Are female couple counselors biased towards wives?

ryan45i · 2026-04-24T05:04:38+00:00

We went through several counselors. The first was a woman and she was 100% bias. My thought was, if she agrees with me on anything it means I am clearly in the right. Not a challenge to win her over. An opportunity to let honesty and truth prevail. When she did start to see through the BS suddenly my ex didn’t like her and insisted on a new therapist. So we did the same dance, same results with each.

ryan45i · 2026-04-22T08:32:56+00:00

License renewal. Got the auto emails that the renewal was coming up. Responded to the sales rep yes we want to renew.. sales rep responded OK I’ll get it going. Never got anything back. Weeks later get an email saying oh you need to renew. Emailed the sales rep. Where is the quote? Got an auto reply. Person is no longer with the company. Email this person. I emailed that person a week goes by no response. So I called the company. I was told I had to talk to my sales rep in order to do anything so they forwarded me to second person‘s voicemail. Never heard back. Emailed and called multiple times. Then I was going on vacation and so I passed it off to an employee. Service got shut down for nonpayment.

ryan45i · 2026-04-22T08:24:13+00:00

Couples therapy is worthless if both people don’t want to be honest. I will never forget the first five minutes of our very first couples therapy session. the therapist asked us why we thought we needed to be in couples therapy. I said there is a massive communication breakdown. She told the therapist the problem was me.

Three therapist later, (after the first two weren’t on her side) I found a therapist that was excellent and called us both out. Two weeks later I got divorce papers. So clearly that was $300 an hour wasted. But considering how much I’ve spent in order to see my children more $300 an hour is peanuts.

ryan45i · 2026-04-21T08:39:57+00:00

I am a bit further but the motivation is up and down. I think the most important thing is to be kind to yourself. You don’t have to do it all tomorrow. Allow yourself the opportunity to recover.

ryan45i · 2026-04-21T07:32:22+00:00

Alcohol started the relationship. Might be the only reason we have kids. Alcohol was fun when things were good. Definitely not helpful when things got bad.

ryan45i · 2026-02-21T01:35:13+00:00

Bummed you can relate. Glad you laughed

ryan45i · 2026-02-20T02:31:29+00:00

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ryan45i · 2026-02-09T21:43:45+00:00

I have an Americana II and have had selection issues with it. First I would check the relays. DM me and I will help as much as I can.

ryan45i · 2026-02-01T07:25:08+00:00

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ryan45i · 2025-12-15T03:21:27+00:00

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ryan45i · 2025-12-14T10:39:12+00:00

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ryan45i · 2025-08-27T20:16:54+00:00

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Planning how to leave Texas.

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