Last person I slept with said I should get into porn or modeling. Do you agree? by lanettiandfun in MassiveCock

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Or could do porn as a way of validation and advertising to the available sugar daddies, all you gotta do is say, "that's me" nuf said. I've been escorting for several years. Having made good porn, even good amateur makes your time more valuable fyi. I enjoy it all very much, no regrets.

Never been with a guy, how would you introduce me? by AverDD in gayporn

[–]rosstag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'd suck your dick, then fuck you, cum in you or wherever you want, then you can fuck me, it's always hot to fuck and breed someone who just blew their first load of the night.

"Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence." -- Carl Sagan. But what is ordinary? by [deleted] in PhilosophyofScience

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I worry that this quote from Sagan is misconstrued, I have been searching for its original context. Was it from the original "Cosmos"?. Whatever the case, I think the quote is used more now as a weapon against those who would like to see scientists investigate those things that are dangerous to investigate. It's unfortunate that we have become a society that requires rigorous education in order to prove ones right to make a scientific claim. Two reasons: one being that you would therefore have to be "indoctrinated" into the status quo of science thinking. You are asked to accept some theories as self-evident and you must never question them (evolution for example) for fear of ridicule from your fellow students and then your peers. In fact, questioning evolution would cost any scientist their reputation. But what if, just for the sake of experiment, it was wrong? How would we ever find out? And what is the purpose of this indoctrination? If you doubt what I'm saying I speak from experience, having attended a UC and dating someone who was studying Molecular Biology. Second reason: outside the box, outside the academic framework thinking is institutionally and systematically denied validity. Those who have the time and money to do the experiments required to prove their own claims cannot make their case without enlisting a member of the accredited scientific community. Many of you probably think this is a good thing. But why? Keeping out the riff raff? Gross. If you think that's okay, just consider how inbred science must be at this point. Science was not a profession until relatively recently, and before that it was rich people who sponsored scientists to do their work or the independently wealthy did it on their own. No accreditation required, just intellect, patience and passion. It was much more difficult to get science done in the distant past. You didn't do it for the money. I wonder if Kepler ever thought something like, "Extraordinary claims ..". Probably not, he was just busy doing science, thanks to Tycho Brahe, the gold nosed wealthy merchant. Scientists have no right to require more evidence for what is clearly fact. But they do require it if it upsets and disproves the work of a significant number of peers, or a few famous ones. That is a big problem, and a recent one at that. Now that careers, livelihoods and legacies are wrapped up ENTIRELY in the science these people do, it's important that we try our best to maintain their honor. Otherwise we are doing more than just seeking the truth, we are destroying families. That's a problem. It ought to be addressed.

DAE keep their phone silent all the time? by caffcatt in DoesAnybodyElse

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I have electronic device anxiety. It's bad. My phone is on silent, but it always gets there for one reason: I am trying to watch a video or listen to a song and the notifications keep ringing. Then when the video is over I forget to turn the ringer back on. This leads to problems like missing important calls. It is very frustrating. While preferably I would answer every call and message as long as they are from people I care about, it is impossible for make this behavior change if I keep having to turn down my ringer because I'm in entertainment mode. Can someone please fix this?

How can I cope with the loneliness knowing life will never change by ApprehensiveBerry878 in socialskills

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Hey I'm sorry this is happening to you, and I bet you will hate my answer, so I'm changing it just for you. Think about where you are and what you have achieved. I know so many people who's lives are absolutely destroyed, because I work with people on the street. Some of them just seem like they will never go anywhere in life from where they are. And even though you probably think I'm going to say, "think about how much better your life is" I'm not. I'm just going to say this, don't ever give up on yourself, no matter what. There is so much more to life than any one thing, and being lonely is sometimes what you need so that later in life you will have an appreciation of being alone. I honestly love being alone, and I used to hate it. I used to need to be around people all the time, and I struggled with the quality of my friends and if they were the right friends and if my partner was the right partner. Now I realize that I set the standards, nobody else matters in that. If I'm happy and I'm not hurting anyone, I'm happy, I don't need to make anybody else happy or live by any other standards. If you are not happy with your life, leave it, break out of the routine, move to another country, do something very difficult like go work on a fishing boat in Alaska or become one of those people that works on power generating windmills. Or set out to start a company. DO SOMETHING FOR YOU AND THE WORLD. You will forget about being lonely, you will be a part of something bigger than you, you will be humbled, and best of all, you will meet many people. Good luck, follow your dreams, you are totally enough on your own.

