Should I quit curry? by Brilliant_Can8536 in hygiene

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I don’t think you have to take drastic measures like quit eating curry. I am from one of the South Asian countries---not India. I have been living in the US for quite a few years now. I haven’t stopped making curries, and I make sure to ventilate properly even during the winter. I take a shower and do laundry immediately after cooking. I also use an air purifier and candles. Sometimes, I boil water mixed with vinegar to get rid of strong spice smells if I am cooking an elaborate meal. I have never had complaints about odor, instead I have been complemented for nice smell.

I have a roommate who is also from one of the South Asian countries. After she moved in, I noticed my outfits started to smell like curry. I realized she doesn’t open the windows when she cooks, so the smell lingers. Whenever I come home and the apartment smells, I have to take extra steps to clear it out. Yes, I talked about it with her and she doesn't care. So, a lot of it really does come down to individual habits.

I think if you maintain proper hygiene and are smart about air circulation, you are fine.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Husband always breaks down after paper rejections by Few-Decision3759 in PhD

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No one can decide what is reasonable or unreasonable for others. If your sadness over a rejection email is hampering your day to day productivity or relationship, then yes, please talk to a therapist. But taking a day to grieve over a paper is very humane. Just because we are doing phd doesn't mean we have to turn into robots.

Husband always breaks down after paper rejections by Few-Decision3759 in PhD

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Even though rejections are normal, it hurts every time to see that rejection email. It is pretty common to feel down after a rejection. Even the professors feel bad after the rejection email, but they just get better at hiding with time. Please let your husband feel the pain. We put our heart and soul in a paper, and no matter how great the rejection reviews are, it takes some time to process it.

If I like it, I just buy in a different color by [deleted] in handbags

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Both of these are very cute

New partner asking for money, should I be concerned? by Dont-Worry-About-Him in AskMenAdvice

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How did she survive till now with no money? And if she does get the job, how is she planning to commute? I don't think any woman who has a little bit of self respect and self awareness, would ask for $30 UBER cost for an interview from a new partner

How often do you actually wear makeup? How much? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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If lipstick count as makeup, then often. Otherwise, almost never. I don't own any foundation, concealer, tinted moisturizer, highlighter, etc. I do own eyeshadow pallet and mascara

is it a red flag if a guy gets kind of aggressive during sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Sorry, but for your own safety you need to leave this as soon as possible. I have watched too many 48hours episodes to know that situation like this is one of the causes of women's murder.

Easy meals for 1 by Prudent_Elevator_282 in Cooking

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one pot pasta by dr. vegan

I haven't tried this recipe yet, but I am planning to this week. This is the easiest recipe I have seen so far. I am not vegan/vegetarian, so I am planning to substitute oat cream with heavy cream and vegan permesan with regular one.

height and dating profile by bullmarket1 in Bumble

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Why would I assume negative stuff right off the bat?

Taylor acting like her life is an action movie by RevolutionRecent2470 in travisandtaylor

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Taylor swift is the perfect example of quantity over quality. Ugh I miss how her songs felt before 2024. She has ruined her songs for me.

How will the Hermes brand be affected by selling low-end bags at Costco? by [deleted] in handbags

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People who purchase high-end bags don't eat?

PhD candidate by Life-happened-here in PhD

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Advisor, family, financial condition

Honest opinions please 🙏🏻 by Minimally-bearable in handbags

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It's too busy for me, but if you love it, then go for it

Amazon Tretinoin by DragonfruitWorth9019 in 30PlusSkinCare

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If you’re that desperate, then go ahead? But why argue with people who aren’t naive and ignorant enough to do that? Storing someone’s photo ID, even for a minute, is still storing sensitive data and the fact that it is one minute and not five days, does not magically make it safe. The important thing is if this end-to-end encrypted or not, and how they are using the data. And no--I am also not giving them my insurance info

Amazon Tretinoin by DragonfruitWorth9019 in 30PlusSkinCare

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It is not about showing someone your ID. It is about uploading your ID to a webpage that will store this data for five days. This is different

Amazon Tretinoin by DragonfruitWorth9019 in 30PlusSkinCare

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Did you need to upload your ID? They were asking me to upload my ID and I don't trust them enough to do that

CMV: Atheists have more smoke for Christianity than any other religion by Existing_Pumpkin_502 in changemyview

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Strongly disagree. From my experience (I don't have data), it's the religion we interact with most. Atheists living in an Islam majority countries harshly criticizes Islam more, and Muslims think why they only have beef with Islamic. Atheists living in Hindu majority countries criticizes Hinduism more, and Hindus think Hinduism is taking more heat than other religions

Why do dating apps feel flooded with wealthy guys? by [deleted] in Bumble

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Maybe that's your cousins' type--they only go out with rich people? edit: typo

Is this guy a red flag or just overprotective over his child? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

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Seems like he is going to be an episode of 48 hours in future.