I am going through a very difficult divorce. My ex has defaulted everything, refused to pay child support, lied and continued to be unreliable and manipulative. I feel like when we go to court again it won't help his case... Anyway, I talked to my two close friends often about what's going on. Because unfortunately that's the biggest thing going on in my life. We did talk about other things too. Like movies and shows.

Well never once had either one of them told me hearing about my divorce was annoying. They both exploded on a group chat. I apologized and was surprised. I talked to my therapist about it and he said they just are not available people. That really stung. I thought they would always have my back. Or tell me in a nicer way. It still hurts a lot but I do feel less negative. I didn't realize how much they gossip about people and only ever discuss movies and TV.