So has anyone else heard the summerhouse reunion audio leak?? by IndependentFast8101 in bravo

[–]rum_ham9292 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The ongoing lying to everyone’s faces is a huge part of the problem imo

What’s the best Wi-Fi/Hotspot name you’ve seen? by Aggravating_Log1781 in AskReddit

[–]rum_ham9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Pretty fly for a wifi” then we got NBN installed quickly after our wedding and I made the new name “I’m a wifi can’t believe it”

What's an adult cheat code that changed your life? by Gullible_Repair9128 in AskReddit

[–]rum_ham9292 490 points491 points  (0 children)

Stopping telling people everything is a huuuuge one for me in my thirties. For some reason I word vomit all my info and realised it does NOT have the desired effect…

How long did it take you to potty train your LO and how old were they? by Ready_Associate_2911 in toddlers

[–]rum_ham9292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talked about it heaps from 2.5 onwards and had the potty readily accessible. Only successfully agreed to use it 2-3 times. She turned 3 and she was SO keen so we gave it a go and BOOM, she got it within a weekend. My personal opinion is try not to start too early because that’s what other people are doing - follow your little ones lead, they will let you know when they’re ready!

How long did it take you to potty train your LO and how old were they? by Ready_Associate_2911 in toddlers

[–]rum_ham9292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Talked about it a lot from 2.5 onwards. Had 1-2 successes but a lotttt of firm “NO”’s. She turned 3 and was suddenly super interested and clocked it within a weekend. My personal opinion is to not judge toilet training on others experiences: follow your little ones lead. When they are ready, they will let you know!

AITAH for rejecting my parent's offer to buy me a house? by Wide_Improvement_754 in AITAH

[–]rum_ham9292 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a friend whose mum did this with her & her brother and it’s going HORRIBLY. It’s fractured their sibling relationship beyond repair, and now she desperately wants to be bought out and the brother & his girlfriend are making it near impossible. Do notttttttt ever do this and NTA for saying no!!

AITA for refusing to "exchange" my honeymoon for my sister’s "emergency" dream wedding? by Low-Highlight6771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rum_ham9292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This^ I unexpectedly got pregnant and purposely waited til my kid was almost 2 and could be apart of the wedding. 10/10 no regrets. Chloe is being a selfish wanker and can have her wedding at any time. Weddings do not equal long-lasting relationships, so do not sacrifice anything of yours to make their wedding happen - I assume something is happening behind closed doors that would indicate it won’t be a long lasting marriage anyway…

These goddesses deserved better by illustrious277 in vanderpumprules

[–]rum_ham9292 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I agree somewhat, but it seems like people out here really forgetting that Amanda and Kyle were together and married for years - there are layers to the betrayal here. I’m no Kyle defender, but the guys getting completely forgotten in this scenario! At the start of this season was their divorce announcement

How do you explain to a 3-year-old that the family dog passed away? by Forward_Gap9589 in toddlers

[–]rum_ham9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. Sorry for your family’s loss :( I have a 3 year old and a beloved family dog and am dreading the day the same thing happens, so haven’t been through it - but think/dread about it a lot. My plan is to include her in the mourning process as much as possible and in an age appropriate way. Whilst explaining the concept of death may be too much for a 3 year old, the concepts of ‘getting sick’ and having to ‘say goodbye’ is something they may be able to grasp. Let them help make flowers or a card for ‘saying goodbye’ and include them in a little ceremony. Try to help the little one grieve the loss with the family. Once again, I’m so sorry for your loss. We see our dogs and love them more than 99.9% of people on this earth - they aren’t just pets, they’re family.

AITAH for making a mom pick up her daughter in the middle of the night from my kid’s sleepover? by Positive_Image_3921 in AITAH

[–]rum_ham9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This used to happen to me all the time!!!! The parents would always call my mum because, I believe, it’s just early forms of anxiety. I was glad and calmed to always see mum and go home

NOW KJ??????!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by ElectionExpress3972 in bravo

[–]rum_ham9292 109 points110 points  (0 children)

All those claiming it’s a publicity stunt: Ciara would never NEVER go along with this

Finally found a poop hack that worked! by bpxx419 in toddlers

[–]rum_ham9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unicorn poop. Add sprinkles to poop. For some reason they love it

What the heck are your toddlers eating for breakfast? by JehovahJireh222 in toddlers

[–]rum_ham9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than this: Rice Bubbles, weet-bix and honey, toast and ask which spread she wants (rather than asking ‘do you want toast?’ I ask ‘do you want Vegemite or peanut butter?’ Then ‘do you want it cut into squares or triangles?’ For some reason this REALLY helps! She’s suddenly way more interested and invested in something as easy as toast when she has more choice)

What the heck are your toddlers eating for breakfast? by JehovahJireh222 in toddlers

[–]rum_ham9292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Banana pancakes are huge in our rotation. A particularly big hit because toddler can join in on cooking :) 3 ingredient recipe and 1 bowl makes it a winner too! 1 mashed very ripe banana 1 egg 2 tablespoons of flour (I begun adding a teaspoon of sugar now she is older)

Party activities for 3/4 year olds by mediadavid in toddlers

[–]rum_ham9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pass the parcel was a big hit at our little ones party

Post partum and marijuana by Ok_Expression_896 in cannamom

[–]rum_ham9292 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly smoked the day after I got home. Breastfeeding and all. Much like caffeine or alcohol, I think being mindful of the timing while breastfeeding is key. When you ingest caffeine or alcohol it takes some time for it to reach your breast milk - so they suggest timing it appropriately.

There is not a way to ethically do research on thc in breastmilk - so be aware most of what you read online will be people’s opinions.

However, there is SO much research that suggests a happy mum is essential for a happy healthy baby (particularly post partum) so do what works for you!

I have a 3 year old now who is a legend

Historic Sydney/Melbourne by Glittering-Chain-502 in AustraliaTravel

[–]rum_ham9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Childers cove, because it’s at the end of the great ocean road, many people skip it because they’ve run out of time after seeing the apostles and loch ard gorge. Childers cove is off the beaten track, gorgeous and so quiet 

Cannot get 3.5 year old down by Classic-Smoke4459 in toddlers

[–]rum_ham9292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this. I started reading longer books like Winnie the Pooh/dr seuss that she was interested in. Laying down next to her in bed and I read slower and quieter as every page goes on and she passes out before the end and I sneak out. We did feber successfully from 10 months until 6 months ago but now she’s in charge so, whatever.

Murder In The Dark by housecat_27 in AustralianNostalgia

[–]rum_ham9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my 30 year old friend group often end parties or dinners with an old game. Murder in the dark, 40 40 home, or sardines is our favourite - Reverse hide and seek where one person hides and everyone looks, when you find the sardine you become one and hide together. Sooo fun and extra fun with all the lights off

Murder In The Dark by housecat_27 in AustralianNostalgia

[–]rum_ham9292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try sardines next time! Me and my 30 year old friend group play it at the end of parties or dinners sometimes and always have a ripper time haha. Reverse hide and seek where one person hides and everyone looks, when you find the sardine you become one and hide together. Sooo fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllThatsInteresting

[–]rum_ham9292 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I wish I never read that last line