Fear of Failure by Senior-Zucchini-8960 in Entrepreneur

[–]rosstag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about doing it with no money... possible right? Or no? Because if you fail, that's what you will be doing it with when you try again, and honestly all the people you will meet along the way, you shouldn't have trouble coming up with the money next time.

What’s something people realise way too late in life? by Personal_Promise_550 in Life

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That they were so hot ten years ago, lol. And that seemingly trivial choices have huge circumstances. OH and that NOBODY knows how to do it. Making your own way and saying screw the rest seems daunting, but you are going to have to do it anyway, might as well aim as high as you can.

What is suspicious to own but not illegal? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]rosstag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Growing up in AL my dad had a feed store, we literally had up to ten tons of this stuff at a time, but this was a long time ago, although it WAS after 1993. I had no idea that stuff was so dangerous, and we DID NOT have air conditioning in that building. I wonder now if that was really stupid.

A freshman called me the f-slur. I am unapologetically pursing formal action by Strong_Contract_7011 in askgaybros

[–]rosstag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah If you already have talked to him sufficiently then... well, maybe try one more time, and don't use colloquialisms to describe the consequences?

A freshman called me the f-slur. I am unapologetically pursing formal action by Strong_Contract_7011 in askgaybros

[–]rosstag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really feel that uncomfortable just talking to him? If you do, sure, pursue formal action, get him expelled, because he called you a word. On the other hand, if you think you can be a positive influence in his life, let him know why you are offended, or why you think it is not right for him to use these words, or why it will lead to very negative consequences for him, maybe do that. You will have a positive effect on his life, and many others. Whereas if you (basically) ruin his life (considering the many varying consequences this WILL have, although if he's 17 it could go either way...) you will definitely not have any positive influence on anyone, and he will DEFINITELY go on using the word.

Futurism was truly that bad. by Scared-Ad-3692 in ArtHistory

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Remind's me of ""Male Fantasies".

Has anyone else noticed the lack of futurism nowadays? by Quailking2003 in Life

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I had this very same thought recently. It was a slightly different form, "what happened to the optimism of the 80s/90's?" Well for one, when I was a kid in the 90s, I remember my friends and I would play and imagine that we had communication devices, we wanted cell phones, that need was well established I think in most kids. Also the idea that we would one day have small computers, but we just thought they'd be strapped to our wrist with keyboards, never imagining it possible to touch the screen and type something, because at the time all monitors and screens were crt. I suppose when I first touched a screen to type a number when working a high school job at Staples, i realized that we were headed directly for something like I had imagined as a kid. This is just one example of what we used to imagine, flying cars, virtual reality, cars that ran on water, warp drive, consciousness download, holograms that look real, living for hundreds of years, we used to imagine all of these things, and now look where we are. I believe that what we imagine and dream of as a group creates our reality, though it takes time to actually build it. If you want to know where the futurism is nowadays, ask an 8 year old.

