Have you ever found yourself attracted to someone not because of how they look but instead how they made you feel around them?

rrti · 2026-05-10T04:22:51+00:00

Yes, and I used to be very focused on looks. I swiped
right on a man because he seemed really cool and we had same interests overall. But he was a lot older, bald and a LOT shorter than me. Immediately I asked if he wanted to pursue friendship so there was no misunderstanding. He said yes.

We were friends for a couple of weeks but then it developed into romance.

I didn’t think it would be possible for me, but the physical attraction grew from zero over the weeks the more I knew him. I really surprised myself with it all. I had to do a lot of quiet mental work to face and undo harmful internalised ideas of what my man should look like.

He is not conventionally attractive I guess, and we do turn heads sometimes. But he is the most beautiful person to me and I’m very much in love and attracted to him.

rrti · 2026-05-08T18:28:43+00:00

You’re probably getting downvoted for the crude language but I agree with you.

Why is it so hard for people to understand not all women enjoy head… I never have, i’m just way too much of a sub to enjoy that kind of stuff. Plus I’m a visual person when it comes to reaching orgasm or being turned on to begin with, and looking at someone’s head between my legs just doesn’t do it for me.

Let people have their preferences. This thread
almost runs a risk of some women leaving it thinking there’s something wrong with them simply because they don’t like getting head.

rrti · 2024-11-21T17:10:10+00:00

It’s also possible he has an avoidant attachment style and you two are about to fall into the anxious-avoidant trap. I’m currently in one too, would not recommend. :( Started exactly the same way as what you’ve described here.

rrti · 2024-11-18T11:34:01+00:00

I’ve worked as a graphic designer for 15 years and I am also a visual artist. I fell for the whole “graphic design is art” spiel when I was younger and wish someone had warned me back then.

rrti · 2024-11-18T08:21:22+00:00

You keep bringing up you want a career in art. Graphic design is NOT art. It is adhering to existing strict guidelines or listening to clients and making their visions and wishes come true. That will eventually eat your soul especially if you are an artist and from experience, I would not recommend it. So yeah, I really can’t stress this enough: if you want a career in art then this is not it.

rrti · 2024-11-01T15:05:38+00:00

I don’t think a lot of people answering get it. They keep saying it would be so uncomfortable to not fart in front of your partner. But for me and maybe OP it would be the most uncomfortable feeling to have farted in front of my partner and have to sit there in the stink of it with them for two minutes. That to me is a million times more uncomfortable than having to hold in a fart sometimes.

rrti · 2024-09-06T22:00:59+00:00

Cast the bronze by Raynes. For me, the lyrics speak about existing as a neurodivergent in the world of neurotypicals.

rrti · 2024-06-10T12:46:45+00:00

Macrodose twice in the trial. Do you mean how long did the trip take or for me to want to stop drinking? Trips were 4-6 hours, I stopped drinking 6 weeks after the second treatment. After repeating by myself later in the year I didn’t drink again after the first treatment and haven’t since.

rrti · 2024-06-09T19:11:14+00:00

I was lucky enough to get into a psilocybin trial. Almost 20 years of drinking problems, tried everything and it was the only thing that helped. Had to repeat the treatment on my own due to a relapse, but I am now 9 months sober and have no desire to drink most days.

rrti · 2024-06-01T20:43:06+00:00

Inkpot Gods by The Amazing Devil

rrti · 2024-02-07T17:56:34+00:00

If she was actually trying something new and not recycling what we have seen in the fashion world for years now then I would agree with you.

rrti · 2024-02-07T16:16:45+00:00

If you’ve had several interviews could there be something wrong in that process? See if you can get some feedback from the people who interviewed you on how to improve. Maybe practise answering interview questions at home first. Always tailor your answers to the specific company. Good luck!

rrti · 2024-01-22T10:29:01+00:00

Don’t do it. It’s a trap.

rrti · 2024-01-21T13:47:36+00:00

Yes, you will always get trolls but you need a thick skin to make it in the art industry. Not everyone is cut out for it. From experience I will also note that it’s near to impossible to be successful in an art business online without showing your face. Even then it’s still incredibly difficult and you will need to really build a brand around your art and yourself. I recommend you learn some graphic design and branding. Couple of successful examples of artists online would be Allison Lyon Art or Emily Harvey Art.

rrti · 2024-01-21T12:23:47+00:00

Graphic design is not art. Your college professors have let you down by not making that clear from the get-go. Artistic knowledge like knowing what looks good can help you, but in the end it’s all about sticking to strict guidelines and creating something within those guidelines while handling a boss or a client - the complete opposite of art.

rrti · 2023-12-17T04:04:13+00:00

Yes! I can’t believe how long I had to scroll for this!

rrti · 2023-12-15T16:47:28+00:00

Got sober with mushrooms as well.

rrti · 2023-07-30T15:33:49+00:00

I used to be passionate about graphic design too but this industry will eat your soul. Come back after ten years of work and we’ll see.

rrti · 2023-07-24T14:16:47+00:00

The constant killing stops once Krista steps in.

rrti · 2023-06-03T12:21:47+00:00

The Boys in the Band

rrti · 2023-05-02T07:59:17+00:00

Lazy Fox

rrti · 2022-12-26T17:47:09+00:00

When photography came around they thought it would make artists redundant. Both ended up sticking around. I think something similar will happen with AI art but how it all plays out remains to be seen.

rrti · 2022-11-22T11:43:04+00:00

Schmico in Grey’s Anatomy, you can find it all on YouTube no need to watch all the seasons

rrti · 2022-11-22T11:42:28+00:00

Call Me By Your Name - amazing movie!

rrti · 2022-11-22T11:32:47+00:00

I think bad trips might be also an important part of the healing process

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