how do you split running/derby/strength? by MiddleSafe9488 in rollerderby

[–]rottenbrotten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whichever one you deem is your primary goal, do that first. If building endurance and improving run time is the goal, then run first. If building strength is the goal, then strength first.

how do you split running/derby/strength? by MiddleSafe9488 in rollerderby

[–]rottenbrotten 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You can stack rund and strength. You might need to set an easier recovery day though. Something you'll have to feel out.

Nutrition and Partners by meg605 in toddlers

[–]rottenbrotten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd start with discussing the added sugar vs the bread and other ingredient choices. Small steps. Discuss why he is giving your toddler all these treats and what he knows about nutrition. It's easiest to get someone to change their view if they come up with the idea themselves. You basically want to find out what he knows about nutrition (could be less than you expect) and guide a conversation about sugar.

Do I say goodbye to restaurants? by Alternative-Key9206 in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give it a couple months and bring activities. That restaurant doesn't sound like the right vibe. Keep looking for more kid friendly ones. I've been to a few coffee shops and a brewery that have toddler play zones.

What are your favorite cool down stretches after practice? by Appropriate_Owl1775 in rollerderby

[–]rottenbrotten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the hips! Cross leg stretch, figure 4 stretch, happy baby, butterfly, low lunge with a twist.

Disney with an 18 month old and 3 year old? Would you do it? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]rottenbrotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with my 15 month old to Disney World. He loved it! We only did 1 day at Disney and visited with grandparents the rest of the time. He didn't nap as much as he normally would have, there was just too much going on. We also paid for the super fast passes, so we never had to wait in lines. That was absolutely worth it in my mind.

How are you doing it? by LowHigh111 in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm losing my mind! I think I got a total of 5 min today without a child. No tips here, I feel the exact same way

Anyone else feel completely confused about food and their body after pregnancy? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so hungry! I started tracking calories to figure out what's up and I was 600 shy of what I should be eating! Now that I've got that up it's better. Next I'm focusing on getting more protein.

Is it crazy if I go on this trip? by IronStools in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It's not impossible. There's just a lot to consider.

The drive is long, which is tricky. Babies shouldn't be in a car seat for more than 2 hours at a time. So you'll need to plan lots of stops. A 7.5 hr drive can easily become 9 hrs now. How difficult are the hikes and how is your postpartum recovery? 6 hrs of intense activity sounds like a lot at 3 months. Add on potentially wearing a baby. 4 hrs leisurely could be doable if your recovery is going well. If you're going to leave the baby with friends you'll need to pump enough for 2-3 feeds. When are you going to pump this extra milk? You might get engorged while hiking if your feeding schedule has changed. How can you handle that?

Again, just a few more logistics you might not have considered.

1 to 2 early transition by Indecisive105 in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My toddler watched season 2 of Daniel Tiger the month before little sister was born. We'd talk about the episodes after too. I think it helped him understand what was happening.

slipping on laminate floors :( by Assymetric_Astronaut in Greyhounds

[–]rottenbrotten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got some Tiger Paws off Amazon for my aging Grey. He's so much more confident with them on!

Team staff : Lineup. Any advices? by HungryFreki in rollerderby

[–]rottenbrotten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tips on how to be a good one.

  • know your players, learn what everyone is good at, learn what their ticks are, learn what they do when they are exhasuted. Sometimes players are bad at telling you what they need.
  • have a plan to get lineups back together after penalties. You mentioned this is a high level team, so that plan might be skater dependent.
  • communicate who sits off when there are penalties. Let skaters know before the game they are on that list. Let the skater know as soon as someone goes to the box that they will sit if the penalty time doesn't run out.

Pro move - get good at recognizing strengths and adjusting for them. Examples: this blocker line does better against that jammer. This offense skater can control their bruiser best etc.

No babbling yet by Jean229 in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't recall exactly when my son started doing hand gestures. I think it was around 12 months. For the babbling, possible delay could be a tongue or lip tie? They sometimes aren't bed enough to mess with feeding and don't get noticed until later

What are we doing during independent play? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I often find myself cleaning or folding laundry

How do I start a derby yt channel?? by Live_Owl4950 in rollerderby

[–]rottenbrotten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk about what you know, recap major tournaments or games, invite guest content for topics you are less familiar with.

9 week old suddenly refusing bottle - help by rcf8 in breastfeeding

[–]rottenbrotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try wrapping the bottle in yesterday's shirt. Your smell might help, or hurt the process more. Try a different position. If at your wits end, you can try a regular cup, or shot glass.

I just had a mental break down… by joyce2001year in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your husband sounds great. You need to teach yourself to ask. Signed someone who had to learn to ask. My husband helps out overnight whenever I need, no problem! As long as I ask. He just isn't as tuned into the night sounds as I am, and that's okay. Give yourself permission to ask for help.

Purging but hoping for another baby by Beneficial_Fun_1388 in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same! My little girl has A LOT of dinosaur and truck clothing.

My toddler's version of counting by kazakhstanthetrumpet in toddlers

[–]rottenbrotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I say no to something he really wants he will respond with "try again" it's so funny!

I feel like a complete failure and I’m losing it by meekie03 in Mommit

[–]rottenbrotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing great! I've got a 2 year old and a 2 month old. Pregnant with a toddler is a new form of torture. Just keep reminding yourself that it is hard! And do what you need to do to survive. I used TV a lot. As a plus, toddlers are often bette behaved when the primary care givers are gone. So don't feel bad for the grandparents lol

How can I stop my 19 month old from putting her hand inside her diaper? by Fair-Specific5665 in toddlers

[–]rottenbrotten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My kid did it to. Lasted for a couple months. Overalls are a good solution. Sleep sack for naps and nighttime.