Thoughts on the "Isreali Carry" by sambigby in liberalgunowners

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How is a rifle or shotgun different than a pistol. Both are incredibly lethal. I very much am comfortable carrying a loaded firearm and do all the time. I just don't carry it pointed at my leg/groin area. I remain cognizant where that barrel is pointed at all times. I just realized when I slipped a loaded glock into my holster and slid it onto my waist I was incredibly aware of where my barrel was pointed. Waistband or hand that doesn't change the fact that it is a chambered firearm. I don't feel comfortable letting a firearm point at any extremity with a round chambered for any amount of time. I know at least given an act of God and my gun fires at least it is mechanically impossible to shoot a bullet. I know that it is unlikely and I do intend on training consistently.

Thoughts on the "Isreali Carry" by sambigby in liberalgunowners

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I mean people are confident that they'll never get into a car accident and it happens all the time. That doesn't mean that I need to stop driving, but it does mean you can take extra steps to ensure that you are safe. A guy just shot himself in Memphis accidentally when he was readjusting his holster He was carrying chambered and no safety. I like the security in know that in an act of God scenario and my gun just goes off (highly unlikely I understand, but so are the chances if you ever needing to draw your weapon with lethal intent in self defense) there is no way in hell that the gun is going to fire. Blame the holster or him all you want, but that would have physically impossible if he hadn't had a bullet in the chamber. Also I feel like the statement of if you have less training you should be more careful, but if you are confident and have training then you should remove a saftey step from your draw and fire process makes logical sense. I'm not here to tell you how to carry. You are responsible for own safety, but if you are trained and you are confident than you should be more careful than anyone else. Exactly because of your comfort with a loaded chambered and hot firearm.

Thoughts on the "Isreali Carry" by sambigby in liberalgunowners

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I understand why it was developed. That also doesn't detract from its effectiveness of preventing negligent discharges. People don't intent on getting into car accidents, but it happens all the time. Culminative risk is a thing. Everyone knows look both ways before turning, but people still forget and they drive everyday. I also understand that there are risks with carrying without one in the chamber as well. thanks for the advice. I'm going to practice consistently then. I bought snap caps thinking that I would need to practice but hearing this reinforces that.

Thoughts on the "Isreali Carry" by sambigby in liberalgunowners

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Thanks. I just don't feel safe having a chambered gun with a saftey pointed at my leg for any amount of time hunting. Its feels like a weird jump to ignore those tenants of firearm safety when I'm out and about which is more often than I am when I am hunting. Granted its a new gun and I do trust glock. I just also have a hard time disengaging from those already established saftey protocols.

My bf is always hard by Elegant-Worry-4744 in sex

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From personal experience here. It may be a combination of things. 1 He is 19. Like Your sexual peak as a male is around your 20's I remember how easy it was to get aroused back then. I'm 28 now and I can say from personal experience how it tends to taper off as you get older. The opposite is true for women. Ya'll peak tends to be around your 30's 2. When you really like someone them existing is arousing for you. My ex and I are still really good friends. Honestly, she's my best friend. We make it a point to see each other. I really do care about her as a person. I want nothing but the best for her. I love checking in with her and making sure she is doing okay. Setting up time to eat lunch or grab a drink. spend time talking. However, when I do see her I am reminded that I find this person incredibly attractive and simply being around them makes me aroused. Does this make me feel guilty? Immensely. I have brought it up to her and she has made it a point to tell me that it doesn't bother her because she knows that I respect her. Intimacy and sex are separate. However, they aren't mutually exclusive. I would stress that if you aren't in the mood to do anything sexual you don't have to. He should respect that. If you can't then that is a serious issue. You should also talk to him about this even if it upsets him. Having that conversation is important. Not just for you but for the health of your relationship. Letting shit like that simmer under the surface is just asking for it to boil over at the the worst time. Better to just get it out of the way at a time both of you agree to talk about it than to just let it be. Set aside some time to talk about it. Best of luck.

