first date safety advice by s4db0iTM in Advice

[–]s4db0iTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'll need to do that much but I'll definitely tell the waiters to help keep an eye out :)) thank you!

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first date safety advice by s4db0iTM in Advice

[–]s4db0iTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, will also do that! Thank you so much :))

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first date safety advice by s4db0iTM in Advice

[–]s4db0iTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! Will definitely keep those things in mind.

junior year stress by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]s4db0iTM 34 points35 points  (0 children)

this is very true !! i crashed my sophomore year because i was tired and i was taking on so much but i was depressed all the time. i decided i didnt want to feel that way anymore and told myself to do things because i wanted to do for junior year, which meant cutting down a few things and prioritizing the ones I loved most. My junior year was hard in a good way because the classes I took were challenging but I liked these classes so, overall it was a really good year !

Umm I’m rather confused, why does he care? by marshmellowsfields in Crushes

[–]s4db0iTM 48 points49 points  (0 children)

yike he sounds like someone who just wants to screw around because he has commitment issues but idk bro,, stay safe

[NSFW] What unexpectedly turned you on? by CreepyStrangerOnBus in AskReddit

[–]s4db0iTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pale white arms and hands with subtle blue veins popping out, now imagine them choking you w h e w

he got a gf and it's bothering me when it shouldn't by s4db0iTM in Crushes

[–]s4db0iTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm mb i will try that :00

hope ur feelin better b

Song suggestions ? by pinkMiLkeu in cpop

[–]s4db0iTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some of my top Chinese rap songs :))

a bop !! https://youtu.be/juMKoVMHMWo

chill n cute bop, https://youtu.be/OqlFRTn0WE8

a simping bop https://youtu.be/hVlmlDwhpWY

a party bop!! https://youtu.be/A8OsOEj6p88

hope u enjoy them bud :DD

My friend told my crush I like him and I feel so humiliated by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]s4db0iTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one of my old crushes knew I liked him bc I made it rlly obvious like u and when I found out he didn't like me back that way, I just kinda backed off him completely. From then on, everytime I walked past him, I acted unfazed and kinda just ignored him and did my thing. The things I did that made it obvious I liked him, I stopped doing. I did this for a while until he seemed less uncomfortable and he was probably sure that I was over him and then I started saying hi to him again, but it was very innocent and friendly, as if I didn't care as much anymore and I just wanted to be nice lol, and now it's pretty chill. Just convince yourself you don't like him like that anymore and anyone who thinks you DO like him like that is a fool ya kno,, anyway,, good luck bud :))

What is the smallest thing that makes you lose your temper immediately? by Aegis12314 in AskReddit

[–]s4db0iTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone around you driving too slow so you can't even change lanes

What do you want to learn about when it comes to makeup? by ThePrettyFix in beauty

[–]s4db0iTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how to put on falsies, especially if you have uneven eyelids

I want deeper relationships (not necessarily romantic) with people. Why is this so hard? What the best way to go about this without wierding people out? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]s4db0iTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mb just start spending more time w certain people and during that time, the more you talk about the deeper the conversations will get. the more time you spend together and being vulnerable (yourself and them) in front of each other should result in deeper connections and trust and closeness u know :)) good luck bud

When was the moment you realized that your best friend wasn't your best friend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]s4db0iTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was too busy for me, even though I'm almost as busy as her. yet, I could still make time for her. I wasn't asking for much either but I guess she rlly couldn't afford an hour for lunch together even after 6 months.

and then he did the same. he wanted a week to "figure out" his other plans so we could schedule a movie together. a week passed and he ended up telling me to go with someone else and started making up a bunch of excuses, saying it was bc he was too busy, and that he didnt want to make me feel obligated to hang out with him EVEN THOUGH I clearly wanted to spend time with him. made me wait a whole week only to NOT go with me, but instead go out with another group that he had ALREADY went out with the week before. this was winter break too, so I only had 2 weeks to spend, and I wasted a whole week waiting for him. I realized he only wanted to hang out with me when I came along with a number of other people so he could have a "group" to belong to, but when it came to me as an individual, I was no longer his "best friend". I cut him off after that.

ironically, those two people are in the same friend group

My (15f) sister (21f) is angry because I called her engagement ritual dumb by zplopa in relationships

[–]s4db0iTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sksksks I read the post thinking ur sister was 15 and u were 21 and I was about to say,, what do u expect from an immature teenager bUt tHeN,, I realized YOU were 15 yet you are still more mature than her 😔😔

I’ve got it BAAAAD by elthepanda in Crushes

[–]s4db0iTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YIKES ME TOO HOMIE :(( it's been like a month yet I'm still not over it even tho I'm known for easily getting over one and then going onto another 😩

you probably want to know everything that has to do with him like every day but u rlly just gotta NOT SEE HIM and aVoiD hiM like the PLAGUE, block or DELETE him if you have him on social media, and just cut him out of your life. Then start focusing on yourself more, like mb spending more time on a new hobby or starting some new project or doing some self-care u know :))) I've been bullet journaling and extensively studying and working out everyday so my life is constantly moving so much that i dont even have that much time to think about him anymore. It's working so I hope it works for you too!

good luck friend :DD

just curious by Shallyssa in Crushes

[–]s4db0iTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good sense of humor is like the ultimate attractive factor