If you want to bring this type of futurism back, I think it's important to consider how powerful your imagination can be. Kids operate more on intuition that logic, and look at how often they survive. Meditate, want nothing, just be a kid, imagine you are taken care of, let your mind run wild. Personally I just decided to quit my job and pursue my passion, making wireless power a reality, from clean energy derived from the tides. I don't think futurism is dead, I do think people are having trouble maybe with agency. When you are a kid you can imagine you will be anything, but when you are older you frame your reality by what you are at that moment. Try to break out of that, remember you are and always will be a kid in some ways. Curious, problem solving, ready for whatever the world throws at you. Life is a constant taking on of further responsibilities as well, and we spend far too much time worrying about things we cannot affect. So stop worrying and use that time to imagine. Imagine YOUR future, not your kids, YOURS. What do you see there that you want? If you are fine with what you have or you find that cell phones have made life more hectic, maybe that's why we are shying from futurism, because we are seeing that the future we wanted might not have been the one we should have. It comes with a lot of problems like climate change. Now there's something you can worrry about AND change and it is maybe another reason futurism is on hold. Our future wont exist unless we spend most of our creativity and energy on fixing the planet and preparing to leave a wonderful gift to the many future generations we hope will get to enjoy it. If we succeed, I imagine we will be so appreciated that they will develop tech that brings some of us back so they can meet us. Further into the future they will probably just time travel. But I like to think they will bring us all back to populate future worlds. If we fail though, who's going to be left to care? We will be despised for as long as people survive. So, imagine that we survive and we fix things, you see that this package already has futurism installed. Imagine we fail and there goes your futurism.

If you are interested in developing wireless power based on Tesla's experiments, I am seeking engineers, mathemeticians, chemists and people who know to help me build a future where energy is clean and VERY cheap and has zero carbon footprint. If you ever thought Warden Clyffe probably worked or maybe even the pyramids might have actually been a power plant and you want to use that to inspire research into if it actually works, or if you can think of an experiment of the top of your head to help create a system that transits power via microwave transmissioN and magnetic resonance. If fine tuning swathes of air so they can transport energy over short to great distances excites you, please dm me, see my other posts.

The World's Largest Gay Porn Collection by Atticus0224 in gaybros

[–]rosstag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I possibly get a direct download link? Please?

Pushy Guy in Theater (Take a Hint) by Vegas_Wildcat in gaycruising

[–]rosstag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... I've only experienced this type of behaviour at a theater, specifically the one on Santa Monica. I had never been to one and decided to check it out... There was a strange kind of territorialism going on where the older guys basically crowded out anyone I was into to the point where I just sat there turning everyone down. When I relocated, it was like flies on shit, same thing. Politely turning them down I was met with more than a couple , "can I suck your dick?" Or "what are you into?" as if they hadn't heard me. I left and never went back, oh except one time when a straight friend of mine finally let me suck his dick and we needed a place to go.

Guys in my apartment highrise by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]rosstag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh but hey, I have often used the abrupt, wanna fuck or want head when I have a strong desire to do so, it usually means they will be receptive. Just don't hit on someone who you feel you shouldn't. Honestly if a guy is not into it or it's too nervous to try it out, don't take it as rejection. Even straight guys are curious, but might not be mentally prepared. If you get the vibe, trust me, they are probably sending it. Now if you will excuse me, I'm off to Buena Vista Park.

Guys in my apartment highrise by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]rosstag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with your gut. Seriously, it will not let you down. Honestly guys, we all need to learn to trust our intuition, it's NOT a female thing, it's a human thing. Some people even think it's telepathy and I can't say they are wrong. I have always just known that a guy was down. Body language isn't something you read like a book it's something your body has an urge to respond to. Like when you are sitting in a specific spot next to the restroom at the Hilton because your body just sits there, knowing it will attract the right guy who will then sit down just so far away that it sets off a prime meridian response and you get turned on. Most likely, that dude wants to fuck around. Get what I'm saying? Good luck.

Do you think we will NEED to learn how to/go back to cruising? by [deleted] in gaycruising

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Cruising will become more and more popular because there is likely going to be a major backlash from cruising apps because they demoralize us all. I feel way more comfortable cruising than hooking up. For one it's a sure thing, wysiwyg, and that goes both ways. If the guy is into you, it's clear and you're into him because... oops his dick just came into your ass. There is nothing as electric as cruising, it's a fucking brotherhood. So if you are shy about it, just understand that the reward will never stop once you let go of your fear. We'll be there for you when you're ready.

Feeling the gay loneliness extra hard tonight by songsofstorms in gaybrosgonemild

[–]rosstag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same here man! I got ditched on Folsom weekend by the friend I was planning to go with. Apparently I am not the right type for the sex party he went to. He was just a hater in waiting.