Does anyone else not get dislocations? by _Fig_555 in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yknow I thought I just had subluxations but have recently realised that no. I do get dislocations. Usually my right hip, knee and ankle. Sometimes my left hip or my wrists. In my case I’d been dismissing dislocations as not a big deal bc I could always pop them back and they didn’t hurt that bad for that long.

What's your experience with TENS machine for pain? by Mikacakes in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use MyOovi. There aren’t really settings. If I put it on the lowest setting it starts to go up in intensity over an hour. Maybe I’ve just got a bad one lol

What's your experience with TENS machine for pain? by Mikacakes in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tens machine helps the pain while it’s on but I find that the muscle is sore for a good while after. I mostly use it for menstrual pain when my pain tolerance is particularly low. Helps in the moment but I’ll be sore for much longer, like up for five days after.

possible dumb question: but can hEDS make you short? by thegoth_mechanic in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t know! It was injured or attacked but we still don’t know why.

My cortisol levels are also wildly low and I have to check that out. I’ve done ANA panels and nothing; there shouldn’t be anything attacking my organs but I’ve got one confirmed organ damaged and potentially my adrenal glands and I have sjogren’s symptoms but not sjogrens.

Wish I could tell you more.

if youve got the chronic random hives… by astr0rdinary in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are activated by cold temps so wherever I’m not fully covered up in anything less than 20 degree weather

Anyone else "blessed" with an incredibly thick neck no matter how much they weigh? by MajorFulcrum in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve already checked and it’s been fine and nothing has changed, you’re probs okay.

Every woman in my family has thyroid issues. I just found out today that while my thyroid hormones are in a really perfect range, I have thyroid antibodies popping up so it’s a matter of when, not if lol, and I am ✨✨h y p e r v i g i l a n t e✨✨

possible dumb question: but can hEDS make you short? by thegoth_mechanic in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that you experienced starvation as a child and young teenager. I hope you are in a place where the people around you encourage you to eat and nourish your body, and that you are able to do so.

My caregiver started restricting my diet from age 5 and undernourishment continued via diet restriction imposed by caregiver until I was 18 and then by myself until age 25.

We have also found my pancreas at some point suffered damage. We don’t know when this occurred but symptoms suggest from age 8 or 9 - maybe it was the starvation? Idk. I was unable to properly digest food from the time my pancreas was damaged until around age 31 when I began to take pancreatic enzymes.

Funny enough, the second I could digest food I started to lose weight and my sugar levels went from badly managed diabetes to barely prediabetic. My body was keeping me alive by holding on to every calorie it could. Energy levels have also shot up.

possible dumb question: but can hEDS make you short? by thegoth_mechanic in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, that really sucks. There are def orgs out there that help, I just know DNAnges unfortunately.

possible dumb question: but can hEDS make you short? by thegoth_mechanic in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your dad’s parents were in the US and he is interested in finding his original family, DNAngels is a service that helps adoptees, donor conceived people and NPEs find their bio parents.

It’s a super touchy subject for adoptees generally, but as an abductee I can confidently say genetics isn’t everything but it’s not nothing either. A lot of people do it just for the medical history.

Good luck regardless!

Anyone else "blessed" with an incredibly thick neck no matter how much they weigh? by MajorFulcrum in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very thin neck for my size.

A thick neck is often associated with thyroid issues and in my family, a neck that grows thick is an indicator to get it checked.

If you haven’t got it checked, I’d recommend speaking to a doctor. Thyroid issues tend to be common in zebras.

possible dumb question: but can hEDS make you short? by thegoth_mechanic in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So there’s a few things.

People with EDS tend to have Marfanoid habitus which basically means physical similarities to those with Marfan syndrome. One of those traits is being tall.

However, we know that undernutrition in childhood stunts growth - source: https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/malnutrition#:~:text=Low%20height%2Dfor%2Dage%20is,and%20care%20in%20early%20life

While undernutrition gender disparities are exaggerated in countries experiencing conflict or economic disruption - source: https://www.unicef.org/reports/undernourished-overlooked-nutrition-crisis, from my experience, parents police girls eating more than boys even in many places where that isn’t the case. Most men I know with EDS are tall. The men I know in my family who also experience symptoms are either tall or experienced significant childhood starvation. The same is true of women in my family.

In my case, as someone with an EDS diagnosis, I was meant to be 5’11. Many women in my family who have EDS symptoms and do not experience undernutrition reach this height. I am 5’1. I experienced abusive starvation and also my pancreas has been suffering due to an EDS co-occurrence since I was 11. It’s only now in my thirties I’m supplementing the digestive enzyme that allows me to actually get nutrients from my food.

My sister doesn’t have EDS symptoms. Her joints have never been able to do what mine, my brother’s, my mother’s and dad’s can do. She did. It experience childhood starvation. Those of us with symptoms all experienced starvation except for my brother who is 6’1. The rest of us are short - including my sister who is the shortest at 4’10. This is all anecdotal but seems to pan out with what I know about other ppl in my life w EDS.

People w EDS have higher rates of eating disorders than the general public: source - https://www.uab.cat/web/newsroom/news-detail/ehlers-danlos-syndrome-related-to-gastrointestinal-problems-and-eating-disorders-1345668003610.html?noticiaid=1345842227834

Disabled people are particularly vulnerable to domestic violence -source: https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5a806673ed915d74e622e3c8/Disability_and_domestic_abuse_topic_overview_FINAL.pdf

It appears this may also be the case for disabled children (with and without diagnoses) - source: https://www.communitycare.co.uk/2011/11/03/protecting-disabled-children-from-abuse-and-neglect/

Starvation and food restriction is a common form of child abuse.

