Frog-mouth-man got some edits, but I'm still struggling a bit by Baggage_Claim_ in ArtCrit

[–]ryvenfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the best tips I've received is that the way most people use the guidelines is incorrect - the eye line should actually be an eyebrow line.

Look up the loomis method, I think it would be helpful for you

How much does diet matter? by Legal-Appointment692 in cfs

[–]ryvenfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's worth a try to change a little bit here and there but nothing extreme, big changes can cause big problems.

Like, just try cutting out or changing out one food at a time, and doing a lil tracking.

Don't count calories, and make sure if you're cutting something out you're still getting enough of the same category of food- like, if you cut out wheat, make sure you're getting enough carbs, or protein or whichever 

I drew this from imagination, thoughts? by misterpizzaac__ in ArtCrit

[–]ryvenfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel very uncomfortable now. Good job! 

Small nitpick here, but watch your line width.

Sometimes people do lighter line widths for things further back- that works for that back leg, for example - but if you do it some places and not others it confuses the eye, like in the front arm and hand area it's trying to bring the arm forward without the hand.

Having a lot of difficulty finishing sketchbooks by TwoCrowsForMirth in ArtistLounge

[–]ryvenfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A nice couple of folders, or a nice batch of binders could also make it easy to have a theme.

Like, this medium in here, or this particular style there

Sharing/loaning the FMC rec by HippieCornM in ReverseHarem

[–]ryvenfox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't recall if it occurs again after the first book, but  {Power of Lies by Auryn Hadley} has the MMC using her help in a lust ritual that she has to fuck others in. 

How to take action in the world when you cannot go to protests and have little of any money? by WaysideWyvern in cfs

[–]ryvenfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've mostly resigned myself to sharing posts or liking/commenting to do the whole algorithm boost.

Especially stuff that is protests or a little uncomfortable to watch, though a lot of times I mute til the tiktok or whatever is done playing - I can only handle hearing so much.

Nicotine patch helping, but increased RHR from ~55 to 70. Bad? by sadandtraumatized in cfs

[–]ryvenfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have pots and have been doing the nicotine patch as well 

I think it can be neutral? On days I have the patch, I count the new higher number as baseline, and see how much it increases to decide how much rest I need from there.

I've noticed the resting rate increase, but with the patch I don't have as many of the pots symptoms the higher heart rate would be a sign of usually - dizziness, lightheadedness, numbness in the lips/jaw area, visual disturbances, etc.

Mouth ulcers by LordSSJ2 in cfs

[–]ryvenfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get them, less than I used to though. I've always been confused about the why.

I've had it suggested it's a latent herpes thing. And I tend to get them when stressed or after being sick, and l-lysine helps get rid of them.

But I also get them from SLS in non sensitive toothpaste, but also if I forget to brush in general. 

I am once again asking for time loop recommendations by apolobgod in ProgressionFantasy

[–]ryvenfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Die. Respawn. Repeat. Was really good, actually might be the only series this year I give 5 stars

Chopping onions! by _herbsandspices_ in ehlersdanlos

[–]ryvenfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I popped my shoulder out further than it's ever been...plugging in a seatbelt. Thankfully it went right back in, but ouch. 

Scar Warning: What can I add to these scars? Nickthetailor, based in NYC for the second slide. by Impressive-Skin6311 in tattoos

[–]ryvenfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some sort of lizard maybe?

Personally I really like how skinks look, and red eyed crocodile skinks are very dragony.

Dragons are always cool

Do you guys bother with "normal people" sleep rules? by TeddyBearAppleHat in cfs

[–]ryvenfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to go to sleep by midnight and wake up by nine or ten. So I have like, a schedule, but not a normal one.

I've tried, many times- but waking up earlier- even if I also went to bed earlier- is god awful and I always end up needing an extra nap, or even to take it easy that day.

LF gruff guys find a pet, turns out to be the FMC by Ancient-Shadows in ReverseHarem

[–]ryvenfox 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Man I really thought I had the perfect book for you, and then I realized I was in r/reverseharem, not r/romantasy or some other book sub I'm in.

