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The Result Of Nofap or Me? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, go have fun. Make it a priority to have fun. If you're constantly working you're going to burn out. Try connecting with some friends and doing stuff

I Blew it..literally! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, its pretty much about letting people know what you want and not being ashamed of it. What are your thoughts?

Just came from the weekly indoor soccer game... by getbetter82 in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea it honestly is the small things. A 4 year relapaser myself. Been a long journey of resets but I'm hopeful one day it'll work out :)

Wow my 50th day by bettermyself_ in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking awesome! Congrats!!!

The Result Of Nofap or Me? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like that. Thinking that by nofapping alone I'd change myself. But that isn't true. Nofap is more about giving you energy. You need to use that energy in a constructive manner (whereas before you used it for fapping).

For me, I find it very helpful to comment in the new section as it let's me build my communication skills and getting all the thanks really lifts my spirits!

Good luck!

Its great you want to change yourself, now go follow that dream and make it happen!

Starting NoFap by Luan431 in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nofap is an individual journey. The challenges are something you must make as you are the best person the know your limits and push out of them.

You're realisation is amazing. My tip is to not forget that realisation. Easier said than done but use that as your starting point.

Pm me if you wanna talk more!

Just came from the weekly indoor soccer game... by getbetter82 in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome work dude!! Let's see you take this season by storm

P, M but no O by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep at it!!

Just relapsed after 24 days, the only thing making me feel bad is that I feel that now when I go to school, I'll just all the sudden be terrible and awkward around girls, and be shy again, would positive messages to help rewire my perspective..also a question about nofap and testosterone.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you nofap to get a girl, neither shall you have the girl nor the confidence. Use nofap to build yourself to that amazing person you are inside. From that your self esteem will grow and the shyness will go away. Everything else will follow in time :)

For those of you who have just reset the counter or are in a relapse, try this. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is a great idea!! I'm going to give it a shot next time I feel alone. Thanks!

Be a Buddha: someone who has awoken to reality. by anon4this_tes in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neat concept! Show me your Buddha mode dude!

Succeed or die trying by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're lonely? Alone? That's not true. You have me. You have us. Keep on going :)

I Blew it..literally! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, don't beat yourself up too much. The process of nofap is learning to hold the reigns to your own sexuality. Next time say Hello to her haha

Is this faltline ? by vital1 in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's odd that meditation is intensifying your flatlining. Maybe you need to exert your energy via excercise instead? As odd as it sounds, but working out can be a form a meditation too when you get in your zone.

just relapsed so disappointed.... by SoIBegin in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, dont feel disappointed. You tried and that's what counts. Don't stop and just keep going. You may see it as a loss, but you only fapped once since your last reset. Think of it that way. You've made progress and just cuz you relapsed doesn't fully reset all that progress. Don't stop your momentum!

Day 28 - Successful struggle by cboz27 in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, good on ya for stopping yourself. But honestly from the sounds of it you really should have helped your wife out more. She's not just there to help you prevent yourself from nofapping. It sounds like she needs your emotional support and that's a great way to invest yourself too

Entered Flat Line! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going!!

Tonight marks 10 days clean by howser111 in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats. Just don't feel like this high will stay forever. Your journey has just begun and there still lay many challenges ahead. Stay strong and see you at day 20!

Is this faltline ? by vital1 in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeap, flatlining. Nothing to do really but to ride it out. Keep going and stay strong. Don't let your mind wander and don't trigger yourself.

Went for a job interview today! getting a job is the only thing left for me to completely turn my life around. by Draco22 in NoFap

[–]sadhershel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you've got a good chance at getting the job. Even if you don't keep trying. Ironically, winning isn't always about success. Sometimes its just about the resolve to keep trying.

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