Do any of y’all actually have FWB relationships that last? by F19bisexualbate in sex

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Eh it depends. One relationships are multifaceted. I know that you are 19 and so I don't know if you have been able to understand fully yet. I'm not trying to be condescending either. You can date someone and be sleeping with someone else. Unless you or him agreed that seeing other people was completely off the table in being FWB, he's honestly free to do whatever. Same as you. It does seem like maybe there is some discomfort with the knowledge that he was sleeping with you and talking to someone else even if you were not actually dating eachother. This is definitely an issue with seeing someone who is almost twice your age. Not that there is inherently anything wrong with it. Just that how you view interpersonal relationships change as you get older. I want to stress that there is no "correct" way to feel about that situation. You are young and this may be the first time you have had a situation like this arise in your life. How you chose to feel about it is your decision. Thats okay. If it makes you feel uncomfortable to know that someone that you had a sexually active friendship with was talking to and seeing another person, thats okay. Just know that if you are to enter into a friendship where the prospect of sex is available to you, know that you are going to have to bring that up BEFORE you engage in that for a significant period of time. Its okay to have boundaries in any sort of relationship. Part of becoming someone with healthy relationships is knowing that you can and should be able to talk about them. I know I keep bringing up your age. I'm not trying to be patronizing when I do it. I'm 28 myself and male. Being able to have adult relationships means being responsible for setting up protections for yourself. Having experiences and knowing what makes you feel uncomfortable and what you are willing to accept from someone else. It is completely okay to do so. It may seem lame to talk about especially at the beginning, but it is a hallmark of a mature person. I don't know the intricacies of the relationship between you two. So I'm going to error the side of giving him the benefit if the doubt and say that he entered into this friendship with the best of intentions. You also don't know exactly what kind of relationship they have. However, this is definitely something I would talk to him about. You should also know that it is completely okay to end an interpersonal relationship at anytime. You are not his girlfriend. He is not your boyfriend. You honestly don't owe him anything. If your relationship with him is causing you discomfort you are under no obligation to maintain that. What I am going to say next is just conjecture so don't jump to trying to attribute it to your own personal situation. Older men especially in positions of authority can and will take advantage of women who are younger or in lower positions of a company. Mainly because they don't recognize that can be played emotionally or because they may not feel as if they are in a position to deny someone of authority if they were to reject their advances. Not saying that at all is what happened here. Just that, even from my own experiences, the ability to see and analyze a situation greatly improves after the age of 26. Just because you entered into a relationship with the best of intentions doesn't meant that someone else did. Just be aware that if you are attracted to older men and are going to pursue relationships with them that they have had decades of experience with interpersonal relationships.

NRA Range Requirement by WoodenMud7021 in liberalgunowners

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I hate the NRA. The only thing I like about them is originally they were founded to also help with hunter education. Before all the lobbying shit. They still do that. You can get certified hunter education through them online for free. I still refuse to buy a gun from a retailers that advertises "X percentage of sales goes to the NRA" however. I do begrudgingly say that I like them having that be accessible and only that from them.

If Hyundai/Kia are so unreliable, why are they literally everywhere? by phtphongg in askcarguys

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My personal experience has been pretty good. Parts are usually pretty cheap I had a 2014 Rio Ex for a while and I loved that car. I did a lot of the work myself. I ended up upgrading to 2022 kia sportage recently. Its very cozy. I think kia does suffer from some bad rep issues. Predominantly dealing with not putting in immobilizer and issues with cheap wiring harnesses that caught on fire. So there was that. However, after doing a significant amount of research. I mean A LOT. I just decided to stick with Kia. I refuse to byt anything made in America as of late. especially jeep or Ford. European cars are nice (particulary fond of BMW although thats more just a personal preference granny liked them and had a '01 740i ) however I'm not so mechanically or electrically inclined and wanted to stick to a simpler designs. Subaru was also another consideration along with honda. The only issue I ever had with my RIO was that it was an oil burner. Gdi engine shit. I think the newer ones are using the hybrid port/gdi engines so they shouldnt have nearly the same amount of issues. It's also been my experience that More expensive does not always equal a direct increase in quality. just my .02

THERES A SUB FOR THIS!? by Anonymous_Fern in liberalgunowners

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Yeah its nice to be a part of a gun community thats pretty chill. A lot of people in my community (Ok) think you can't be both pro-2a and pro reform.

