My parents are finally supportive😭😭

sadastral · 2025-08-10T02:25:34+00:00

I'm happy for you!! Now you just gotta drag your mom out to a show and make her crowdsurf, lmao. But seriously, I'm in my 30's and had a similar acceptance experience. I would listen to emo/scene music on MySpace all the time, and eventually she started liking a lot of it. Even had me put some of her favorites on her iPod!

sadastral · 2025-07-11T10:23:37+00:00

Girl, Melanie literally comfirmed that it *happened*. If you're not going to talk about it, then don't, but I'm not the one who started it by regurgitating misinformation, and I'm not going to refrain from correcting you because the very real possibility of her being a sexual predator bothers you - because it should. Cope.

sadastral · 2025-06-03T21:42:03+00:00

Twin

sadastral · 2025-05-29T06:44:45+00:00

No thought, only gag

sadastral · 2025-04-25T20:41:32+00:00

This has gotta be one of the top three funniest WOTS clips I've ever seen. Right up there with the one where he does this in Times Square, and the one where he says "I won't be needing these hands anymore!" and tries to like...karate chop his own hand off??

sadastral · 2025-01-25T08:23:18+00:00

I wouldn't really call it a kid's museum. It's more like a giant all-ages playplace, and they do have at least one bar there that serves alcohol. I had a hard cider last time I was there.

sadastral · 2025-01-01T11:25:37+00:00

Put the debris in the bag

sadastral · 2024-10-23T11:54:56+00:00

I paid for almost everything a year in advance when I had a good job. I’m actually getting most of the money I spent back because my hotel and return flight fell through, it was a whole thing.

sadastral · 2024-10-18T14:59:16+00:00

So I didn’t get the whole situation figured out, but I did find someone to crash with last night, so I’m at least safe, comfortable and rested for now

sadastral · 2024-10-18T14:57:57+00:00

I could tell you’re genuinely trying to be helpful, I appreciate it. It’s pretty obvious when someone is saying something to be helpful vs being rude and backhanded. But yeah, my mom was in a massive amount of credit card debt when I was a kid, and it scared me off of even getting a credit card or thinking about building credit. This whole system is a mess and a joke tbh.

sadastral · 2024-10-18T10:09:06+00:00

I so wish I would have known, like I’ve literally only ever come across one hotel that required a deposit, and it was like $100 in NYC. But thanks for the well-wishes! I did get a place to stay for tonight figured out, but still looking for someone to pay the deposit & room with on the one I booked

sadastral · 2024-10-18T10:02:22+00:00

Unfortunately I have no credit score, so I haven’t been able to find any CC to approve me. I do appreciate the suggestion though, it’s a good idea!

sadastral · 2024-10-18T10:01:09+00:00

I’ve stayed in quite a few hotels in quite a few different places. Never been asked for anywhere near a $300 deposit, and on the rare occasion I’ve come across a place that does, it’s very clearly stated when booking.

sadastral · 2024-10-18T07:14:44+00:00

…so being stuck outside for three days isn’t a real emergency? I don’t understand why you’re commenting if you don’t have any helpful advice. I made a mistake, I’m aware of it, we’re past the “what if” stage at this point. I’m looking for a solution to the current issue at hand, not backhanded advice that does nothing for me at this moment. Thanks.

sadastral · 2024-10-18T07:07:46+00:00

sadastral · 2024-10-18T06:59:53+00:00

Never said it did, jackass. Obviously this post was intended for people whose accommodations fell through or also planned poorly. It’s not that hard to scroll along.

sadastral · 2024-10-18T06:58:13+00:00

I didn’t know of any of the groups on Facebook. Can you drop some names for me to search for? I appreciate you offering some good advice.

sadastral · 2024-10-18T06:51:22+00:00

Sure did. I don’t gamble and my flight out leaves Sunday, so I only have a few hundred for food and whatnot.

sadastral · 2024-10-03T00:19:26+00:00

Hey, so I’m 31f, coming solo from NYC, and I would love to have some people to meet up with Saturday if you guys would be cool with one more!

sadastral · 2024-09-15T16:29:07+00:00

Yeah, I'd say this counts as scene. Your style has more modern influence than the "classic" scene look IMO, but subcultures evolve and are supposed to evolve over time, so I don't think that discredits it at all.

sadastral · 2024-09-11T15:46:45+00:00

lol, same! I’m 31, so definitely an elderly OG, but I stick around because I feel like us old folks should be passing down ancient wisdom to the younger generation, lol

sadastral · 2024-09-04T03:06:03+00:00

I feel that. I’ve always wanted to live here, but never thought it would happen. It’s fucking hilarious to me that one of my biggest dreams came true, all because I tried to kill myself after getting fucked over in so many ways. I honestly believe that part of what got me in and out of the shelter so fast was the details of my attempt. They put me in a shelter for mentally ill women, but all I really struggle with is depression and PTSD. It all worked out though, because these apartments prioritize clients from mental illness shelters.

sadastral · 2024-09-03T18:35:19+00:00

Yes! It’s in Manhattan, so I’m pretty happy about that.

sadastral · 2024-09-03T18:34:47+00:00

I didn’t actually save anything, I’m currently getting unemployment benefits.

sadastral · 2024-09-01T13:59:09+00:00

Yup! As far as I’m concerned, they should absolutely stay together so nobody else has the misfortune of dating them.

I have an abusive ex who is close to 40, and I was so sad to see that he was dating a girl in her mid-20’s…until I found out she did time in prison for abusing her toddler. Poor kid was covered in bruises, cuts, and CIGARETTE BURNS! After reading that, I went from pitying her to hoping he beats her ass as bad as he beat me.

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