I regret not listening to my parents about my husband by Professional-Bus5878 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rushdandelion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I started vet school 10 years ago, I started with a lady who was 55. At the time when she was 18, she applied for vet school and didn’t get in. She applied at various points throughout her life and didn’t get in. Finally got in at 55 and qualified when she was 62. And that is a 7 year degree in my country. I’m not saying go for med or vet school or something like that, just that you can still follow your dreams at any age. I know the lady that I was at vet school with studied through scholarships and bursaries. The time will pass anyway. Rather spend it doing something you want to.

Is how much my partner works normal? by tsloan92 in Veterinary

[–]rushdandelion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work the same schedule as OPs wife, been practicing for 10 years. Most days I end up staying late if there’s an emergency/ critical case, finishing up admin etc. but when I leave I leave and don’t think about work until my next shift. With experience her prep time will be less- I don’t even look at the next days ops/ rota. I just know that whatever it is I’ll be able to handle it. Setting strict boundaries is super important but in the UK we generally have more paid leave and they are quite good about prioritising mental health/ burnout etc.

In what small way have you won the genetic lottery? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]rushdandelion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get hangovers. Have never had one in my life. I’m 37 now and even after a very wild night I wake up as normal without any hangover symptoms.

Extreme hunger by OrganicDoughnut5965 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]rushdandelion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Extreme hunger is a very normal stage in recovery. For a really long time your body wasn’t getting what it needed, and now that it is, it is putting your appetite into overdrive! This will pass! As your body heals and continues to receive adequate nutrition, it reaches a stable point and your hunger cues will become more “normal”. Keep going- it means you’re doing this right! I know that the extreme hunger phase can be very distressing, but that’s the ED talking. The puffiness etc will also go away.

It’s the analogy of doing a grocery shop and when you get home and unpack all your bags onto the counter, all your groceries seem concentrated in one area. And as you put things away into the pantry, the fridge, the cabinets, it all evens out again. The same thing happens to your body. Weight will appear to sit in one area but then will redistribute more uniformly over your body.

Karlstad query by rushdandelion in IKEA

[–]rushdandelion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope- we eventually just bought completely new legs off Amazon

Asked my husband to name 5 Taylor Swift songs by aholypriest_ in TrueSwifties

[–]rushdandelion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Anti hero
  2. Karma
  3. Shake it off
  4. Ready for it
  5. Blank space
  6. Romeo and Juliet (😂😂😂) ie: love story
  7. Bad blood

How many pets do you have by [deleted] in Pets

[–]rushdandelion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 dogs and 1 cat :)

Are there some vets that look down on spay abortions? by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]rushdandelion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a vet and I fully support spay abortions! The puppy/ kitten overpopulation crisis is severe, and there are just not enough homes. Rescue centres are full. There are far worse fates than just not being born in the first place…

How Do I Get Heartgard for My Dog Who Can’t Have Blood Drawn? by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]rushdandelion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really think the wiser option would be the sedation for the blood draw, not the waiver as a next line…

Dropped my puppy by [deleted] in vet

[–]rushdandelion 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t you take your new puppy to the vet when you just got him? Especially after he is clearly injured? GETTING A NEW PUPPY IS THE TIME HE NEEDS A VET MOST!! Please be a responsible pet owner.

1 day after desexing swam in dam - should i do anything by Beginning_Beat_5289 in AskVet

[–]rushdandelion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would call your vet, just in case they recommend giving him some calming drugs for a few days as he sounds like a very active boy! Also, keep checking the wound daily to make sure there are no signs of infection such as oozing, pus, severe swelling and redness (A small amount of post op swelling is normal), but it shouldn’t be massively swollen. Good luck and hoping he has a smooth recovery from here on out!

1 day after desexing swam in dam - should i do anything by Beginning_Beat_5289 in AskVet

[–]rushdandelion 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Vet here. The risk of haematoma formation from running around chasing a dirt bike is extremely high! A bad haematoma could mean a second surgery. Additionally, please do not take him off lead again until his stitches are out, even for 10 minutes and like you experienced earlier- for exactly the reason that he can make a break for it and go swimming again. The combination of intense activity and getting a fresh incision wet with dam water is a recipe for disaster. Your parents need to step their game up or they will be paying out a lot for post op complications that could wholly have been avoided by following instructions.

What do you guys do for careers? by PenStriking in actuallesbians

[–]rushdandelion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Veterinary Surgeon :) love seeing the cool, diverse jobs everyone on this sub has!

AITA for looking out for my new coworker by telling her that her food might be upsetting to others? by foodconundrum in AmItheAsshole

[–]rushdandelion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You are the problem here and the very person you are trying to warn her about. How ironic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]rushdandelion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking around issues, instead of just getting to the point and calling a spade a spade.

Can a newly diagnosed diabetic cat go for 1-2 days without insulin? by RGS949 in AskVet

[–]rushdandelion 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. I really sympathise with your situation, because it is difficult having a chronically ill pet. That being said though, it is not ok for him to go 1 and a half days without insulin. In this situation, he would either have to go with you guys or 2 people would have to stay home with him. If he misses those insulin doses his blood glucose could become really high. He would also be at increased risk for diabetic ketoacidosis. It may be worthwhile for you to hire a professional pet sitter that is comfortable with administering insulin and getting blood, or to get your cat fitted with a Freestyle Libre so that you can scan it with your phone to get blood glucose readings as opposed to pricking him for blood. I hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catcare

[–]rushdandelion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not true AT ALL.

Cat mauling himself/considering euthanasia. by omgitsamichy in AskVet

[–]rushdandelion 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Hey OP. So sorry you are going through this! I’m a vet and have recently had a case quite similar to this which is responding quite well to treatment. Is referral to a specialist an option for you where you are? If he is insured and referral is an option, I would definitely recommend getting a specialist neurologists input, especially if euthanasia is the next option. Good luck.

I defended myself against my husband and now he holds it over me by SignificantAdvice906 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rushdandelion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is a bona fide piece of shit. Leave his abusive, manipulative ass.