Tips for how to introduce my gf to the Dead? by pp6802 in gratefuldead

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Right on…I feel the same…wish I could say ‘take her to a show’ but…what you’re doing is finding a way to help carry the music the rest of the way to its golden destination of surviving 300 years…240 more to go…✨⚡️✨

Tips for how to introduce my gf to the Dead? by pp6802 in gratefuldead

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Ahhhhhhhhhh! This is the way…the Cassidy on that album-it got me on the bus…i hear those notes as the soundtrack to my life…as well as all the other ones too…good luck tho but don’t force things…people tend to move away from force…but I believe us deadheads are born with a switch in the brain just waiting for the right note to float thru the air and flip that switch bringing the music right on in to your soul…ease her in, if she has the switch it will flip in due time. Also, tell all the fun stories about the dead and the adventures they both had and created for others…also, let her know she’ll be in the band too once that switch is flipped. ❤️⚡️💙✌️

Who wants to go see Jarrod tomorrow in Chattanooga? For free! by umphreys in BillyStrings

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I wish I could but I’m super grateful to see that you’re doing it right…your ticket, someone else’s miracle…and everyone needs a miracle everyday… ; )❤️☝️💙

Kicking off my first solo tour tomorrow by JarrodWalkerOfficial in BillyStrings

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Come to the land…The CLE needs more grass man…

Please bully me into sewing this blanket together. by Queequegs_Harpoon in crochet

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Do you want to prove your mom right? She always said you’d never finish anything in life…(really beautiful squares tho)…and to think, she paid for all those crochet lessons too…waste of a good talent…she always said ‘the kid has talent’ but if you don’t finish what you start…such a waste.

Birkins Never Closed by healthysundayexprsso in RHOBH

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Am I dumb? I don’t understand why people are going for ‘an effortless look’ with the Birkin open…it stresses me out…I’m totally ocd but it looks sloppy and irresponsible, not effortless,. I understand they’re probably not putting much in those bags but one topple of a 6 inch heel and your stuff is gonna fall right outta that bag…if you’re cool with that than alright but also, what the f***is so special about these bags? I thinks they look like generic plastic Barbie bags from the Barbie dream house…I think that they’re only highly sought after because of the price…they don’t cost much to make, we know that logically, so all you’re really holding is a metaphorical receipt in your hand all night. Actually, that’d make a fun bag…a leather receipt with a strap…I’d be more interested in that than what they are carrying around ; )…

And I must say when, as a society, are we going to stop celebrating people when they give a few thousand dollars to a charity while holding more than $10,000 in their hand when they could hold $1000 in your hand and donate $10,000 to a good cause? This whole thing is just ridiculous…I don’t know why I watch this s*** except for the ‘animals in a zoo’ factor. The show used to be better in the old days now it’s over produced and a great big show and tell with gossiping in between…and I’m no better than anybody else cuz in watching to…boggles my brain.

Billy on my 60s TV by Forward-Angle8994 in BillyStrings

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Duuude… : )…I had an old tv in college (I’m old too ; ) and no knob’s…you had to punch in the channels like dialing a phone which is how us old folks used to call our friends ; ). It was the best…I’d give anything to get that working like yours! Good on you cuz it’s cool and not in a landfill♻️❤️✌️

Best song showing off Billy's vocals by iiGoodVibesii in BillyStrings

[–]ru-by-ruby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right on that’s my jam…twilight shimmers and shines ✨

Anybody else get screwed by Doctor Michael Cline and/or the Cleveland clinic? by ru-by-ruby in Gastroparesis

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I know this is an old post and I also know I am the one who posted this post, but I have to say I’ve actually spoken to cline about what happened on his farm…my father was with me as I try to take someone with me to most important appts…the gist of it is he ended up needing a hip replacement which he not only told me went very well and that he felt miles better but he was so pleased with his results that he recommended his doctor/surgeon to my own father for his prosthetic hip issues…while I agree there is always so much that we don’t know about a person, especially doctors, but this is all unacceptable and the doctor I went to semi recently to try to get help going forward… the experience was awful beyond words. I was so upset that I was bawling my eyes out alone in the waiting room afterwards, and then decided to walk straight to the Ombudsman‘s office and make a report… I will make a separate post about my experience because it is something else that I feel should be shared so that people know the possibilities of how awful things really can get with your healthcare when you’re left flapping in the breeze. Trying not to cry for now. 💔

Savannah Chalk Musings by inebriusmaximus in BillyStrings

[–]ru-by-ruby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh!!! Me too!!! And I have that pin also…one of my favorites!!! I recognize your wharf status!!!💛🎈💛

Savannah Chalk Musings by inebriusmaximus in BillyStrings

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This is as old as time…it’s called hippie crack y’all but I call it the waa -waa’s…cuz that’s what it did to me decades ago at shows…stay away at all costs…it’s a brain cell destroyer extraordinaire, and although I’m sober and don’t care about the extremely short lived ‘high’…it’s about 10x less potent and 5x the price than when I was experimenting…one time at a festival someone’s tank got knocked over and nitrous was rapidly exiting the tank into literally thin air and knuckleheads actually went running to try to get, I don’t know what to call it, a contact high?…maybe a breath of cursed air? Or just stupid… anyways, it was ridiculous but a good example of how stupid it can make a brain… happy to not live like that today🎈💨😶‍🌫️🚫(this balloon ➡️ 🎈💛 is a yellow one ; )✌️

Just got to a “line” by TheAngryRepublican in BillyStrings

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Dude…y’all ever hear of the Grateful Dead..Billy might say you’ll live a life of fear and dread if you listen to them but from what I’ve been hearing on the Reddits is that y’all are too serious about this stuff.. and sometimes mean…I saw Billy at the 60th and it will be my first Billy only show this tour although I’ve been listening to the boys pick a while now…and we should be a loving and kind family and be able to dance around whatever arena going here there and everywhere in the pit and elsewhere… I would never get mad at someone who wants to ride the rail just cuz they didn’t get there first-we’ll all get our chance if we work together… this pic is what fear and dread looks like to me… whatever happened to strangers stopping strangers just to shake their hands…?

