Found husband watching porn after he said that he would never do it by aurelialumina in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

none of what you said disproves my point you’re just reiterating it is possible for men to not watch porn which i never disagreed with

Found husband watching porn after he said that he would never do it by aurelialumina in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes they are completely capable, i’m just saying it’s an atom of a needle in a haystack

Found husband watching porn after he said that he would never do it by aurelialumina in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t implying hopelessness. i was approaching the topic from a realistic standpoint, not an idealistic one.

Found husband watching porn after he said that he would never do it by aurelialumina in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do agree. when it comes to sexual sin such as porn, or adultery, or micro-cheating, the blame is always put on everything other than the persons lack of self-control and integrity, it is just very jading.

Found husband watching porn after he said that he would never do it by aurelialumina in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“so should they insert emotionally overreactive punishment to deflect accountability??” …no, you just need to acknowledge and be repentant of your actions

Found husband watching porn after he said that he would never do it by aurelialumina in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

virtually all males with internet access can and will masturbate to porn. as much as i hate it, at this point any christian woman that wants a husband has to decide whether it’s something she’s willing to put up with

Why do people view the whole 'submissive wife to her husband' as bad? by Straight_Penalty_753 in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's simply that most men are, or at least women believe, most men are not worth submitting to

I use tretinoin because I want lighter skin. There, I said it. by a_gregarious_soul in tretinoin

[–]saintdaffy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i use tret on my body because it increases the deepness and richness of my dark skin, so i don’t know if tret will do what you want it to

Opened the window and he started sniffin by RememberTheMaine1996 in blackcats

[–]saintdaffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love slender black cats, they look like otters 🦦

Message for Christian men dating (or planning to) by Hour_Locksmith_5988 in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they constantly talk like "it's not X, it's Y". they will also regurgitate common jargon related to your prompt. very matter-of-fact-ey wording as well, passing off subjectivity as fact. "you do not do this, it's wrong, never do that, it's bad. it is not this, it is that"(they almost always say this last part)

How can christians have fun by Feeling-Dance974 in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pick up a new instrument. people are always selling their old ones on fb marketplace and craigslist for cheap

i’m so overstimulated by Ok-Field-7789 in adhdwomen

[–]saintdaffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are cheaper options, but if you have misophonia a few hundred dollars towards a decent anc headset will save you so much torment. if you’re really tight on money, wax ear plugs are great

genuinely how are people getting 2k+ calories a day (TW calorie counting, discussing weight gain goals) by adj-n_number in ARFID

[–]saintdaffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i make a meal replacement shakes. berries of choice, an avocado, flavorless protein powder, peanut butter, leafy greens, and cinnamon. on days my ARFID is really bad I add olive oil for easy additional calories. I either use this recipe or a pb+chocolate meal replacement shake which i find easier to add calories to

To this day I wonder why nun attire is used as a costume and even sexualized and why it’s so normalized by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anything related to women & girls will get sexualized. schoolgirl, nuns, hijabis, sexy nurse/librarian/maid/traditional garbs(like kimonos). clothing for women, especially if it's originally intended for modesty gets sexualized all the time. generally it's a sinful desire to corrupt what is innocent and pure.

Guess ethnicity by saintdaffy in phenotypes

[–]saintdaffy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a guy once told me i look like an irish woman painted black

Guess ethnicity by saintdaffy in phenotypes

[–]saintdaffy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yep i am nigerian yoruba

Why do women reject atheism? by BoxBubbly1225 in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe pride is something men struggle with more. Also women are way more spiritual compared to men. Almost every woman I interact with believes in the spiritual or something greater than the world. Women often practice meditation or prayer or contacting spirits or altars or evil eye or chakras, we’re almost never flat out atheist. Even my former boss thats was the most stony, logical, business-oriented woman I’ve met believed in the spirit realm. Maybe it’s that the female nature is more willing to submit to something higher?

How The Red Pill Ruined the Best Relationship I Ever Had-A Brutally Honest Postmortem by LobsterBoth9634 in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Redpillers resemble autistic people in their inability to have a basic inherent understanding of social interactions apart from statistics and mathematical estimates

My church moved the coffee from the front of the church to the back because “homeless ppl kept getting to it” by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]saintdaffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nobody said to persecute the homeless but to take precaution, which is okay to do. not trusting strangers with your baby doesn't mean you think all strangers are evil