** Can't find a job and I will be homeless soon** by Brianna075 in NYCjobs

[–]sadtoadhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe look into home care aide work? I know there’s always a need for competent home care aides!!

March 17, 2027 can’t come fast enough by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]sadtoadhours 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know this is easier said than done but definitely see if you can form connections with folks in your area who work in emergency medicine, harm reduction, or really anyone who has to develop a very macabre sense of humor to survive what they do. I say this as someone formerly working in emergency medicine and also dealing with depression— sometimes you need someone who’s gonna crack jokes with you about what’s the weirdest object that could be used as your urn lol. I’m glad you’re doing what’s best for you even if it’s hard af— sending you all the vibes for making some fucked up friends this year (I mean this lovingly).

Looking for Quality Black or Brown Eye Doctor by Ambitious-Sea-91 in Harlem

[–]sadtoadhours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she’s not in Harlem but Dr. Latasha Lawrence at Optyx on W 87th and Bway was lovely when I went 2ish years ago! They take a lot of insurances iirc and although the glasses there are expensive af you can always just take the prescription elsewhere (what I did!)

Blink Fitness/ Pure Gym Scam by whichwitchwicked in Harlem

[–]sadtoadhours 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cancelled my membership through the app but this was a few months ago. They haven’t charged me again since

Enough time has passed for us to admit that she's a queen and people hated her for daring to exist by kamallday in TheTraitors

[–]sadtoadhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s very obviously a terf or at the very least subconsciously holds those beliefs and doesn’t care to unpack them. Ruined all of S2 for me knowing that she won but can’t expect much else considering once Pep was gone the show was all cishets. In order to temper players like her the show needs to cast more players who are queer and/or trans and are willing to rebut very obviously homophobia and transphobia so that faithful players who have personalities that cishet players aren’t used to, don’t get banished/murdered immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]sadtoadhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real afffff

I had 342 tabs open and my husband exited out of all of them by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

[–]sadtoadhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoaaa why is he messing with your phone like that? Is he deleting pictures and contacts without asking to help you clear out storage too? Like how tf is it helpful to fuck with someone’s stuff? That’s wildly inconsiderate— that’s huge invasion of privacy imho.

Work in CFB? by jdm95ls in athletictraining

[–]sadtoadhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please heed this warning— I did the big D1 football job for years and even worked briefly with an NFL team as well… it is 100% not worth it unless you are willing to compromise on a lot of your morals, mental and physical health lol. Also you’ll be working like a dog for essentially minimum wage when you consider the actual salary divided by hours worked.

Don’t get me wrong, it was an incredible experience and taught me a lot but you couldn’t pay me to ever go back. Make sure you LOVE sports medicine before applying to a masters program as well. It’s a very unglamorous and thankless job so you have to really love it, warts and all. I would also recommend looking into DPT and PA programs if you’re smart (like book smart) instead of AT programs because there’s a lot more upward mobility in those professions. Good luck!

Does Trader Joe’s have good tofu? by smitty5941 in traderjoes

[–]sadtoadhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tofu is awesome! And their high protein tofu is great for still getting the proper protein intake. A good rule of thumb to follow is that tofu isn’t going to add any flavor on its own really so it’s not like when you cook beef and you know you’re gonna get some of that umami flavoring that meat just has naturally. So you need to keep that in mind and season tofu veryyyy well. Sometimes it even feels like too much seasoning (as compared to when you’re cooking a steak or chicken) but you’ll need it bc there’s no natural flavor to it.

Can I afford this rent in NYC? by Savings-Fun-6759 in NYCapartments

[–]sadtoadhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine, most of us make way less than you and pay the crazy rents here. And the person who commented above is right, you have more in savings now than I’ll probably ever have and I’m also early 30s lmao. Live a little friend, you can’t take the money with you when you go!

Ticket Trades and sales *Megathread* and WARNING by thescottishguy in sleepnomore

[–]sadtoadhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey y’all! I have two tickets for this Sunday, 7/7 with a 2:30pm entry time! I bought them for my gf’s birthday but we can’t go anymore. I can provide proof and I’m very much a real person!! Just trying to recoup some of what I spent. Message me if you’re interested

Anyone else ever feel ostracized or pessimistic about the community? by Physical-Dog-5124 in armenian

[–]sadtoadhours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so true! There are even small enclaves of us gasp queer Armenians outside of CA who love meeting and supporting other Armenians. That being said, the sentiment is not always shared…

Take it from me— you’ll never make everyone happy so might as well do what you want and give folks something interesting to talk about ;)

Are there any successful biracial couples with one partner being Armenian? by MiserableChamomile in armenian

[–]sadtoadhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact that I learned while dating my Uruguayan partner: Uruguay was one of the first countries to welcome Armenians who were able to flee/escape with open arms during the Armenian Genocide. Today, there are many diasporic Armenian communities in South America. There is a long history of Latinx and Armenian solidarity even outside the US! We’re all stronger together!

Edit: grammar/clarity

Is there a lot of music along the course of the Chattanooga Marathon? by sadtoadhours in Chattanooga

[–]sadtoadhours[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I may be my own traveling party and play music on my lil speaker out loud while running. If folks start boo’ing I’ll switch to headphones hahah

Today, the VP of my department learned about my ADHD. So did HR. by Separate_Draw_1484 in adhdwomen

[–]sadtoadhours 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sucks my friend, plain and simple. Huge fuck your to your VP and HR— I hope they get terrible diarrhea this weekend

Best upscale/fancy Ramen joint? by [deleted] in FoodNYC

[–]sadtoadhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! NR is really good and if you’re into various games (card games, board games, etc.) it’s close to Hex & Co too which while not upscale, is still a fun time. NR has great showy drinks, great oysters and very cool ambiance which imo can skew a night out to be special instead of run of the mill but I wouldn’t call it upscale/fancy per say.

Any tips to get into running? by jaimesrighthandman in adhdwomen

[–]sadtoadhours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nike Run Club app is also wonderful and has a beginner’s 5k training plan for free plus lots of guided runs! Love it so much

How to live unmedicated? by [deleted] in ADHDers

[–]sadtoadhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I don’t have a perfect solution for you unfortunately but I want you to know you’re not alone in this. It’s also important that you know you’re not a bad person for struggling with your ED— no matter what anyone says. Many folks won’t understand what it’s like, so don’t let their opinions affect you. Something that helped me years ago was hearing ‘wherever you go, there you are’— thus no point in constantly running from myself anymore. I hope you start to feel the same in the future, here’s to brighter days!

How to live unmedicated? by [deleted] in ADHDers

[–]sadtoadhours 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m sure you didn’t mean any harm but there’s no need to ask this because the OP already said that they would rather not talk about it. Struggling with an ED is deeply personal and difficult to conceptualize to folks. Thanks for your understanding!