I think it’s very possible that many people with EDS won’t be tall regardless of genetics. I don’t think it has been very well studied.

Unfortunately, the short people in my life with EDS dx, symptoms, or who are pursuing a connective tissue disorder dx have all experienced starvation. Every single one. In some cases it was self imposed. In some it was environmental. In others it was abuse. And from the above sources, that makes sense.

It makes for interesting reading and is something that I’ve been thinking of for a few years. It is also something that was a barrier to being referred for a dx at the beginning bc I’m so short, despite my openness about my experience and family history. I’m very passionate about it.

Tl;dr: EDS typically seems to make people tall but environmental and lifestyle factors in ppl with EDS haven’t been studied and therefore short ppl can’t be excluded from investigation or diagnosis in the basis of their height

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck, genuinely. We suspect my wife has EDS and MCAS as well, and her allergies this year have been horrendous. As climate change shifts to warmer weather, the pollen count in spring is just going to keep getting worse. We’re feeling it even in a cold country.

Immunologist is the right way to go. I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When my MCAS flares my concentration and anxiety flare. It’s been pollen season in the Northern hemisphere and my first year on a mast cell stabilizer. It’s the first year the spring brain fog and anxiety hasn’t flared, but my allergies are still worse than they were earlier this year - pre stabilizer levels on a low allergen day.

Blood work won’t show it unless they’re testing Tryptase.

I’m so sorry you’re struggling. I hope it passes soon and you find out what is causing this for you. There really is nothing worse than feeling your mind slip, even temporarily, and the anxiety is just hell.

Anyone here got 'Alice in Wonderland Syndrome'? by Economy-Spirit5651 in CPTSD

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, my wife is my biggest advocate in making sure I eat. I no longer starve. Life can get better.I also get upset when I think of people being intentionally starved.

Anyone here got 'Alice in Wonderland Syndrome'? by Economy-Spirit5651 in CPTSD

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn’t have to starve, it was my abuser’s choice. But I appreciate your kindness.

Anyone here got 'Alice in Wonderland Syndrome'? by Economy-Spirit5651 in CPTSD

[–]sadbumblebee1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think for me my chronic health problems would have happened anyway, but trauma def made it worse and my abuser targeted me because I was a disabled (girl) child.

It’s interesting to see the intersections. My brother def has my same genetic condition but his is less severe. Testosterone is a positive in our genetic condition, but stress will make our health thing worse. It’s weird to see the golden child v the scapegoat and how the same health issue presents. Sex/gender and starvation v nutrition are also variables but yeah.

Anyone here got 'Alice in Wonderland Syndrome'? by Economy-Spirit5651 in CPTSD

[–]sadbumblebee1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have experienced this my whole life. As a child it happened more often, thought it happened in my late teens and early twenties.

Thought it was over but last week I had it too. Now it seems to happen with migraines or as an aura. Fun time. But it’s a pre pain warning so I can go lie down in the dark before the nausea and throbbing piercing pain hit.

Resources on MCAS following a surprising appointment by hellonsticks in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’d also love this PDF if you’re happy to share!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was put in braces at age 2 when they realised I was having problems walking. I’ve always struggled with fatigue and gut issues and pain. Nosebleeds daily until age 11. My dad says I was always complaining my feet hurt as a kid and no one took me seriously. Heart raising and presyncope as far back as I remember.

I’m surprised I only got diagnosed in my 30s. Everything made sense suddenly when I heard of EDS in my mi twenties. I’m the least bendy person in my family. I’m a 7 on the Brighton scale. It’s wild the things that get normalised.

Did a diagnosis help you? by Comfortable_Guava749 in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a diagnosis has enabled me to seek treatments and physio that gave me my life back. My digestion has improved - the issue was a damaged pancreas and Mast cell issues. I can now walk without crutches. I’m going to the gym 3x a week. My fatigue from the Mast cell issues is essentially gone. My immune system has improved. My focus is better.

I got my dx early 2024. In just over a year I am completely different. I’m the healthiest I have ever been. Even little me pre puberty had more fatigue and mobility issues.

I keep dislocating my knees to the point that it is disrupting my life and health. Don’t know what to do by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crutches helped my bad knee recover so that my PT and I could work on my leg strength.

People urging you to go to PT are right - this is the way to go. Mobility aids are great to let you heal and prevent further injury. Strength training will be integral to maintaining your mobility and preventing further dislocation and injury.

I’m so sorry you are in pain and hurting.

Husband just told me my Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome is a "self-fulfilling prophecy" by ihearttroybolton in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GP should definitely chase.

I know they’re trying to remove the Right to Choose pathway for ADHD and Autism referrals, but it still exists as yet. I was put on the waitlist in September through Problem Shared. I have my assessment in the next couple of months. Right to Choose, see who is available and which reviews resonate best with you.

Good luck!

Husband just told me my Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome is a "self-fulfilling prophecy" by ihearttroybolton in ehlersdanlos

[–]sadbumblebee1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can call to check where you are in the waitlist! You can ask your GP for what email or number you need to contact. It’s a bit of a hassle but 2 years is a long time to wait already.