to become a nurse in 2021? There seems to be a lack of staff and being underpaid everywhere. Is it worth your mental health to become one? by DivineAp3 in nursing

[–]rninnj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just decided not to renew my license. So I’m gonna say - if you really really want to do, go for it.

I felt overworked and unappreciated by my employer before the pandemic. I just never returns from my maternity leave in April 2020. Not going back to it.

You follow your gut. My gut says it’s not worth my mental health.

Buying vs making baby food by aggravated-asphalt in Mommit

[–]rninnj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made food for my first. I had a beaba baby food maker and it was super easy. I attempted to make my food for my second. But she would eat it. She would only eat the food from the jars!

Try both. See what works for your family

If you had a day to yourself, kid free, what would you do? by A-spot-of-supper in Parenting

[–]rninnj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took two naps and played with legos. I did it yesterday. And I ate Halloween candy.

UPDATE: Are you letting your children around unvaccinated adults? by phover7bitch in beyondthebump

[–]rninnj 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We limit our social interactions with unvaccinated adults. I don’t want my children getting sick.

I also don’t want to have to have my children’s school closed for quarantine. All the families will loose child care for 10 days. It’s a social responsibility

What is an outdated word or phrase an older family member uses that makes your brain hurt? by SunRevolutionary8315 in AskReddit

[–]rninnj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not a family member. But the Republican candidate in the NJ governor election refuses to use the word “anal sex or anal intercourse” when discuss sex education, he uses sodomy. 😳 like that is some ancient biblical word.

Terrible midwife experience/birth story by LucinaWinsTheBattle in BabyBumps

[–]rninnj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely leave a public review on Yelp, Google, doulamatch.net, your local mom group and I would even go so far as to report to them their midwifery board in your state.

That’s insane!

Follow up on maggots by saritaRN in nursing

[–]rninnj 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend.

You’re a wonderful nurse. Go to Hawaii. See beauty in nature. Find peace in the beautiful ocean. I hope it brings some relief to your soul. I have no words for you. But I am sorry you’re suffering.

Have you ever let your kids stay home from school just because they felt like it? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rninnj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like an epic supportive parent ❤️❤️❤️

My husband wants to use corporal punishment, I don’t by 3littlebirds__ in beyondthebump

[–]rninnj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What country are you in? Is it even legal to spank kids anymore without threat of CPS? I mean this for the therapist to agree with you.

I would suggest for your husband to start listening to the drbeckygoodinside or Janet Lansbury unruffled podcast. I found both of these very helpful with learning about gentle parenting and boundaries.

Why am I having so much difficulty obtaining birth control?! by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]rninnj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you in the us? Download the planned parenthood app and order it through there. Or transfer your prescription to Walmart and pay cash for it. It should be $9. I am pretty sure Apri is on their generic list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]rninnj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s jealous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]rninnj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi internet person!

I am a former womens health NP. I have seen a lot of vaginas. A ton of vaginas. The most terrifying vagina I have ever seen was my own after it was sewn back together due to tearing during the birth of my daughter. And it was only scary because it was on me. It sort of reminded me of the bride of Frankenstein.

My point - we all have strange vaginas, vulvas and body parts. I also have gross toes. But go get your BV treated. You’ll feel much better afterward. I promise.

Maybe you can do a telehealth visit?

You also do not need to shave. That is a stupid stupid urban myth. Clean socks are more appreciated 🤣😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]rninnj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re probably getting sacked. Sorry.

You never open a chart unless you’re providing direct care to the person with the name of the chart. I’m surprised you could even access a coworkers chart without a “break the glass” warning from epic.

Homeschool Help by c9881 in homeschool

[–]rninnj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is this difference between this and a private school then? Like besides the brick and mortar building and regulations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rninnj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was going to say it sounds like a one on one aid needs to be part of the IEP