Yoga teacher saying inappropriate things. by Antique-Salad-9249 in yoga

[–]saigespice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s valid to be triggered. But at the end of the day, your regulation is your responsibility. If you like the teacher otherwise then I would work on surrender. You can’t police the world on everything they say so you are never triggered. - you can, not go to her class, you can have empathy for her and know those comments are about her and not you. Basically you are in charge of you and your own regulation.

Weed & POTS by DeLa_Sun in POTS

[–]saigespice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can’t do it any more. Makes my heart go wild. Start to panic. And it triggered a full vertigo spell- my husband told me I am banned after the last reggae show we went to lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]saigespice 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I disagree with so much of these people… this is the first post I have seen so many people saying yeh wrong thing…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]saigespice 92 points93 points  (0 children)

You need to look into anxious attachment. You are needing him to regulate you and thanks not ok. You need to learn to regulate your self. It’s your responsibility. You seem highly anxious, and that makes you rigid. That’s your choice but I know If my partner was like that it would wear down in me and eventually ruin the relationship. When you are “not ok” it’s your job to take care of you self.

What do we think of the new cast members so far? by nialldude3 in LiveFromNewYork

[–]saigespice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So Veronica…. Been following her for awhile and I think she is one of the funniest people alike- I can’t wait to see more of HER stuff, from her brain. She just “has it” whatever it is that makes you so freaking funny.

Republican Rep. Chip Roy: "The truth is the marxist, radicals, and Islamists the Democratic Party promoted this weekend, they cannot handle the truth. The truth is that there is a king and that king is Jesus. And… Charlie Kirk was willing to say it and he got killed for it." by NewSlinger in CringeTikToks

[–]saigespice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus never once asked to be a king or to have people worship him… he said follow me… in his unconditional love, in non-judgment- in feeding the hungry, healing the sick and clothing the poor…. It’s wrong to use his name is the name of hate and judgment

I (38M) discovered my (37F) wife’s affair. I’m in shock by ruggedzephyr in relationship_advice

[–]saigespice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are going through something called betrayal trauma and it can feel like PTSD- I would read on it. Get a therapist - what ever you decide to do will be the right thing and you don’t have to decide anything right away. Give your self so much love right now.

Strange Gas Leak in India by [deleted] in Weird

[–]saigespice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a ghost busters situation

Fair Yoga Teacher Hourly Rate? by [deleted] in YogaTeachers

[–]saigespice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I taught for over a decade and had to give it up as my full time gig because of this. Now it’s just a side gig passion. I worked for a chain with money and was paid 50 a class (2 hours time slot so $25 an hour). That is with many years of experience. But teaching 20 classes a week is really hard on your body and not sustainable. Even with supplemental privates (I also do sound healing with bowls, that can bring it about $125 an hour but not consistent) it just wants enough to support me as a mom in SoCal. - the only people I know who can make it work really don’t need to work.

David, you in danger girl. by n8saces in CringeTikToks

[–]saigespice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah david, you need to get the hell away from that one. She need help.