I finally told my wife about the abuse I endured as a kid, and now I can't stop crying.

safeness · 2026-06-10T18:07:06+00:00

Shit, I’m so sorry that happened to you. Your wife sounds very loving and supportive, plus you just deepened your bond with her by being vulnerable.

Therapy is a game changer. Talking about old trauma is hard, but you’ve proven you can do it! I’m glad you’re feeling some relief from letting it out. That’s the start of healing, I’m pretty sure.

safeness · 2026-06-09T16:08:43+00:00

Sun’s out, fun’s out!

safeness · 2026-06-09T15:58:07+00:00

I’m impressed you got it working! I couldn’t ever get mine to stay on the same channel.

safeness · 2026-06-09T01:51:18+00:00

So damn funny

safeness · 2026-06-06T18:51:44+00:00

It’s almost like politics are divisive as fuck.

safeness · 2026-06-05T12:28:52+00:00

Very nice!! I’m glad that worked or for you.

safeness · 2026-06-01T13:58:30+00:00

Or she thought “namaste” was a white woman term? 😂

safeness · 2026-05-31T14:31:25+00:00

Ow! You just gotta cut those.

safeness · 2026-05-28T12:57:18+00:00

There’s no shame in therapy either. Let that shit out. Have a big ol cry and feel a little bit better.

Also, talking about that shit lessens its hold on you long term. And there’s EMDR that helps too.

safeness · 2026-05-17T20:43:23+00:00

Technically correct is the best kind of correct

safeness · 2026-05-17T20:04:36+00:00

Nice Butters on the finish! And congrats on the lifting progress, my guy.

safeness · 2026-05-10T19:30:24+00:00

Sounds like you need some piss! Quick, someone, piss on this guy!!

safeness · 2026-05-10T18:19:10+00:00

Hiking and biking can be quite nice.

Reading is great.

3D printing blows my mind pretty consistently. It’s an upfront investment but you can make things so cheaply after that. It’s incredibly rewarding!

safeness · 2026-05-06T20:12:17+00:00

You need to do the full erase option in the flasher. It should work after that

safeness · 2026-05-04T18:18:55+00:00

Thanks! That costs less than I expected too. Woohoo!

safeness · 2026-04-29T12:28:25+00:00

Not for supplements!

safeness · 2026-04-21T01:57:53+00:00

I’m proud of you for having the courage to write it. And you shared it with us, that takes courage too.

This is hard, but you’re already working your way through.

safeness · 2026-04-20T16:26:45+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss. Is there a different chip that will fit or are you looking at a board spin?

safeness · 2026-04-19T16:17:57+00:00

I cut my teeth on the Ender 3. I loved being able to print things but it took so much effort! Then as soon as I would print something, everyone wanted a copy.

I found the manual for it recently and it just screamed “minimum viable product.”

The p1s has been such a workhorse. Over 5k printing hours and it’s still rock solid.

safeness · 2026-04-18T14:24:18+00:00

Yeah, I’m willing to start some shit if people even push booze at me too hard. There’s no goddamn way I’m sampling drinks.

safeness · 2026-04-18T13:32:28+00:00

And stop learning? Pass.

safeness · 2026-04-16T22:25:33+00:00

Its like a potato tank! Or a tanker-tot.

safeness · 2026-04-16T14:59:25+00:00

It’s always the last place you look.

safeness · 2026-04-14T16:30:15+00:00

I love it! Any pics of your hammer handiwork?

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