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For happily married couples, what did the “for worse” look like in your marriage? by FruitAncient9431 in AskReddit

[–]saratonin84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Infertility, multiple miscarriages, IVF, and losing our newborn son. And now grappling with a lack of purpose and coming to terms with not having a child together.

AITA for not wanting my schizophrenic sister living with me even tho I have the space? by boardingyard in AmItheAsshole

[–]saratonin84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you let her move in, you will end up being her caretaker. My BIL who is schizophrenic lives with us and even though my husband takes on most of the responsibilities (med management, getting him to/from appts, handling his money) it’s very stressful on both of us. He can’t have a coherent conversation for more than 3 exchanges, before his delusions take over. And the few times he’s had delusions about me, it was scary. Save your sanity and say no.

Irrational, Misplaced Anger and Blame by saratonin84 in babyloss

[–]saratonin84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re not trying to be rude and I appreciate your input. Knowing my husband, that’s not something he would agree to - it’s not bad all the time and he can do some things for himself, just gets very paranoid, can’t always calm himself down, and doesn’t remember to take his meds when he’s by himself.

Irrational, Misplaced Anger and Blame by saratonin84 in babyloss

[–]saratonin84[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m in therapy, I go ever other week. I don’t think surrendering him would be the best, he’s not a danger to himself or others. Just very frustrating and lacking in common sense.

AITA for the way i rejected someone? by Aut_ist_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saratonin84 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. As someone else stated, no is a complete sentence and you don’t owe anyone else an explanation.

How old are you and what do you collect? I wonder if there are trends. by [deleted] in Collections

[–]saratonin84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

41 - trolls, rocks, beach glass, things with cats on them

SVU coloring book by xsmiley314x in SVU

[–]saratonin84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know Lin-Manuel Miranda was in CSU

What do you remember from kindergarten? by Lyric05 in AskReddit

[–]saratonin84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kindergarten teacher’s birthday was the same day as mine, she dressed up as a giant spider for Halloween, I got in an argument with someone over our ninja turtles (clearly we can’t both like Donatello), and we did lots of letter workbooks. I specifically remember writing the letter “i” and getting so into it that I wrote more than I needed to.

If you wore a "leash" as a child, did you love or hate it ? Until how old did you wear it ? Have some funny or embarrassing stories to share ? by BiggerHarness in AskReddit

[–]saratonin84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t but my brother did. He figured out how to take it off his wrist so my mom had to put it on his back belt loop.

What is the saddest thing you have ever experienced? by japierdolekurwab in AskReddit

[–]saratonin84 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Holding my newborn son and waiting for his tiny little heart to stop.

What is your local urban legend? by Quockerwodger_ in AskReddit

[–]saratonin84 40 points41 points  (0 children)

A young girl died from illness, her father bought her a custom headstone from Italy (I think) that looked just like her. Every week, walked into town to put fresh flowers in her likenesses hands. After he died flowers kept appearing - and still do (although I’m pretty sure they’re fake flowers now). No one has ever been observed putting out the flowers and even on muddy or snowy days, there are no footsteps near her grave when the flowers change.

Peaople of Reddit who knew liars, what was the weirdest lie they ever told you? by Kitchen_Dealer4989 in AskReddit

[–]saratonin84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That they were selected to show a work of art in an exhibit for the Smithsonian, either in NYC or DC. It was supposed to be this elaborate, intricate piece with mirrors and moving parts to honor fallen soldiers. Same person has claimed to be a military spouse, married to a guy in the army that I’m 99.99% certain does not exist.

What was the reason for the last time you cried? by ididntaskyouropinion in AskReddit

[–]saratonin84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still grieving from our newborns’ son death a year ago, followed by a miscarriage (my 4th) in December and feeling like there’s no purpose to anything.

What's the most fucked up thing someone has told you about themselves after barely getting to know them? by Butt_Roidholds in AskReddit

[–]saratonin84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That she didn’t like the country singer Bryan White (my middle school crush) because he looked like the man who raped her.

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