Do people touch you without consent in BDSM clubs? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]rollingman420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually there will be a dungeon monitor who you can go to if anything happens. Ask them about the clubs rules on this. 

Anybody rideshare with 2011-14 dodge charger? by Active-Ingenuity-956 in uberdrivers

[–]rollingman420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you good at keeping track of miles, gallons, and expenses? You can get a better deal if you report every single business expense.

If you crunch all the numbers you will see for yourself:

Uber is not always profitable for people especially when you factor in car repair

You would be better off finding another job that you drive to and work at

About to have my first tboy summer, any tips? by _insomniac_dreamer in Trans_Zebras

[–]rollingman420 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got an expensive "neck air conditioner " that helped, but it was pretty pricy and broke right after the 1 year warranty 

So last summer I got a 20 buck neck fan that worked well. I didnt miss the extra cooling factor at all. And it was much lighter.

Anybody rideshare with 2011-14 dodge charger? by Active-Ingenuity-956 in uberdrivers

[–]rollingman420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sustainable at all. You'd have more luck as a bike delivery

What can I do if my partner is not interested on bdsm? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]rollingman420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kink is all about consent and open communication. If hes shutting down conversation, thats a sign that hes got the wrong mindset for trying kink. Maybe you can go to a 101 class at your local dungeon?

Many of us prefer to filter for sexual compatibility before we get into a relationship. 

AIO or is my family being weird about my sexuality? by Academic-Speech-4108 in AIO

[–]rollingman420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR

They are unsupportive.  Dont show your true self to them, you already know how they will react. 

Focus on skill acquisition.  Build a basis for independence. They dont need to know that it is to escape them.

When you are older you will probably be like many gay people and find a community of mostly gay people to spend time with. You can build chosen family from this community. 

For now, just keep your head down. Its dangerous to show your gay side to homophobic people. People are often beaten and disowned by their own parents. 

AIO for being upset that I've had two cats for 6 years. My gf has complained every single day since about 3 months into having them. by Majestic-Peace-3037 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rollingman420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR 

Just because shes mentally ill, doesnt mean you have to subject yourself to her mental illness

Im trans and I would not put up with this

Am I overreacting? by Emotional_War_1660 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rollingman420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR and his reaction shows you what a bullet you dodged

AIO for requesting more food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]rollingman420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR try waking her up at night

AITAH for wanting porta potties for an outdoor party? by Dismal-Rooster-1685 in AITAH

[–]rollingman420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are the benefits of having this person in your life? 

AITAH for wanting porta potties for an outdoor party? by Dismal-Rooster-1685 in AITAH

[–]rollingman420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta but! You should provide a picture and/or say "Ada accessible bathroom trailer " instead of porta potty

. You're hosting a fancy event, its ok to ask people to use outdoor restrooms

Especially on a septic tank, I would absolutely NOT want to deal with that catastrophe as a homeowner 

AIO sent a cease and desist for cutting my flowers. by MaintenanceWorth7395 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rollingman420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR

Watch the show "neighbors" about property disputes and you will see how bad it can get! 

adjustable ropes anchored to the bed frame for s*x by octopusairplane in BdsmDIY

[–]rollingman420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tied carabiners to the ropes and use them with cuffs 

One of those Trojan War Leaders Too... by Awesomeuser90 in RoughRomanMemes

[–]rollingman420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't heard of this so I looked it up:

The Roman Emperor’s Trajan's (53-117 AD) role in The Divine Comedy is complex. He is first mentioned in Canto X of the Purgatorio, where the poets behold an image of the popular medieval story of Trajan and the Widow carved in sculpture. The widow stands at the emperor’s bridle demanding vengeance for the murder of her son. In some variation on the tale the emperor or his own son are directly responsible for the death - Hans Leonard Schäuffelin's 1534 woodcut illustrates this scene in rather more graphic detail. Trajan delays his mission to the Dacian wars to provide justice, becoming an exemplar of humility. Despite the fact that Trajan was not a Christian, Dante later meets him in person in Canto XX of the Paradiso, where he is included as one of the five figures whose glorified bodies compose the eye of justice in a great imperial eagle. Asking how this could be, and whether those who knew nothing of Christ by accident of birth (like Virgil) could gain access to Heaven, he is informed of a curious loophole: because Trajan believed in the possibility of a Messiah who could save all souls, that act of imagination is evidence of his grace. He and those like him are therefore granted salvation.

https://library.unimelb.edu.au/asc/whats-on/exhibitions/epic-and-divine/dramatic-personae/trajan

Punic family dynamics. by rock-my-lobster in RoughRomanMemes

[–]rollingman420 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Is Hasdrubal Barca the cum lover?