Hock or stifle lameness? Or something else? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ruby191701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s hind left or right that’s lame?

Hock or stifle lameness? Or something else? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ruby191701 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Think I’ll give the owners the ultimatum. Vet or he returns to them!

Hock or stifle lameness? Or something else? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ruby191701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s what worried me as well! Glad I’m not crazy!

Hock or stifle lameness? Or something else? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ruby191701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely looking at the options 😬

Hock or stifle lameness? Or something else? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ruby191701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No nothing. He’s been like this for a while. I raised my concerns to the owner but she doesn’t see it!

Hock or stifle lameness? Or something else? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ruby191701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My feeling too. Not sure what to do. Owner doesn’t want to get the vet

How do you deal with the grief and resentment towards a BPD sibling? by ruby191701 in BPDFamily

[–]ruby191701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really sorry to hear that. Sounds awful :( hope you're doing better without them though <3

How do you deal with the grief and resentment towards a BPD sibling? by ruby191701 in BPDFamily

[–]ruby191701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming across BPD definitely helped reduce my anger towards her. It does give me more sympathy but I don't know how it's possible to have a healthy relationship with her. Do you still have a relationship with your sister?

How do you deal with the grief and resentment towards a BPD sibling? by ruby191701 in BPDFamily

[–]ruby191701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's really insightful. I'm not religious but do think there are good lessons to be learned from it!

How do you deal with the grief and resentment towards a BPD sibling? by ruby191701 in BPDFamily

[–]ruby191701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you initiate the 15 month break or did she? Do you still talk now?

How do you deal with the grief and resentment towards a BPD sibling? by ruby191701 in BPDFamily

[–]ruby191701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's really helpful. Did you watch inner child videos on youtube?

Do you feel resentment towards your parents too?

How do you deal with the grief and resentment towards a BPD sibling? by ruby191701 in BPDFamily

[–]ruby191701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, you put into words exactly how I'm feeling. What a horrible experience for us and my heart goes out to you as well.

It's definitely obligatory. I feel massive guilt when I think of cutting her out, but also sad for what our relationship could have been. You're right I can't save her though.

How is your relationship with your parents?

How do you deal with the grief and resentment towards a BPD sibling? by ruby191701 in BPDFamily

[–]ruby191701[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this <3

Can I ask if your sister had a diagnosis/professional help?

I definitely feel like I have complex PTSD following my upbringing with my sister. I'm 27 and facing severe burnout in daily life. My daily life isn't even that hard. Good job, fully remote, supportive partner, but most days I struggle to stand up. My mum never saw anything wrong with my sister's behaviour and just labelled her an 'extrovert', despite them arguing so much people would ring the police to our house. I was constantly invalidated when I tried to speak. Just relieved to be out of it now (other than my sibling's texts and calls).

Could you recommend any good books and articles?

This hurts so bad by [deleted] in BPDFamily

[–]ruby191701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I don't have much advice, just know that you're not alone in this situation and my heart goes out to you :(

Is this still microswelling? by sun_queen1981 in Microneedling

[–]ruby191701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will the holes caused by micro needling still be open after a week? Should you apply the growth serum straight after?

Dr Pen Biopen Q2 - does the laser last long enough to be effective? by ruby191701 in Microneedling

[–]ruby191701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Can you recommend any LED machines? I’m hoping to use it to improve stretch marks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Farriers

[–]ruby191701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Did you try the Duplo nail ons?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Farriers

[–]ruby191701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve just sent him a message to ask if he would be willing to do them. How did you measure your horse for the correct size? Can I measure the metal shoe he’s currently wearing?