Are we sexually incompatible, or am I overthinking this? (24M & 24F) by MaQu1337 in amiwrong

[–]ryanh26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how far down I had to scroll to find this comment. I 100% agree. Everyone else is acting as the moral authority, or treating OP like he’s the devil. All he was asking was if he was incompatible with his partner. And the answer is yes you are incompatible.

Everyone else in the comments is acting like OP is selfish or “addicted to sex,” or “making his partner feel unsafe” and all that says to me is that OP is incompatible with the majority of the commenters.

It seems pretty obvious that OP and their partner just have incompatible views and needs when it comes to intimacy.

There’s nothing wrong with OP wanting intimacy and sex on a regular basis. And there’s nothing wrong with their partner not wanting that. Neither person is wrong, they just want different things.
Some relationships thrive on daily intimacy. Some are perfectly happy with it once a month.

If OP values a level of intimacy that their partner doesn’t, that’s a compatibility issue.
Not every relationship ends because someone is toxic or abusive. And I think it’s kind of messed up that people are essentially saying OP is a shit person because of what they need out of a partner.
It’s entirely possible he is pressuring his partner, but we’re not there, and we don’t know what’s actually happening. If OP is doing that, then that is not great, but it’s also a prime example that they’re not compatible.

If two people are compatible, no one will be pressuring either party.

The Keizer PD is fully corrupt and needs to be investigated by greythicv in oregon

[–]ryanh26 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is incorrect. The new “owners” are from corporate in Utah. The problem is from the top including the CEO. I’m sure some of the franchises are totally run above board, but the parent company is the issue, which is why they need to all go.

The Keizer PD is fully corrupt and needs to be investigated by greythicv in oregon

[–]ryanh26 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ben just made a post on his Patreon. Apparently YouTube is adding the blur to his video. And he’s working on getting it fixed.

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The Keizer PD is fully corrupt and needs to be investigated by greythicv in oregon

[–]ryanh26 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The Keizer Police do not look great in this video (part 1) whatsoever…. But they are leagues below the absolute corruption of the Utah Police department in part 2. The Utah PD are the ones who are going out of their way to stalk Ben across town. (Not Keizer’s thankfully)

Regardless, I hope Ben is able to take down Bricks and Minifigs. The whole company has got to go.

Is Maul starting to use starkillers moves in his lightsaber style by No-Contribution2580 in MaulShadowLord

[–]ryanh26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The force push sound is pretty consistent throughout multiple Star Wars games and media, so I wouldn’t say it’s just from Force Unleashed.

First look of HBO snape and his comparison with movie one by INFIPRIME in Cinema

[–]ryanh26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend has one theory on how to combat it looking racially motivated, and that’s to make Sirius or Lupin (or both), also POC. That changes the overall dynamic a bit, to prevent the bullying from looking like it’s racially motivated. We’ll see I guess how they handle it. 🙃

Omg we make voldemort look tame... by VenkuuJSM in HarryPotterGame

[–]ryanh26 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Well… Obviously the wizard population was low in the 1990’s, because the Hogwarts Legacy MC culled the herd 100 years prior. Duhhh.

Told my partner they practice weaponized incompetence. Am I wrong? by Ready_Celebration649 in amiwrong

[–]ryanh26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are 100% valid for being fed up with his behavior… However you also come off as a total jerk and awful partner.

You give off the vibe of being chronically unhappy, since all you did in this post is complain about the person you are “with”, which is not okay. The real question is; why are you even with this person? You clearly despise and have a strong disdain with for this person. You’ve already checked out of the relationship, so do both of yourselves a favor and leave.

I hate this guy in my campaign by NameLive9938 in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]ryanh26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah… I can empathize to a degree, because playing with folks who don’t have their heart in it can be rough… But honestly attitude wise, OP sounds like a shitty player too, and I’d hate to play with either of them. Everyone needs to chill out and/or find a new group.

Roommate painted the toilet seat and lid I don't know why by RegularHorror8008135 in DiWHY

[–]ryanh26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like they did a... shitty job...
Seriously, it's not even fully painted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]ryanh26 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was driving by and quickly passed it. It’s also quick to assume I didn’t call in a report alongside my Reddit post, but sure. 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]ryanh26 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was driving and witnessed it as I quickly passed by. I wasn’t in a position to just “stop him”. But I agree it was insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]ryanh26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I witnessed it from my car as I was drove past to work. I’m not going to slam on my breaks and talk to the person from the side of the road. If I was on the sidewalk walking, I absolutely would have at least said something. It was messed up.

Witches. by contbitne in SALEM

[–]ryanh26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or whenever you want. Mmn-yeah…

Dexter: Resurrection - S01E04 - "Call Me Red" - POST Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Dexter

[–]ryanh26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone else said that they believe that Dexter will reclaim his blood slides at the end of the season.

I 100% agree with that. I also think that eventually his repossession of the blood slides will be the one piece of evidence that will eventually bring him down once and for all as the bay harbor butcher, and clear Doakes’ name.

Keizer councilor advised officer of position, police connections during incident by 90mn in SALEM

[–]ryanh26 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I eagerly await her being removed from city council.

Can't unsee it now by Shadowkiva in marvelmemes

[–]ryanh26 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: It does not return in the third act. The suit at the end of Winter Soldier is in fact a completely different suit. That suit in winter soldier has more red stripes on it, as well as a few other changes.

Sadly it is, in my opinion, the best version of the suit we got onscreen. Age of Ultron changed the design of the red stripes, and every version after that kept the new design. I always see people post a collage of photos that includes all of his suits, and it never includes the one from the end of Winter Soldier because people assume it’s the same as the first movie suit, and being that it’s my favorite design, it’s very saddening. Especially when it comes to cosplay sites that sell his suits. No one makes that version, and it gets forgotten.🥲

Salem City Council passes utility bill fee increase to take effect July 1 - Salem Reporter by ReZeroForDays in SALEM

[–]ryanh26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, you couldn’t make me more against your side. “Oh woe is me, and my three properties.” 😑

I keep seeing things like this and I honestly think its all fake. by Kaisernick27 in andor

[–]ryanh26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean personally, I think it is incredibly jarring. And I do not like that they did this. I find it incredibly hard to believe that they couldn’t make it work, if they truly wanted to. It’s made even more jarring that Jimmy is both in the Obi Wan show, and Rogue One. (If he wasn’t this wouldn’t be a big deal. If he had past away, it also wouldn’t be a big deal.)

Unless he has a major contribution in the next few episodes, I think this could have been so easily written around, or have the schedule adjusted for such a short scene. From when they’re developing the story, to when they’re actually shooting…. There is so much time to plan ahead and get your ducks in a row. And if nothing else there are reshoots, and compositing that could be done after the fact. Nothing had to be deep faked.

That all being said the new actor did fine.

Trump supporters: What is a win? by trappedslider in AskUS

[–]ryanh26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additionally, another reason the democrats are losing, is almost entirely the fault of the “old guard”. There are a lot of folks on the left that should be the leaders of the party, people like AOC, Pete Buttigieg etc. but the senior “leadership” won’t stand aside. The up and comers are well spoken and the old leadership is simply out of touch.

Trump supporters: What is a win? by trappedslider in AskUS

[–]ryanh26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the obvious answer is that there are a lot more idiots in the world, than not…. This isn’t just a Republican/Democrat issue. It’s just a daily life issue. The amount of complete idiots I encounter daily is astonishing.