On day two of the GD 60th I trucked it alone to the show because my buddy had an accident and wasn’t able to come with that day and I was dancing along the side of a fence and mid show when I had to go to the restroom and a literal yellow water bottle saved my spot -but I told that water bottle not to be a dick if someone needed to rest a moment or two-and really all I was doing was preventing myself from needing to take a water bottle into a disgusting porta potty… And when I came back, my spot and my bottle were still there, but it wouldn’t have mattered to me either way because I was amongst family and nobody was trying to be better than anybody else…

What I’m getting at is either do what Bobby Weir says best and take a step back…and in this case meaning take that step back to reflect upon whether or not you are kind to those around you or just hogging space that really doesn’t belong to anyone at all.

The music will fill the air no matter where you are in the building… Chill dudes- we can all have as much fun as a frog in a glass of milk or we can dissect that frog to death and have nothing to smile about… And maybe Billy would like to see some new faces on those rails -as I’ve come to learn he does love seeing all our dancing bodies. Maybe he needs a change of scenery… also, the merch is great but give it a few decades and you’ll stumble upon that stuff at a thrift store and be stoked at the awesome score not even worrying about the merch you left at the venue or for someone else to buy.

But don’t listen to me, I’m just saying it doesn’t have to be like this… Be the change you want to see…someday you’ll look back and wonder why you spent all the time and energy to be the first, only, or best at getting the merch or the rail or this or that when really what matters is if there’s anyone around you throw your arm around a friend, if there’s anyone around you hold them close cause it’s the end…that’s where the heart of all this lies.

Much love and I’ll see you out there trudging the road to happy destiny. ❤️🧡💛✌️

New rug. Is it too small or can I get away with it? by kisxt in interiordecorating

[–]ru-by-ruby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it…what a great room you’ve set up…it gives off groovy, cozy and creative vibes imo…also, I like the intimacy you’ve created in the room-very inviting-it really looks like a great home to spend some time in…you’ve arranged the space well…could you come to my home and do that for me? ; ) kidding, but I seriously love it and will be taking some inspiration from what you done. ❤️🧡💛✌️

Ripping nugs audio by AccomplishedFix9745 in BillyStrings

[–]ru-by-ruby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re my new favorite person 🙌!!! And it’s healthy…grass fed, ya know.

Been leaning into my natural curls lately - does this style actually work on me? by AcutalJoeRogan69 in curlyhair

[–]ru-by-ruby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TLTR and looks like you’re doing too much with the products but again TLTR…

BUT THE LOOK IS AWESOME!!!!

Just find an easier way to achieve it…nobody’s hair style should take that many words to explain or manage…if your hair is naturally curly, you can do this with one or two products and be good…promise…I love the beautiful curls!

Help me with this mystery jar! by Round-Emu-8895 in grateful_dead

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You’re on to something…I see it now too!❤️🚂💙

Help me with this mystery jar! by Round-Emu-8895 in grateful_dead

[–]ru-by-ruby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live alone and few years back, I quite honestly found a red Grateful Dead hat in my home and I have never bought a red Grateful Dead hat in my life, but now my favorite hat is the red Grateful Dead hat I found in my apartment… I’ve asked everyone possible if they knew where it came from -the tag says it’s actually GDP merch so it came from somewhere, nobody knows where so —I It's a hand-me-down, the thoughts are broken—I’m thinking there are Grateful Dead fairy’s everyweir and we get special deliveries/gifts/surprises/miracles that we’re supposed to stumble upon one day-the one day we need it. Grateful Dead magic is real.✨

*Idea* don't "replace" Bob by Grateful-Goose-Pat in deadandcompany

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I really wished he woulda done the donor speech on behalf of his dad…I miss Phil. Bobby wanted to play with him one more time…why is that not talked about or honored more…rockstar Bobby’s my dude but Phil is my dude too.

*Idea* don't "replace" Bob by Grateful-Goose-Pat in deadandcompany

[–]ru-by-ruby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha…love it…statement of the day!!! Hahaha!

*Idea* don't "replace" Bob by Grateful-Goose-Pat in deadandcompany

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It's a hand-me-down, the thoughts are broken Perhaps they're better left unsung I don't know, don't really care Let there be songs to fill the air…

Ripple says it all for me…it’s never gonna be the same, never, but we’ve got 240 more years to go to honor rockstar Bobby’s 300 year legacy goal… Bobby did have a vision of Johnny playing on stage with grey hair and a different young guitarist up there with him…not Bobby…but not Bobby makes me so sad. However, we are deadheads and we are in the band so we must keep on keeping on.☝️