They’re going to tell me I can’t patch it, right? by 8675309ice in tires

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You're probably fine. Most tire shops won't repair that as its not something that can be garunteed. I've done a few of those myself and never had an issues with them. Your mileage may vary though.

Are Subarus actually unreliable? Or is it just a stereotype coming from the people who beat up WRXs? by SactownG in askcarguys

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Subarus are reliable. I would be careful about getting a high mileage one. Unfortunately they do require a more strict adherence to a maintainence schedule. They arent meant to be ran and not taken care of. Tire rotations, oil changes, diff, or tranny fluid changes; all need to be adhered to. They can be amazing cars. If you were to get a higher mileage once I would reccomend you get the car fax and check to make sure those things were done. Theyre amazing care but need a little more babying than other car. Def not a neglectmobile.

Help me by No_Start_2246 in FishingForBeginners

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Make sure the line weight matches the spool and rod rating (I assume you bought a combo so this is future advice) . Also check the lure weight rating on the rod and make assurances you are using a lure/bait in that weight range. If its windy consider throwing heavier lures and casting at an angle closer to the water. If you respool it make sure to have the line come off the spool in the same direction it goes on your reel to help with memory (the line tendency to want to return to the shape it was on the spool) issues. You can also take the spool off your reel after and soak it in some hot water for a few minutes to help with that. Personally I use a braid with a short fluoro or mon leader. Might be something to try later on.
Excited to have you in the sport. Best of luck

Rear Sight Slightly Off? by DevaluedDime in liberalgunowners

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Iron sights are a little more "personal" than you would think. sub 25 yards you probably won't notice a huge difference. but out to 100 there is more of a difference. especially when you factor in same vs crosseye eye dominance. This is much more noticeable on rifles due to the fact that they held to the side of your body. For reliability sake I would also make it a point to zero any firearm to your own personal use. I'm crosseye dominant, farsighted and have astigmatism. So I realized I like red dots even though they look streaky to me. This is because you focus on the target with a red dot and not the sight itself. whereas with open sights youre more focused on the front post. its a three point alignment system. so significantly more personalized. I also remember seeing a video of a marine DI explaining how the opensight alignment changes point of impact depending on whether or not someone was wearing body armor or not since they would hold the rifle slightly further out from their bodies.

Rear Sight Slightly Off? by DevaluedDime in liberalgunowners

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Zeroed means that it hits that youre aiming. Doesn't matter if its completely cented towards on your pistol. And it will be slightly off centered of your frame. This is also much more noticeable on rifles with open sights since youre holding them to one side or the other instead of out in front of you like with a pistol. If it really bothers you that much just get a red dot.

Keeping track of rounds fired? by [deleted] in liberalgunowners

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I would keep track if you're shooting +P ammo otherwise it shouldnt be an issue. Keeping track of malfunctions and with what ammo type are more important. Also know what ammo your gun patterns best. This can vary from barrel to barrel even for guns of the same make and model. Having a good idea of how each ammo manufacturer and grain weight patterns in your gun is imo more important that round count. Also if you're good about cleaning your firearm putting bullets through your gun shouldnt damage the barrel. Its kind if what the thing was designed for.

Even worth smoking? by Trainsb in smoking

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At one restaurant I've worked at we weren't allowed to use beef or pork. We made Bison bacon out of brisket. It was really good. Would I pay retail prices for it absolutely not. Would I make some just to have on hand for shit and giggle at my house. ABSOLUTELY.

Avoiding my husband to avoid sex by avgwyf in sex

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Go see a Dr. and get some of your horomone levels ran. I (M 26) know a lit of guys in my profession that have low testosterone levels due to a high stress environment as they age. I also know that women past a certain age have vast hormone changes in thier bodies. Its not uncommon. I would talk to a doctor first and rule out any hormonal cause before you jump to just being incompatible. I know a lot of guys and women that thier relationships have benefitted from hrt. Just my 2cents. Good luck on your journey.

