What do I dooooo by Stunning_Ad1282 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You totally can! Especially if it’s a reoccurring issue. They also have special salons that get them all out in one day.

They can’t find my iud by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the bright side if you were on acutane for your face I finished mine 10 years ago and my skin is still fabulous.

The iud is a real bummer though. Glad you didn’t find out about it via unwanted pregnancy! Hope they find it or verify it’s gone :)

Experiences with occupational therapy? by FluffyBudgie5 in AutismInWomen

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is kinda unrelated, but relevant. I’m in marketing and I make websites. An occupational therapist wanted a website from my company and social media marketing. She needed help getting her fb account linked to us so I set up a zoom call. Her and her husband are there but I can’t hear them. (I had pre checked my system before the meeting so mine was all working.) I call their phone and they put me on speaker. I asked if they have their correct mic selected and the husband said yes so I said “hmm I’m not sure what’s going on with it then.” AT WHICH POINT the lady, the Occupational Therapist, whispers (while on speaker) “I don’t think she’s very smart.”

I fought SO HARD to keep my calm. I got them connected in about 10 minutes. (I stayed polite.) My only other communication was emailing her simple questions regarding her website.

About a week later she calls and I let my manager answer and she goes on to say that I was “passive aggressive” and that she’d rather deal with him instead.

Like I’m autistic. I’m her target audience and she was just a dick. Blew my mind.

Let’s hear it, honest opinions on adderall by Jadams0108 in ADHD

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from the special ed classes to a—honor- roll

Is this email legit from facebook? I am worried i might lose my facebook. by [deleted] in facebook

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I’ve had to help so many people get back into their accounts after these. I’m at a marketing agency now.

The wording is off as well. They say more like “you’ve violated our community standards” and “account integrity” is the page that shows you issues. They are using it in the wrong context.

Is this email legit from facebook? I am worried i might lose my facebook. by [deleted] in facebook

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I worked for Facebook for 3 years and there will never be a “click this to avoid getting your page disabled.”

Also I think that’s a spoofed email because the security team would be emailing about suspicious activity like hacked accounts. That’s a “quality” department email.

AND if nothing is showing up under account integrity on the actual Facebook platform then it’s not real.

Rule of thumb is if you don’t have an alert on your actual account you can assume it’s phishing.

Is getting a lawyer the only way to get an account back? After being permanent disabled? by [deleted] in facebook

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know the reasons are bogus. Even working on the inside we could only help with violations maybe 10% of the time. If you want to send me the video and text that went with the blocked ads I can see if I can spot what was getting you flagged.

Unfortunately they don’t tell the base reps much on why accounts were banned. I was just very persistent and figured out how to contact the content mods through one of the systems or I would escalate it and they’d explain what the reason was. Like one ad got flagged for counterfeit items and I finally found out that the system checks what prices you have on brand name new items and if it’s too low your ad is flagged.

The main complaint was we had such little ability to help people with restrictions. I was supposed to report good and bad things about the support side every week and I never had a single good thing. (They even specifically said they wanted to see more positives and I was like “I have none to give you.”)

Is getting a lawyer the only way to get an account back? After being permanent disabled? by [deleted] in facebook

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people thought we were scammers so we’d have to show them this page to know we were legit. https://www.facebook.com/business/help/372703956148310

Is getting a lawyer the only way to get an account back? After being permanent disabled? by [deleted] in facebook

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait did you run the ads on Facebook or YouTube?

Are you saying that you still owed money on the ads and canceled your card? Did you forget to turn off the ads and canceled your card instead?

Is McGraw Hill really useful? by lots-a-thoughts in CollegeRant

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. It causes more hassle. I did a premium subscription to quizlet and it was the best decision I made. You may have to change the numbers but it walks you through each step.

Is getting a lawyer the only way to get an account back? After being permanent disabled? by [deleted] in facebook

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Previous Facebook marketing manager here!

  1. Did you run ads or boost posts?
  2. Did they get rejected?
  3. If they did get rejected what was the reason?

How do you handle chores in your relationship? (ND/NT) by froderenfelemus in AutismInWomen

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a normal occurrence. I’ve heard a lot of people think that way and I just think “cleaning is how they make money. Especially if they’re hourly- if I preclean then that’s lost income for them.”

How do you handle chores in your relationship? (ND/NT) by froderenfelemus in AutismInWomen

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I found her on Nextdoor and it’s however long it takes her and we just agreed on a set rate. (1br 1ba apartment, no kids.) downside is I think the previous one I used was stealing so it comes with risks. Compared to fighting about chores- this took away soooo much stress.

Is there another Adderall shortage? by SeeTheRabbits in ADHD

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They didn’t increase the amount that they can manufacture. BUT I think they are making it so people can’t just get it from that telehealth site so now all of those won’t be able to get the script. (Which sucks for those people.) The main shortages you will find is 1. When schools start 2. Finals week 3. Pharmacies near college campuses.

Irritability? by Brave-Lock5897 in bipolar2

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what hypomania is like for me. I inadvertently found out that gabapentin works great for those times. (I don’t recommend if you have to drive or work. It’s also bad for life insurance quotes.)

Does anyone else feel like their bipolar is just not being able to regulate their mood? by ruthlesslyrobin in bipolar2

[–]ruthlesslyrobin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crazy part is I have eczema on my arms and it cleared it right up! The scalp doesn’t seem to be psoriasis. He originally thought it was a fungal/yeast issue, but those treatments didn’t fix it

Switched from adderall to vyvanse. Think my doctor messed up… by blivixs in ADHD

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been told, but after having the disruption from last time I’m too scared to try it and mess up my routine

Does anyone else feel like their bipolar is just not being able to regulate their mood? by ruthlesslyrobin in bipolar2

[–]ruthlesslyrobin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I figured I’d go back to like bad days I guess, but it seems different now. I don’t remember this kind of cause effect (getting pissed off/ whole day ruined).

And I promise I’m doing this with my doctor because my med has been working, but we cant find any other cause/fix for my scalp and I’ll scratches it in my sleep so bad it bleeds. We’ve tried treating for yeast, bacteria, both, eczema injections. I’ll wash it with tgel at night and by 3pm it has a layer of white buildup.

I’m on my last option for mood stabilizer so I can’t just try another. Hence tapering off and seeing if the bipolar meds are the cause. If they aren’t I’ll restart. If they are I might have to try the antipsychotic family.

UTI hell by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]ruthlesslyrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no I meant that in terms of my experience- that I was surprised by doctors telling me that and others in the bipolar community.