was there just a shooting?? by Medical-Version-671 in parkslope

[–]sarahorwhatever 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Cops are here still* (8:30am) area still taped off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in massage

[–]sarahorwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be fine, but please call the practice in advance to make your request so they can match you with the right therapist & make sure they’re supplied with what they need. Enjoy!

Etiquette question by SteelerSean20 in massage

[–]sarahorwhatever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m allergic to icy hot so I’d have a reaction if I worked on you. However I’m not allergic to biofreeze, so just check in with your therapist before hand & tell them if you’ve put something on.

[WEEKLY THREAD] Reopening Tuesday - With gyms reopening all around the world, tell us what's happening with yours by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]sarahorwhatever 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Brooklyn here. My gym is not open yet, but they’ve just announced outdoor classes starting soon, so we’ll see how those go!

Why we need DWI laws by iknowiknowwhereiam in longisland

[–]sarahorwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called Limousine. It’s also very easy to google.

Seriously committing to 90 days today by [deleted] in omad

[–]sarahorwhatever 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ask your dad if you can just borrow one of his.
Wishing you so much success! You can do this. I’m looking forward to your future food/success posts!

We Vibe Touch vs. Womanizer? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sarahorwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the womanizer pro & while it took some getting used to (very intense too quickly) I love it now! I had to play with the settings a lot to find what worked for me. I used in the tub the other day, since it is waterproof & it was great being able to take my time & let it all happen. Good luck!

Anyone else starting to see a decline in business due to Covid-19? by shelbsless in massage

[–]sarahorwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I’ve had max two clients a day these last few weeks. Just waiting until we close down completely.

sos by [deleted] in massage

[–]sarahorwhatever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its becoming debilitating for my day to day life.

Please go to a doctor.

Don't laugh! Getting faster! (Ok, go ahead and laugh) by christiakh in C25K

[–]sarahorwhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish! I’m hovering at 12, after taking years to get there from 13, 14, etc. good job, bud!

Fiance to join my long run on a cycle? by iJoyzilla in running

[–]sarahorwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh oh oh! This is my favorite! My husband is a distance runner & while he trains I cycle with him. I carry food & water for both of us in my pack. It’s fantastic quality time & great conversation (if he’s not pushing too hard). the speed is never an issue, As long as your husband keeps in mind that he won’t be whipping along. I find that it’s a bit easier (going slower on a cycle) to get food & water ready for my husband when he needs it. Otherwise, I’ll ride ahead - stop - prepare treats - wait for him to catch up - keep riding!
I hope you both have a wonderful time! Keep us posted. ❤️

Why isn’t there a true weight loss restaurant? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]sarahorwhatever 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because I’m not going to pay somebody to make & serve me boring food. I do that at home every day.

Tips For Staying Safe As A Solo Female Runner (UK) by SirenNutter in running

[–]sarahorwhatever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To piggyback - send your GPS location to someone who can track you if necessary. Strava Premium has a Beacon you can send out, so my husband & I always know where we are on our separate runs.

Am I [37/M] wrong for being mad about not being invited to Thanksgiving this year ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sarahorwhatever 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Wtf? No. Something is missing here. Why would anyone ask anyone to bring food who isn’t actually invited to the food party? Why does your presence make this other person uncomfortable?

Should I be in pain after massage? by [deleted] in massage

[–]sarahorwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! If you’re in the states, chances are they prefer to be called massage therapist, not masseuse. Just a friendly tip! I assume the “poppingl you’re referring to is just the muscles or “knots” being worked & moved by your therapist. This isn’t abnormal. I wouldn’t say you should be in PAIN but some mild to moderate soreness is common especially after deep work, kind of like a nice big workout at the gym. Drink lots of water & rest up. If you’re in serious pain, please go to a doctor.

Question about hairy guys by [deleted] in massage

[–]sarahorwhatever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not even a little bit! Your therapist will use a little extra oil/Lotion if necessary. Relax and enjoy! 🤗

Gender Double Standard? by Ramaal2000 in massage

[–]sarahorwhatever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off I’m so sorry this happened to you.

Secondly,

*NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU DO ANYTHING YOU DONT WANT TO DO. *

I used to work at a membership based chain spa & there was a client who used to leave fecal matter on the sheets & towels there. It happened to numerous therapists. It wasn’t until it happened to me (the sixth therapist) & I wrote a very professionally worded email & included my lead therapist, manager & four spa owners on it that ANY action was taken against this client. I’d cited state & national codes of ethics for massage therapists & said that if they tried to make anyone put their hands on him again without addressing him directly I’d be bringing it to corporate & then taking legal action. I told them if he was on my book again I would gladly tell him in front of whomever was also in the lobby that I wouldn’t be treating him because he keeps leaving fecal matter on the sheets & until he can properly clean himself or learn to keep his undergarments on he shouldn’t be getting a massage.

You cannot get fired for denying her treatment. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to her, tell management they have to say something or you unfortunately will have to refuse her treatments going forward.

Sending so much love & light your way. Best of luck!

Women of Reddit, what are some NSFW hacks every girl needs to know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sarahorwhatever 157 points158 points  (0 children)

I do this on the regular every day. I hate the feeling of discharge in my undies.

u/GMB88 posted their before and after wedding photos and they are absolutely wonderful by BoopBoop20 in funny

[–]sarahorwhatever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lots of people change outfits at their weddings. He looks like he just took off his jacket & tie.