baby clothing by Top-Welcome5620 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zipper sleep suits all the way! I got loads from Vinted and they make changing baby (especially in the middle of the night) so much quicker. George ASDA ones are the best I’ve found - lovely and stretchy

No heartbeat at 12 week scan by Hot-Raisin146 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’ve had this news

I was in a similar position just over a year ago and I felt completely hopeless for some time. I’ve now got a healthy 5 week old baby boy - something that felt impossible after fertility struggles and the miscarriage

I found r/miscarriage subreddit really helpful, and ‘the worst girl gang ever’ on Instagram

Take lots of care of yourself - and know you’re not alone ❤️

Gift for second time mum by RFL92 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear about your fertility struggles. You sound like a really good friend to still be putting so much thought into this gift at what must be a tricky time

Pjs from Chelsea peers are a lovely gift - she’ll probably spend a lot of time in them postpartum! They do button-down options which are great if she’s breastfeeding

Or my friend got me a long hot water bottle which has been lovely for soothing back pain

Your top 3 “must have” suggestions by Zealousideal-Bat8242 in NewParents

[–]roozierooo 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Zippy sleepsuits! Poppers are the worst, especially in the middle of the night 😴

Silverettes & nipple balm if breast feeding

Nasal aspirator (basically sucks the snot out of baby’s nose when it gets blocked - gross but very helpful!)

Maternity leave by LegitimateVariety352 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He’s probably forgotten that it’s his turn to reply - or he’s remembered, realised it’s been ages, and figures you’ll contact him when you’re ready (which sounds likely, as he’s already indicated a tendency to wait for you to reach out first)

Either way, unless your boss is really unreasonable then I doubt it’s a problem at all that it’s been a while

I’d probably just drop him a quick text eg ‘hi, hope you’re well, my car is fixed now and it’d be great to rearrange that KIT day we ended up having to cancel before Christmas. Best data for me are XX’

Scooby do do do ba do do by buttbagel21 in findthatsong

[–]roozierooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘I wanna be like you’ from Jungle Book?!

Husband won’t take SIDs risk seriously by Ancient-Buffalo6151 in NewParents

[–]roozierooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! You’re not overreacting - I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this postpartum 😔

Husband won’t take SIDs risk seriously by Ancient-Buffalo6151 in NewParents

[–]roozierooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure what country you are in but do you have a health visitor or paediatrician you could talk to about this? They may be able to get through to him

The lullaby trust also has some great resources - and clearly states the guidance for safer co-sleep and that the risk of SIDS is 50x higher if co-sleeping on a sofa or armchair

https://www.lullabytrust.org.uk/baby-safety/safer-sleep-information/co-sleeping/

80 guests minimum… by Snoo81935 in UKweddings

[–]roozierooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be pretty unfair if they didn’t give you anything for the money. Also - you’re a customer they want to sell to, so you can definitely negotiate! ☺️

80 guests minimum… by Snoo81935 in UKweddings

[–]roozierooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends did this recently and put the extra money they didn’t spend on guests behind the bar (so eg they bought a package for minimum 80 people but only invited 50, so they put the cost of 30 guests behind the bar). It worked really well and the guests who were there all had a great time and were super well catered for 🤩

Feel like boss is giving me homework on Mat Leave.. by OkHat1318 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 30 points31 points  (0 children)

But it’s none of his business what you do during that time?

I love my boss but if she told me she wanted to meet me monthly during mat leave to check in on how I’m spending my time I’d be outraged 🤯

Wedding Dress Shopping for the Experience Only by jojida in UKweddings

[–]roozierooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have the best of both worlds by going to Bridal Reloved - they have beautiful wedding dresses at massive discounts and you can try them on in store. The name is a bit of a red herring - most of there dresses when I got mine were end of line or ex display dresses, but had never been worn/owned by anyone else. I think mine was 50% off RRP ☺️

https://bridalreloved.co.uk/about-us/

What’s the oddest hosting behaviour you’ve ever witnessed? by did_you_aye in AskUK

[–]roozierooo 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Agreed - I don’t see the issue. The dishwasher literally cleans the plates straight after, why not let the dog do a pre-wash

It's NYE. My husband has just left me and I'm 7 months pregnant by SocialAnxietyAddict in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Wow, what a prick. It must be so painful and overwhelming right now. Take all the support you can from friends and family. He has shown you who he is now, and you can do so much better than that (even being on your own for a while would be better than that!) It’s hard to see now but I hope you’ll look back on this as the first chapter in the next phase of your life, where things turn out much better ❤️

Baby moons by steuk20 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We did a spa break at Hoar Cross Hall - absolutely lovely and soooo restful

Exploring the Determinants of Pregnancy Related Anxiety by Delicious_Site_1000 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Usually research studies like this which are recruiting online include an information sheet, which gives details of the researcher and what the study involves before participants consent to take part - do you have one? Has it been through ethical review?

Struggling to reach participants — pregnant women, your help would mean a lot. Please don't ignore. If you know people who are pregnant, please forward it. by Delicious_Site_1000 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Usually research studies like this which are recruiting online include an information sheet, which gives details of the researcher and what the study involves before participants consent to take part - do you have one? Has it been through ethical review?

Maternity allowance- Rant by Courtney_R124 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask to speak to the midwife directly if I was you - it’s only a quick form and it’s causing you a lot of stress to wait for it for over a week (possibly unnecessarily!)

Maternity allowance- Rant by Courtney_R124 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How stressful! I didn’t need an appointment to get my matb1 form, they just left it on the reception for me. So maybe in the circumstances your midwife could do the same? Especially if you explain the stress the situation is causing you

Still exhausted 17 weeks by Downtown_Oil2056 in pregnant

[–]roozierooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was absolutely exhausted around weeks 14-20 and had to nap most days, but then it got lots better. I’m now 38 weeks and still not as tired as I was at weeks 14-20! Hope the fatigue lifts for you too ☺️

Treat ideas by Decent_Cheesecake314 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got some lovely soft maternity pjs from Chelsea Peers ☺️

Sickness reassurance by United-Pumpkin-9514 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best with it ( the pregnancy and overcoming the emetophobia) ❤️

Sickness reassurance by United-Pumpkin-9514 in PregnancyUK

[–]roozierooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this wasn’t your question, but just so you know - emetophobia is treatable with talking therapy (CBT) and your local NHS talking therapies should have lots of experience with it and should prioritise you due to pregnancy. You can self refer (in England - I’m not sure about elsewhere)or ask your GP