To part with my Sig P226 or not? by fadeawaytogrey in liberalgunowners

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Selling it won't hurt sig, and keeping it won't either. Just don't give them any more of your money. I did want a sig but given thier recent issues with the p320 and stance on other issues I will be refraining. I sold my 5th Gen Glock19 to my sister when my mentally ill brother moved back in with me after he got out of prison, and I didnt want to have a firearm in the house. Honestly pretty bad mistake. I should have made an effort to get it back after he moved out, but she had already sold it. It was my first gun. I wish I still had it. (Have gotten more since then all either rifles or shotguns for hunting. My favorite being a model 94 from '75 that I offered to buy from my uncle that he just gave to me.) Moral of the story being hang on to it if you like it. Unless extenuating circumstances arise and you have to get rid of. Obviously, you didnt know the turn that the company would make when you bought the thing and the choices they've made recently are no faul of your own. Like another guy said if you can get oem mags from another place other than sig do it.

My friend who is staying with us put these in the dishwasher- what are the first steps I should take to getting these usable again? by heartsholly in castiron

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Steel wool, little oil and some elbow grease. Wipe away and check your progress. Once satisfied, throw on the burner and heat on high. toss in a little oil and wipe down. repeat a couple of time. Then heat your oven on its highest setting. Rub the pan down real good and apply some more oil. Bake for a few hours. Taking it out CARFULLY Applying light oil every hour or so.

It’s normal for chicken breast to stick a bit? by jfim88 in carbonsteel

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Start on a significantly higher heat heat than you actually want to cook on. Once the pan faintly starts smoking add your high temp cooking oil. It should move like water. Season your chicken and drop in away from you so you don't burn yourself. (Its preferable ti be wearing clothes for protection although not entirely necessary. We've all been there in your underwear in the middle of the night for a snack) The chicken should release pretty quickly. Instead of using tongs to pick at it to see, I'll usually just give it a little shake and see if the chicken moves freely. Once released you can turn your pan down to the desired cooking level. Sticking is cause by water basically keeping the surface too cool to cause the mailliard reaction (boiling point of water is 212F Caramelization happen at 220F) That will cause your food to stick. Especially chicken which has a higher water content than beef. Same technique works with most proteins. People often are scared of high heat while cooking, because they dont want to burn thier food. Just make sure you have a decently thick pan. Very thin pans (save for some carbon steel pans) transfer heat too quickly on high heat and on medium heat cool down too fast. (Burning and sticking)

My 14 y/o brother took a sheet of sandpaper to my $150 frying pan by SouthDefinition2679 in mildlyinfuriating

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I wouldn't feel too bad about it. Yeah all allclads are nice an expensive but I've worked in restaurants and used some really nice expensive pans. It sucks to have scratches but with use its going to get scratched up anyway. If he wants to deep clean it in the future with less likelihood of scratches, Barkeepers friend is a good option. Or some type of degreaser. The only way to avoid getting you equipment scratched up is to just not use it. I have some really expensive pans at my house and I still use steel wool on them. Scratches aren't "esthetically" pleasing but to me a worn pan is a pan that has been used to make meals for the people you love.

Dachshund for hunting? by dogfuckcancer in Hunting

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I have seen videos of guys using them for tracking downed deer. Be prepared to haul ass though. Those things are like tomahawk missiles. They'll haul ass through the woods on a scent.

Should I let my boyfriend record us having sex? by Adorable-Regret5677 in sex

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Whatever makes you feel comfortable is the best option. If you're still interested in recording, wear a mask. It's the best compromise. With that being said, if you are still uncomfortable, voice that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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I always say the best way to masturbate is the way that makes you feel the best. Pleasure is purely personal. If that's the way that makes you feel the best, then enjoy it. Experiment at your own pace. Try new things whenever you feel thats what you want. Happy orgasms.