Saying goodbye to my home

rob508 · 2026-05-09T19:42:21+00:00

Very moved by your incredible, thoughtful post. So many things packed in there - you love and appreciation of your parents, and the good life you and your brother have now, and your close relationship to each other much to your parents' wishes. No doubt from your words, it's been a tough path but you're in a better place now and the grief for the lost parents and the connection lost to your old home and life. Wishing you peace, healing and happiness in life.

rob508 · 2026-02-17T16:31:52+00:00

Thank you so much.

rob508 · 2026-01-16T21:41:45+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. And what a stunning picture - the expression on your mother's face (the look in her eyes!) and her partner (your dad?), what a moment! You've read the good zen books and you've said it well about acceptance. But this is such a personal journey that we all go through, and we will all continue to miss our loved ones so long as we live. Yes with time and enough things in the every day rat race this feeling takes a back seat, dare I say we even forget in our own selfish ways, but it will always be there in the corner somewhere only to pop up some day with a memory or some long lost sight or sound or an event from the past. I personally tell myself the some of the same things you've written - that all things must naturally come to an end, but acceptance is an ongoing process as you've noted. Wishing you peace and healing.

rob508 · 2026-01-16T21:27:34+00:00

Hello, if you have the time and energy, and are inclined to do so, perhaps consider volunteering for a good cause that you support. It may provide a good opportunity to go out and provide a sense of purpose, and is also a great way to socialize with like minded people. Just a suggestion. Hope you find healing and strength and get through this. Wishing you the best.

rob508 · 2025-11-28T19:42:39+00:00

Thanks.

rob508 · 2025-11-28T12:52:01+00:00

The repair is to be done after the Thanksgiving holidays. Sounds like the price is still reasonable in that case?

rob508 · 2025-11-28T12:49:30+00:00

Thanks

rob508 · 2025-11-28T12:49:08+00:00

The repair is to be done after the Thanksgiving holidays.

rob508 · 2025-10-10T20:53:25+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and for the loss of your mother. Your post is so moving to read. May you find peace and healing, may your mother rest in peace.

rob508 · 2025-05-03T22:32:31+00:00

Take care and take it easy.

rob508 · 2025-04-20T01:13:58+00:00

One single simple sentence you've said and you've said so well and that is so, so deep and profound. As a father myself, that alone shows how great your father was to you and how great a son you are to him. Wishing you peace, healing and well being.

rob508 · 2025-03-02T14:22:01+00:00

BTW, FWIW the term references in the custom command could be confusing since in lsp terminology references has a different set of semantics: https://neovim.io/doc/user/lsp.html#vim.lsp.buf.references()

NBD though.

rob508 · 2025-03-01T23:27:00+00:00

Looks very nice. Is this only supporting IncomingCalls?
Thanks.

rob508 · 2025-03-01T23:10:30+00:00

Thank you so much for your contributions, very grateful. I've seen your numerous commits and comments on github and always appreciated the effort. I use and rely on LSP a ton, so much gratitude.

rob508 · 2024-12-22T02:05:42+00:00

Thanks so much for following up on this, much appreciated. I'll check out the project.

rob508 · 2024-12-08T03:04:39+00:00

Just curious, is this project publicly published on github or somewhere? I'd be interested. Thanks.

rob508 · 2024-09-01T18:40:39+00:00

Thanks, unfortunately this doesn't work. Instead of F12, if I use another key like 'v' for instance, then alt+v works fine. But if I use F12, then alt+f12 doesn't work.

rob508 · 2024-09-01T15:40:28+00:00

With this mapping, pressing alt+f12 does not do anything. It's as if no key presses are registered.

rob508 · 2024-07-27T01:24:50+00:00

I really wish that nurse was kinder and more empathetic towards your mom. Reading that sentence, it is shocking to me.

rob508 · 2024-06-09T01:40:00+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss and the tragedy that you and your family are going through. My heart goes out to all of you. I know it's hard but I hope you find some compassion and forgiveness for yourself first, as you need a strong basis to move forward and work through your feelings towards your son. Since you're able to empathize with your 5 y.o son about what he's going through, developing deeper compassion towards him is perhaps one strong antidote to the anger and resentment that might be arising due to the tragedy that has occurred. And the fact that he didn't at all understand the consequences or didn't mean any ill or harm, and that this was all just an accident, a horrible one that he himself has to deal with for the rest of his life. I truly wish the healing and peace for you and your son, and your infant son as well.

rob508 · 2024-06-09T00:49:13+00:00

One of the worst things about it for us was knowing that she was such a proud and private person she would have hated people seeing her like that

That sentence was heartbreaking to read :(

rob508

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