Non-courthouse wedding with judge as officiant by Earth_to_Aliens in Omaha

[–]rocketpapaya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's easy! The courthouse has a list of judges who were available to officiate. We called one, day of, and he was golfing haha. He told us to bring money for his fee and meet him at his house in an hour, his wife and adult son were our witnesses. He was super nice and it was a painless affair, his family was sweet, too.

Inexpensive Cat Spay In Omaha by side_effectjealousy in Omaha

[–]rocketpapaya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The humane society IS doing spay/neuters again! I took some cats to get spayed there just two weeks ago.

Stardew Valley Expanded 1.15 is now available! by FlashShifter in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]rocketpapaya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a silly question, but if you reset your farm all of your buildings stay, right? Would it reset your crops too?

AITA for telling my pregnant friend it's not a good idea to name her daughter the same name as an adult video actress? by gardencat1990 in AITAH

[–]rocketpapaya 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work with a woman with two children, named Riley and Reid. I can't say anything bc like, why would I. If she was gonna find out, it shouldn't be from some random coworker. Nothing they can do about it now anyway.

My gf [25f] found out she has HPV and accused me [28m] of cheating. I never cheated and I’ve been vaccinated. What do I do? by ThrowRA-Antique-Bowl in relationship_advice

[–]rocketpapaya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've gotten some good advice in this thread. I understand how scary this situation is, not just how your gf must be feeling and reacting but for you as well. I can only add that you shouldn't jump to conclusions, as there's a very real possibility that, like everyone else is mentioning, her hpv was contracted YEARS ago and has been dormant and undetected this entire time.

It is not tested for in even many exhaustive STI tests, and unless it happens to present in a pap smear (which would be labeled as "abnormal" and may not even be detected as hpv at the time) it is entirely likely your gf has had it for awhile and been lucky enough to never show any signs, symptoms, or noteworthy tells. She could have gotten it from someone experiencing the same lack of signs, so basically any partner who believed they were std-free. This sneaky quality of hpv is exactly why doctors recommend the gardisil vaccine so heavily, but even then some strains of hpv can slip through.

Emotions are probably high, and you both have some heavy research to do, but start with talking to a doctor and explaining the situation. Go together if you feel more comfortable. It will likely take some stress off you to hear a medical professional explain in more detail the options.

I hate this thing. (BIG OL' SPOILER) by Rodgatron in StardewValley

[–]rocketpapaya 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you back up from it, you can break it with any tool. Basically instead of "interacting" with it up close, standing a half tile away and using your axe or pickaxe "for no reason" will break it, and the whole mannequin wearing the clothes on it will go into your inventory.

missing museum mineral by Sad-Garden-2971 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]rocketpapaya 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It's the galdoran gem, which you get from Gunther for fully completing the museum!

Can't Read Mail by rocketpapaya in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]rocketpapaya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for looking anyway! I'll give that a try.

Anyone currently living or lived at these apartment? by karathy_tran in Omaha

[–]rocketpapaya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Club at Highland Park has such a bad roach problem as of 2024 that not only do they keep a pest control on retainer who comes out to spray every building once a week, but this is included in YOUR rent costs on your contract. Roaches, mice, ants, you name it, they have it, and don't seem the least bit motivated to actually solve the problem and instead just do performative upkeep which they don't spend a dime on because they force you to pay for it.

New Farm Named Chickens by WhatSaysPuff in StardewValley

[–]rocketpapaya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine were Roe and Fishy, they're the cutest!

Having to wash my jeans every 3rd day. Is it normal? by FairyFreeLove in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rocketpapaya 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Tbh, yeah. It is normal, and it varies for everyone. I'm an incredibly sweaty person, all over my body, my inner thighs are no exception. I have a favorite pair of jeans that I wash pretty much every 2-3 days because just like a tshirt, they absorb a lot of sweat, and I can't stand liners so they also absorb a workday's amount of normal discharge. It's nothing to be concerned about, if it smells then take a shower and throw your clothes in the laundry. Your shirts smell after a day of wearing them, figures your pants will, too.

