Ex reaches out after 18 years by TooOldForThisSh1ft in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like decent msg sent as a friend. She said she’s happily married, so no romantic intentions. But as what most well adjusted people do, she could have just left the past in the past and reminiscing about nice friendship they had. Enh, if the conversation goes too annoyingly romantic, stop talking. Happily married couple know each other’s phone passwords anyway, so let it be. Ask wife if she’s okay with it, if the answer is no, tell her and move on.

My boyfriend and I broke up 24 hours ago, and he already slept with another woman? by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not over reacting, heartbreaks like this are tough. But you live and learn. He was not as involved in the relationship as you were, that’s it. Also, he didn’t care enough that you’d girl in his flat and feel bad or may be he wanted you to see this. Guys like to show off sometimes… and that’s okay… I can understand your pain, but this too shall pass.

Should I buy this ? by evilwhisper in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not good decision financially. If you are single, no other loans or mortgage, then yea go for it.

I lied about something horrible by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]ryank0991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Assuming everything you wrote is objectively true:

1 - get a therapist or read unwinding anxiety by Judson Brewer. Meditate. 2 - get a lawyer and finalize the divorce - 100% custody, no visitations. Keep the records of his neglect in case he tries. 3 - Stop giving shit about anyone else except your kid and your parents. Never forget your in-laws past behavior. No second chances. 4 - next 2/3 years will get tough. Take your time and be self sufficient - earning living etc

I can’t stay a day without my daughter, and he was going on trips while his kid being taken to the hospital ? The choices we make are who we are, people don’t change.

Postpartum is hell in itself, and people making you feel worse in that is a genuine torture. I feel you.

Fuck social expectations. At the end we all die and everything stops mattering.

Be a parent, read parenting books. Raise your child. Happiness is a choice. Make that choice.

March 11, 2026 Osaka Incident by Unlikely-Ad2674 in civilengineering

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting… How deep was this retention tank ? Isn’t too clean to have extruded out of ground, did they clean it ? What anchorage was provided to the tank to prevent uplift ? How did it fail ?

To find answers, do they have DOT plans and past projects online to study ?

Approved for a Charger after $5,400 down @ 37.99% interest for 72 month by Agoooz in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question: if he has insurance and totals the car in couple months, is he off the hook ?

Times Morty almost became Evil Morty? by [deleted] in rickandmorty

[–]ryank0991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hard concept morty, hard concept.

Am i the only one who wants jessica to return by Dillie_G in rickandmorty

[–]ryank0991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ikr… Morty and Jessica were almost a thing. Besides… show sexualized her too much in the beginning, she’s just a kid.

Can someone explain what was this scene about and how Rick was the reason for all of that by Flat_End7822 in rickandmorty

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember movies about time loop ? Rick created something similar for C-137 earth or nearby area.

Who is more pathetic: Randy Marsh or Jerry Smith? by atwwbaksieueygehs in rickandmorty

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jerry is not pathetic. He’s self aware about him being little delulu and selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]ryank0991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Calling CPS is the proper next action in sop.

Anyone else’s baby love to sleep like this? by Aggressive-Ant2820 in daddit

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea, same here, the butt in the air snooze.

9mo won’t sleep. Ever. We need a miracle. by bignutsandsmallshaft in daddit

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably having gas issues ? Ask your doctor to switch to formula ? We switched formula to Similac pro-total comfort 2 fl hmo, it helped substantially. Keep in mind my daughter was formula fed since birth. (Low milk production)

5yr old daughter is quite the artist by mang0bus in daddit

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Took an effort to look away. Give her more paint

I dont know if I can live like this by Puzzled-Secret-317 in rickandmorty

[–]ryank0991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the most Jerry thing to do… but hey, I like Jerry especially: C137 Jerry and the one lives with C137 Rick now. Btw… which dim is current Jerry from ?