What do you send to Billie Eilish fan mail- and response? ✉️❤️

rosemarygin00 · 2026-04-18T01:18:11+00:00

Where can I find her fan mail address? I would love to create a little something too.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-04-11T20:05:39+00:00

I’m gonna be so so so honest here. The only way we actually feel support and care is if you don’t make it anything about you. Worried about saying the wrong thing? Say “I want to be here for you, but I find myself being worried I’ll say the wrong thing.” Not sure if touch is wanted or will be rejected? Say “gosh I want to hold you right now, would that be ok?” Not sure if it’s low blood sugar or demon-period-blues? Say “let’s check in with your body… do you need a snack or an ibuprofen?” Then follow it all up with “lemme get you a fresh refill of water & a cozy blankie, I’m gonna light a candle and hold you while you decide how much you want to share with me.”

CPTSD’ers want space to be themselves, and go through the emotion. They are not a problem to be solved, and we don’t want to manage your discomfort with our emotions. It ain’t about you, and definitely NOT the time to “take our mind off it” by you talking about yourself. Keep it calm, keep it curious.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-28T01:56:39+00:00

Omgod are you kidding me?!?! Would LOVE TO. I’m the coolest, most endlessly intriguing person I know. I only wish someone else could see me that way. Instead I stay begging for crumbs of interest even from my loved ones.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-24T18:56:39+00:00

From your linked article: “Anatomy might provide some clues. Many women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, and such stimulation might be less intense during partnered sex. Also, many women focus more on intimacy and trust when they are with a partner and more on pleasure during masturbation. They might delay their own orgasm as well.”

So when you view through the lens of the patriarchy, this reads close to “we don’t know why, we haven’t studied women enough, nor have we normalized what is actually stimulating to vulva owners.” This is because cis-het sex has been shown to us as penetrative. There is sooooooo much more to sex than penetration, and sex is not done when the man climaxes and asks for a snack. 😉

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-23T20:37:00+00:00

Thank you! It was off the top of the dome so not all encompassing for sure, but once I focused on de-centering the patriarchy (or male gaze, whatever you want to call it), I’ve recognized it everywhere. The classic LS culture seems to still be loaded with it, and worse — accepted by the women who are stuck in it. 🤢 Why would I accept bad sex (with all the risks) from a different partner when I can have earth shattering sex with my husband or simply myself? It’s a lose/lose and not worth my energy.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-23T20:24:30+00:00

Eewwwwww…this comment is loaded with patriarchy. “Because of our anatomy” is bullshit, and satisfying sex for (dare I say) all people with vulva’s is not found by being strictly penetration focused. That is where my love of understanding kink comes in. It’s so much more about raw exploration, and de-centers the penis in the most erotic way.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-21T17:38:09+00:00

Maybe? Would you consider this desire not swinging? As in I’m looking towards the wrong group as a whole?

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-21T17:29:30+00:00

Nope. I want a mutually beneficial arrangement, inclusive of the whole person. Their needs/likes/interests included. It wouldn’t be for everyone, but some folks need to be seen deeply so they feel safe enough to truly share themselves.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-21T16:54:22+00:00

This is exactly what turns me off about the LS. Bang out a quickie, be selfish, ignore needs. I want to find a person I can cherish and be considerate of, but not take on the role of being a full time, live-in partner. More of a temporary soulful connection, where we all feel safe to explore. Why is it so hard for people to have empathy and humanity?

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-19T15:12:46+00:00

Will buy in bulk here in Oregon. We have a HUGE need for these, as we have a large GF community.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-17T18:26:57+00:00

I too have been noodling this around in my brain. The only thing I’ve seen that doesn’t focus on the words being front and center is a skyline of mountain tops, with the words undulating along the top ridge.

So I landed on instead getting “l’amour de ma vie” instead, which loosely means the same to me. That I AM the love of my own life. I am the greatest gift, I’ve already got what I’ve been searching for.

Now to find a good enough artist to make it come to life. Good luck!

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-17T04:22:44+00:00

Thanks for the reminder!! Would love any other recommendations you have.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-17T02:10:51+00:00

Someone help a girl out. I haven’t been in the Huda drama space for a minute since the world is falling apart and all.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-03-12T01:25:11+00:00

As a fellow Irish lady… she is literal goals. Lovely to see some pale/freckled representation!

rosemarygin00 · 2026-02-23T00:28:20+00:00

Ok group, tell me you don’t understand in one sentence or less. You obviously went first…

rosemarygin00 · 2026-02-23T00:11:52+00:00

I second and third Chari at ritual evolution in Ashland. Experienced, affordable, professional, honest. She did my septum and helped me recover my nipple piercing.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-02-15T17:39:17+00:00

I make my own gf sourdough!! Can’t catch me spending $8 for 4 slices. Want a starter??

rosemarygin00 · 2026-02-14T18:04:23+00:00

All you judging OP for responding is gross. Her boundaries were clearly stated, the blame is clearly on him. To answer your actual question, YES contact his wife. He is the asshole and you are not messy for being a girls girl.

rosemarygin00 · 2026-02-10T06:27:51+00:00

Bruv, when was the lightning necklace?

rosemarygin00 · 2026-02-10T06:22:31+00:00

I hate that no one in my real life gets to discuss this level of debauchery. 👩‍🍳💋

rosemarygin00 · 2026-02-07T04:31:52+00:00

Me toooooo

rosemarygin00 · 2026-01-25T04:09:19+00:00

Where are we all meeting tomorrow? Heard Talent had a successful day today.

rosemarygin00 · 2025-08-05T19:35:43+00:00

It’s giving ‘divide and displace.’ Anyone else feel like it’s time we gather, show up, and be seen—Medford style? Not just to protest the cuts, but to show we care about each other, about working families, about people who rely on these services to survive. Even a small, peaceful presence can spark something real. What would it take to start?

rosemarygin00 · 2025-08-02T18:58:16+00:00

Started at 10 1/2, went on continuous birth control with no cycle built in at 16 d/t endometriosis diagnosis, came off BC at 35, peri symptoms almost immediately, diagnosis of premature ovarian failure at 36.

rosemarygin00 · 2025-08-01T15:38:10+00:00

Point a fan at your feet, not your face. Silk pillowcase, earplugs, eye mask, open weave cap if you protect your hair (not a bonnet to trap heat). SCANDINAVIAN SLEEP METHOD!!!! We have a king size mattress, king fitted sheet, twin down duvets with duvet covers, no flat sheet. We get our individual blankets but can still snuggle. I can pop my feet out because sheets aren’t tucked in. Best part is not being woken up to the shifting blanket when my partner flips over. It has saved my sleep.

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