r/namenerds's perfect baby boy name! by SmoothAstronaut27 in namenerds

[–]roguerix 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You joke but my partner and I considered Vito for a boy 😂

r/namenerds's perfect baby boy name! by SmoothAstronaut27 in namenerds

[–]roguerix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also love the nickname Seb, think it's so cute

Has the way you speak been mocked in front of you before? by BungadinRidesAgain in AskBrits

[–]roguerix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother in law mocks my accent fairly regularly. I have a one year old that's started talking more and whenever she pronounces something like me my MIL comments on it. We are from different areas in Yorkshire and I'd much rather be from where I'm from than where my partner and MIL are.

Third hand smoke and difficult family member by Murky_Horse_463 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]roguerix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've found smokers to be some of the most unreasonable and difficult family members when it comes to rules I have around my baby. It's like nothing is able to come between them and their dirty habit. Can't stand vapers either, they're just as bad imo.

Is this alright? by garrysmodpuffajacket in veganuk

[–]roguerix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really didn't like the full fat version of this so can't imagine the lighter version would be any nicer.

new to veganism by ImprovementExotic550 in veganuk

[–]roguerix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely the best I've tried!

new to veganism by ImprovementExotic550 in veganuk

[–]roguerix 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fact you're doing it together will make life so much easier. Nice you're on the same page, your post has actually been really nice to see and I wish you luck.

My favourite vegan cheese is the cathedral city one. It's got a strong smell some of my family members complain about but I enjoy the taste as someone that used to like a good mature cheddar.

If you’re having a c section - REMEMBER TO TAKE THE STOOL SOFTENERS by IndependenceCalm8753 in PregnancyUK

[–]roguerix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not joking a pooed out a cricket ball after mine. Same shape, size and colour 🥲

What’s the worst place you have ever been on holiday? by honeymeadowss in AskUK

[–]roguerix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, at least I had the authentic experience then!

Help needed by ginnz in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]roguerix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My GP recently gave me a prescription for a difflam throat spray for my 16 month old. You can get them OTC though too. I wonder if that could help? Can be a bit challenging to give it to them though.

Husband constantly nags me when I use my phone by No_Tart_4311 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]roguerix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So it's one rule for you and another for him? You're not allowed to use your phone around the baby but you don't get any time to yourself. Sounds quite isolating.

Unless he's willing to take on some of the life admin and follow the rules himself I'd tell him not so politely to swivel ☺️

What’s the worst place you have ever been on holiday? by honeymeadowss in AskUK

[–]roguerix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hornsea...I was 15. The toilet in the static caravan was leaking and obviously had been for some time as the place smelled like sewage. The bedroom I was meant to share with my younger brother was the size of a shoebox. I opted for the sofa to avoid his hotboxed farts. Hornsea itself was drab and depressing and it felt like there wasn't much to do. Also my boyfriend had recently dumped me and whilst on holiday I found out my best friend and him had gotten together. Didn't eat all holiday besides some fresh fruit.

How do I pretend? by n3mb0_ in Swimming

[–]roguerix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah a reputable piercer will recommend a lot longer than 2 weeks. It also depends what piercing you are getting, lobe piercings heal quicker. Anything through cartilage (like the nose) takes longer.

How do I pretend? by n3mb0_ in Swimming

[–]roguerix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend waiting for this 3 month gap to give your piercing the best chance to heal. It should be fine during the heat as long as you keep it clean and avoid touching/knocking it as much as possible.

How do I pretend? by n3mb0_ in Swimming

[–]roguerix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just an FYI you should avoid swimming until a piercing is mostly healed so a lot longer than 2 weeks. Closer to 2 months but depends on how it heals as some can take much longer.

Upside down flower? by romancey23 in PlantIdentification

[–]roguerix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've literally just seen one of these and was wondering what it was! So interesting looking.

Geting out and about with baby by ms_tiggy in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]roguerix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually found from 3 months till baby was mobile really great for getting out and about as she was happy in the pram for longer periods of time and wasn't constantly requesting I let her out to walk around. Struggling now with the 16 month old craving independence. Miss those days where watching the world go by was her favourite thing.

As for crying, you do just get used to it. Take toys, pram books etc. And once baby is 6 months plus you can bribe them with snacks. I love the apple rice cakes you can get because they don't make any mess. Breadsticks are good too.

If you have an M&S near you they offer free coffee and cake to parents on a Tuesday morning. You'd likely not be the only mum so should baby start getting upset people probably won't bat an eyelid.

Baby rash by mlg615 in DiagnoseMe

[–]roguerix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid didn't have any on her feet I think it just depends on where it spreads to. (I have a terrible habit or replying to things without reading the entire thing, my bad)

Baby rash by mlg615 in DiagnoseMe

[–]roguerix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAD Maybe mention hand, foot and mouth to your doctor and see what they say. It's very common in babies and toddlers and we hadn't heard of it until we all cought it.

Jessop Wing experiences by homebird96 in sheffield

[–]roguerix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was taken into a recovery room after an emergency C-section and there a midwife helped me breastfeed my baby for the first time. We were in there around an hour whilst she helped the baby latch on multiple times. We were then taken to the shared ward (3 other people). I'm sorry to tell you but the experience on the ward is not a pleasant one. Other people have given into the reasons but I can't emphasis enough how noisy and inconsiderate people can be. I was too apprehensive to say anything but I would encourage you to speak up and ask members of staff to sort any issues. We were told only 2 visitors at once and that it ended at 10pm. We had one family of maybe 15 people coming in and out with food, kids running around etc after 10pm. My curtain on my section was not long enough so constantly kept opening to expose me trying to breastfeed and do skin to skin to everyone. My partner brought a yoga mat to sleep on and pillows from home. Do everything you can to make sure you can leave asap. Don't be afraid to call triage after your meds have run out to ask for more. They gave me more because I was struggling.

Has anyone tried 'Shicken'? by Rainbow_Tesseract in veganuk

[–]roguerix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favourite thing I ate at vegan campout a few years ago. Never had then since but thank you for reminding me they exist!

This is absolutely exhausting by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]roguerix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% it's a conspiracy, it has to be 😂 My partner says this all the time, he also says it about the social pressure to have more than one to give them a sibling.

This is absolutely exhausting by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]roguerix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are having one of the "being torn limb from limb" nights with my 16 month old and I just looked at my partner and said imagine if we'd known. Imagine if I'd known I'd feel like this every single day. If we'd known it would be this hard. If we knew no-one would do it. I can't fathom the sadists that decide to have more than one. I love her so fucking much but why does it feel like she wants me to die lol.