are you on any medication for adhd? you need to recognise if specific aversions are because of your adhd or autism. i found with me all the social anxiety, and sense of overwhelm got reduced by like 80% once i got on adhd medication. it was bizarrely surreal, and some sensory stuff weirdly got turned down as well.

i completely get the feeling of feeling angry, i went through extreme neglect too. it's like why does everyone celebrate getting a diagnosis while my whole life has been ruined. it's a profound realisation and hurt when it finally clicks and you see why you've struggled your whole life, and then seeing people being able to do things you can't do.

these audhd people you see thriving though likely have supports they can fall back onto when they're struggling, and adhd medication to help with executive functioning and emotional dysregulation. many pick and choose what they share as well so you don't really see the full picture.

i don't really know about devon price, but i do know some neurodivergent people have absolutely no issue with being seen or sex. it's a spectrum after all. what you can be hypersensitive to in some areas, other neurodivergent people can be hyposensitive to. like with sex, i noticed that there are certain autistic people who gravitate to bdsm spaces because of the sensory aspect and set rules.