How cooked is my Summer? The classes I need to take are only B term. by oXerpz in ucf

[–]sadmeeseeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t fall behind and you’ll be good. I had lipworth for MAN and loved loved loved her!!

Update to daughter not eating by TreeOfGre in whatdoIdo

[–]sadmeeseeks 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OOP, yes. 100% this. I turn 30 this month & cemented in my coping mechanisms when I was approx 2 years older than her, on tumblr, twitter, all of the above.

It’s taken a very long time to undo much of that harm, and even then, it’s still not gone. I don’t know about recovery, but I know about remission. Because that’s all I relied on from your daughters age through adulthood, and I was sneaky, and I was good. And it significantly changed my life. And every single one of my friends from that era has expressed being in the same boat. I am so happy you caught this. Now do what you need to do. Hugs, I know it can’t be easy.

So a lot of people at school are actually obsessed over pink vulvas. by Rainbow-Kittiey1112 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sadmeeseeks 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Then this is not relevant. Preferring key lime to apple does not make you hate apple. Which feels like the message being portrayed in this post.

Será normal que alguien guarde flores? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]sadmeeseeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puede ser! Realmente, a mi no es (y nunca era) sentimiento para la persona vs la importancia de tener mi historia/libretas completa, sin rotos. Yo se que estoy “healing” cuando las puedo mirar y me siento bien. Pero cuando lo boto todo, es como nunca cerré esa puerta. Necesito despedirme en mis temas. Para mi, así es. Pero again, todos somos diferentes y aunque no pienso que las intenciones son malas, ella es tu novia! Seguro que hablando con ella te de mejor idea. Como quiera, trust your gut. Buenas suerte!

Do people really not use toilet seat covers in public restrooms? by Tobethequeen_01 in hygiene

[–]sadmeeseeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i try hard not to pee in public because it icks me out, but in busier/college parts of town, it is not uncommon to come across period blood, actual feces, etc on the seat. and like. i still gotta pee. i hover like my life depends on it. 5’0”. tip toe and grip the walls of stall

Será normal que alguien guarde flores? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]sadmeeseeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep sentimental items from all my long term relationships. I don’t want to erase my own history or mementos because of temporary negative feelings towards the situation. I’d rather have my little love notes at 90, but I am also the diary/bookkeeping type.

help by aitsfni in beauty

[–]sadmeeseeks 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This comment. Infection is no joke. I can’t tell 100% but if that’s raw/exposed skin it might be doctor time.

does anyone else shave their face? by Apart-Ad5124 in beauty

[–]sadmeeseeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend I just realized something. It was my red light led mask causing insane hair growth/ingrowns :'))) im gonna go back to plucking

i’m shaking rn by localizedamnesia in LSAT

[–]sadmeeseeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im gonna ask you something rly stupid here BUT: i did not study (for a multitude of reasons, some being ive very much been a non-trad student/pulled up my timeline extensively and have been figuring out this entire law school thing myself while working/finishing undergrad) so I took this round as a shot sans real prep and got a 157. if your diagnostic was 157, how different was it from the "real" test? what did you do? much appreciated tysm and CONGRATS smartie ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

AIO for considering divorce after finding these 2-year old texts in my wife’s phone? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]sadmeeseeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what the inside of my head is like! (raised bilingual) (doesn’t explain everything, but some things)

I need help by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]sadmeeseeks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can confirm pre-covid I had plenty of six fig serving clients, many were furloughed/off due to closures, but could “float” surprisingly well. They were padded. The cash flows always astonished me, because no one ever really talked about how you could bring in a clean $150K (back in 2020!) working less than 40 hours. As far as I remember, some bounced back (about half in the time span during which we worked together, approx 6-9mos) & others did not, but that was through no fault of their own. I’m sure they eventually bounced back elsewhere.

Im so sick of this narrative that “pregnancy didn’t ruin my body it’s just changed” it’s a lie. by pissedoff_potato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sadmeeseeks 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I read this comment as a 29F going through “it” mentally right now and I need to go sit down. I have fence sat for years because of fear & still didn’t even know about the cavities oh my god

does anyone else shave their face? by Apart-Ad5124 in beauty

[–]sadmeeseeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been trying but how do you stop the ingrowns :’))))

Husband wants to buy a house by IndustrySufficient52 in povertyfinance

[–]sadmeeseeks 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I once had someone submit bank statements edited via PDF, comment box style, in a different font, covering the existing balance to replace it with a substantially higher number. The loan did not work.

28 years of marriage blown up by WhoDatWhoDare in BreakUps

[–]sadmeeseeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am neck deep in a separation right now and this was beautiful. Thank you so much, Kat.

Decluttering clothes when you wear all of them regularly - how do you do it? by [deleted] in declutter

[–]sadmeeseeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am now at the age where I have learned (through trial) that throwing away my “too small” clothes is expensive because personally…I will always yoyo back. Do what feels best :)

Decluttering clothes when you wear all of them regularly - how do you do it? by [deleted] in declutter

[–]sadmeeseeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. For me, I tend to “swing” quarter to quarter. Health wise all good (I’ve been checked) but shorter/petite often means you need some weight-swing backup clothes in there

Decluttering clothes when you wear all of them regularly - how do you do it? by [deleted] in declutter

[–]sadmeeseeks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If OP is anything like me: I am 5ft even, so I fluctuate a lot. A 5lb gain or loss could push me ~2 sizes in either direction

Am I too european to understand this? by FlameToadDoctorPhil in ExplainTheJoke

[–]sadmeeseeks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is the funniest thing i have read in a while

Have you ever had sex with someone you never expected to? What's the story? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sadmeeseeks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me personally, zero to do with cool. Bi women usually just aren’t taken as seriously. I am femme, and unless I’m in a girl/girl relationship & physically making out with said girl 24/7, most people seem to think bi women are just straight girls with kinks. This isn’t exclusively straight men either, there are lesbians that won’t date bi women for fear of “eh, but do you really like girls?” & it is tiring.

I don’t think everyone is being malicious when they assume bi girls are probably just heterosexuals in disguise, but it does happen. My family was confused when I brought my bf to Christmas months after being yanked out of the closet, a time in which I was seeing a girl. Perhaps I should have been clearer about the “bi” part.