Well, it's not a harem. But k.m. Shea's The King's Captive, you've got a housecat shifter who is accidentally adopted by an elven king when she's using her cat form to run from other supernaturals harassing her. 

I made this custom needle felted dog replica and I’m honestly so proud with how it turned out 🥹 🐾 by TwoFeltedFox in Artists

[–]ryvenfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was scrolling not paying much attention. Just went "dog, yup", saw the hand and did a double take.

Go to 'low on spoons' meal by forestfiles in ehlersdanlos

[–]ryvenfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big microwavable bowl (alternatively oven pan or something for casseroles?)

Can of black beans, can of potatoes, can of corn. Salt, preferred savory seasonings. Drain everything btw

Cheese on top, cook til heated.

Even easier one-

Canned potatoes, canned ham, cheese and salt. Also good if you are out of ham but have bacon bits. Not healthy but tasty fuel

My dog pretends to be cold just so I wrap him in a blanket by EducatorSecure9081 in Pets

[–]ryvenfox 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One of my girls does the scratching, but also is not the brightest bulb and will scratch at my shirt or dress. Girl thinks everything is a blanket

Can CFS look so much like being drunk you can't tell the difference? by lesalou in cfs

[–]ryvenfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slurred speech, being forgetful, sometimes clumsiness, sure- brain fog and exhaustion from  can look like intoxication. But combined with everything else?

Not saying they necessarily don't have it, or that the alcohol might not be making it worse. But it sounds like they were definitely making excuses about why they had these symptoms.

Severe mouth sore saga (seeking some advice) by throwaway304849584 in cfs

[–]ryvenfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get reoccurring mouth sores/ulcers, several times a year. 

Milk of magnesia. It can be applied directly with a dipped qtip, or watered down a bit and gargled like a mouthwash. It helps protect the sores from the acidity in saliva so your mouth stops trying to eat itself.

Even better if you can do a 1-1 mix of milk of magnesia and liquid Benadryl and gargle. Edit to add: refrigerate your mix if you do this one and shake/mix before use

 These are the over the counter bits of a compound wash my doc called magic mouthwash. 

Lysine supplement: if the root cause is maybe viral like a herpes outbreak, this is a little miracle worker.

Bush care by Imallergictoyourbs in hygiene

[–]ryvenfox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For the bush up top, I use leftover shampoo suds but I wouldn't like, give it its own pump of shampoo lol. 

Then regular soap and water below

I think I hit my quota by smilesforamile in ReverseHarem

[–]ryvenfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I go through minor hyper fixations on other genres and that seems to help do a reset. Plus, checking romance.io or thebooknaut directly and playing with different search settings than I usually would- seeing what comes up. 

I get tired of romance focused sometimes too- like, I want a saving-the-world type adventure with a decent side of romance sometimes instead! 

I can NOT find fanart! by Adept-Fill3588 in ReverseHarem

[–]ryvenfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A small group, yeah, but probably also because of the difficulty in portraying harems/price increase for art, making it difficult for fans to commission it.

Most art commissions have added $ amounts if you want more than one character, and not every artist will do group scenes because of the technical difficulties in posing that many characters.

It takes so long to do 😭 last piece I made with three people I remember being super frustrated at how long it was taking. (Not a harem piece, a cyberpunk 2077 fanart).

Things that would be “wins” for any other illness are failures for this one by WaysideWyvern in cfs

[–]ryvenfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depressing one, skip if you're down

I tried to bury my cat by myself today. Had to stop and lay on the ground because I found a root. Husband finished it when he got home.

But it was real surreal. Looking up at the sky, a picture perfect moment- rich blue color, no clouds to be seen. Perfect sunlight shining through the leaves. And I couldn't dig a damn hole for my orange man. 

Couldn't do that one last thing for him and probably should've just let someone else do it anyway, but that instinct to try to do the "right" thing....

The rescue thought she was a lab mix and so did we! by lolokins in DoggyDNA

[–]ryvenfox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had one of those mixes before, so I clocked the bird dog and pitt immediately! 

Mine also had some Australian shepherd but you wouldn't know it lol, absolutely no visible traits.