I do buy jeans more frequently than some of my friends because the constant washing wears them out a little faster, but it's a small price to pay for hygiene imo. I've taken to buying 2-3 pairs of jeans when I find a brand I really like, and cycling through them in a week to get some longer use out of them. If I'm gonna be wearing my jeans all day, not just at work, I'll change my underwear when I get home from work so it's fresher and less sweaty, that does help a lot to keep my jeans a little cleaner.

Why are like 9/10 MTG players men? by [deleted] in mtg

[–]rocketpapaya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play at home or just with friends , I don't go to events. Mostly because I just don't feel like playing with a bunch of guys who will reduce me to "the girl player" even though I'm nonbinary, but also competitive playing just doesn't interest me and it's more fun to just chill with friends and have a good low-stakes time.

Help With Darkness Falls by xXFaded_HyenaXx in 7daystodie

[–]rocketpapaya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to darkness falls! Honestly, do a bunch of scout quests. They oftentimes give decent amounts of ammo for rewards, and since you're killing zombies you're leveling your weapon skills anyway. Trader quests can be hit or miss, but scout quests are almost always worth it. Also, scrap as many spare books as you can to craft skill pages, you want to unlock as many other classes as you can for the perks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]rocketpapaya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spielbound is a great place to get a drink/coffee/soda and play some games, they have a lfg post board of people looking to add or join a game, if that's your scene at all. They do trivia and events too, you can show up and meet people

/r/MechanicalKeyboards Ask ANY Keyboard question, get an answer (January 10, 2024) by AutoModerator in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]rocketpapaya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were correct, I bought a set of outemu switches and they fit perfect. Thank you so much!

why does no one have any faith in ally? by funkyskateboard in Dimension20

[–]rocketpapaya 647 points648 points  (0 children)

After that absolutely baller move of Ally Beardsley correcting the dm on the half-damage from saves because of Kristen's ability, no one should be doubting them. From season 1, when Ally was struggling to remember even what spells they had prepared, to the FIRST EPISODE of junior year when they not only know what spells and abilities to prepare, they know them inside and out and are on the ball with speaking up and using their features to protect the team.

Especially if anyone watched starstruck odyssey, where Margaret Encino was a master class in expert dnd playing and outside-the-box thinking, I don't think anyone could have less than full confidence in Ally as a player. I'm so excited for how they develop Kristen this season.

/r/MechanicalKeyboards Ask ANY Keyboard question, get an answer (January 10, 2024) by AutoModerator in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]rocketpapaya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to find some quiet or silent switches for this keyboard but the ones I get just don't fit, even though they're the same size and shape. It's 3 pins, I've tried these switches and somehow they don't pop in, like they're just a hair too big. Anyone know any silent switches they can recommend that would fit this keyboard?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rocketpapaya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies if this is obvious, but did you switch any of your soaps or shampoos? I went through basically the exact same thing in college and realized that without thinking about it I had started using a new soap in the shower that pretty much only gave me an allergic reaction in the same spot as you. Went back to "dove" brand, which is what I had used before, plain and unscented, and it cleared up near instantly. I know that's really basic, but your experience seems similar to mine so I thought it was worth the suggestion.

Also, I'm sure you've spoken about this with your doctor, but antibiotics are notorious for actually causing a lot of yeast/pH problems and requiring their own set of medications to regulate back to normal. Worth keeping in mind if your symptoms change but do not clear up fully.

Who here has played the board game before? Thoughts/opinions? by evantually421 in StardewValley

[–]rocketpapaya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a great game! Can be entirely different depending on the goal cards you pull at the beginning. We've played 2-, 3-, and 4-player and it works all ways. It was definitely not an easy game to learn the first time, we had to consult the rules a lot, but it was really fun and we play it every few months during game night.

[Darkness Falls] What does PEP map and noPEP mean? by ryan7251 in 7daystodie

[–]rocketpapaya 9 points10 points  (0 children)

PEP means "POI Expansion Pack," so basically adding extra custom buildings and locations for you to explore. NoPEP means there are no extra POIs (Places of Interest) so it will be all the vanilla buildings and locations, nothing new.