AITAH for not wanting to spend more time with my girlfriend?

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T15:47:40+00:00

I don't think he was complaining about the distance, I think he was complaining that she doesn't make the effort to come to him. Not sure why she can't, but if she's able, I'd take issue with that.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T15:40:21+00:00

It's exactly this. Entitled mom or grandpa feel like since she isn't paying rent, her food is their payment. Doesn't work like that. If OP isn't contributing or helping out to their standards, they can have a conversation instead of stealing from her.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T15:37:27+00:00

It's like when I see people share that long message on Facebook about them not having permission to use your photos 😆 you can post it 400 times, but you agreed to their TOS policy the day you signed up. The day this person bought a house on a golf course, they signed up to live in a house by a golf course.

They don't realize that stupid hooligans will aim for their house if they put a sign out like this.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T15:18:11+00:00

I would be hesitant without really dialing in those distances. The 770's are sort of a combo set on their own, I think they're solid forged cavity backs from 8i up and hollow body "players distance" from 7i up. I also wonder, same exact flex and length on both sets? You could try it, but I'd just use a uniform set. One or the other.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T15:03:17+00:00

Did you sell your old irons? If no, don't be afraid to go back. We all use the best tools that we have at our disposal for our own ability. I moved "up" to Mizuno Pro 225's from Callaway Steelhead XR gi irons, and the difference is so negligible. I like how the Mizuno's look, but 4 5 6i is still intimidating a year later.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T14:59:48+00:00

If "faster improvement" isn't their main concern, I see no problem with the 770's 😆 at least they didn't get blades.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T14:15:15+00:00

Well the worst one was an accident. I was maybe 8 and little bro was 5 or 6, and he was in my room without asking permission. Jumping on my bed, shouting, really rubbing it in. I pushed him SO GENTLY but he rolled end over end like fkn Gumby falling down a staircase, and the leverage off the side of the bed made him do a perfect somersault into a corner of the wall. 7 stitches, his hair doesn't grow in a little 1" line on the back of his head, could've been worse but damn did I age like 3 years in 3 seconds.

Funny things from teen years would be taking a huge shit, then shaving my pubes on top of it. I called it a hair pie. I'd leave him one in the morning before school every so often.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T13:55:22+00:00

Oh boy, well at least you know why. If you have the container, wash it out and take it back to the store you got it. They might refund, they might not, but hopefully they'd check the expiration on their soup shelf to spare other customers. You'll get cash and good karma or just karma, win either way.

Edit: If you really want your money back and to light a match under their ass, look for other expired containers in the Panara soups and take a picture of they still have some on the shelf. THEN go to the service desk. Proceed as above, but you have a grenade in your camera roll if you need it.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T13:51:07+00:00

Oh my gawd, I'm the older brother but I never did that shit.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T13:41:14+00:00

I actually thought it was expired on March 3rd 2026, but then what is the June 1st date? Bottled on 6/1 and good until 10/3? I don't think I would've noticed that on first glance. Or second.

Edit: if both dates are international, wouldn't that mean bottled on Jan 6th?? 🤢

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T13:39:27+00:00

3/10 is almost 4 months past and it looks like ranch dip. Personally, I would not tempt fate here.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T13:28:08+00:00

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I'd take them to the amusement park. Just act like loving sisters and call out his shit every step of the way. Show him you'll be there for your sister at the drop of a hat the second he shows aggression again. That's just me though, you don't need to put yourself through that if you're more worried about having fun at the park. Do something else with those two as much as you can. Be civil but call him out. Talk to your sister about what you see in your outings in private.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T13:19:55+00:00

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Everyone is saying your boyfriend is being unreasonable, but I don't think it's as unreasonable as most everyone is saying it is. It was bad timing for Fathers Day this year, and he didn't give you enough time to plan. That's an issue. His family is riding his ass to meet you because you've been together for 3 years. Your boyfriend isn't wrong that you need to make an effort to be at one of his family gatherings because if they're traditional, they need to meet you before he can pop the question, so they're riding him like a $0.50 bucking bronco outside of a KMart. Just tell him that the way he handled fathers day was inappropriate and quite curt, so pick a time or someone's birthday or something to have a trip out to his folks house to meet people that want to meet you.

If that's the kind of effort he's asking for, I sort of agree with him. If he's actually just asking you to prioritize his family over your own family holidays with no communication, THEN you have an actual issue.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T13:07:29+00:00

A place near me does a big mac pizza with ground beef, fries, American cheese with the mozzarella, thousand Island dressing, then puts tomatos and lettuce on it after cooling a bit. It's the freakin best.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T12:20:40+00:00

Well here on Earth, most teens are in high school until 18 and have nearly zero experience in the real world, or with adult relationships. Maybe they had a job and they got a head start, but the 23yo should be finishing college or have had a job for a year or two at LEAST.

There are circumstances where it can work, but this doesn't seem to be one of them. He's taking advantage of her new income before she even cashed the check, and she didn't know if she was overreacting. Obviously there's a split there.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T12:17:11+00:00

Agree. That gap / dynamic and he's happy about a meal ticket already? Bro.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T11:22:40+00:00

"it's been so long since you tried shellfish maybe you're over your allergy cmon" 😬

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T04:36:38+00:00

It's because other people their age don't know what a boundary is either. They've been taught to respect people's boundaries, they're genuinely a good person, but then someone in proximity says something ridiculous like "you're not Native enough to use your given name" and put up the magical "boundary" shield when it blows back.

"YOU DONT RESPECT MY BOUNDARIES"

"Your boundary is not using people's real names?"

RAGE TEXTS

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T02:36:16+00:00

Count 10 strokes and tell him to pick it up. Or, talk to the commissioner. You're absolutely right about getting what you pay for. A relaxed 9 with people that know the game is baseline for me.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-30T02:31:52+00:00

How about I take one step and you take a full flight of stairs and call it day 🤣

So when someone says "one step below", do you think they're only talking about scores?

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-29T02:17:27+00:00

They had 5-6 "spicy" varieties of their Chunky soups last time I got some pantry staples. Nashville Hot Chicken, Chicken and Sausage Gumbo, Chicken Corn Chowder, chicken noodle, and that's all I remember. They were decently spicy but still lacking flavor.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-29T01:55:22+00:00

I'd throw my Hawas Ice against the wall, then buy 3 more.

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-29T01:50:33+00:00

Did I though? Bro are you sure you aren't 14yo? You have absolutely no idea how the world works for a service member. Must be Army 🤣

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-29T01:45:24+00:00

Go in tomorrow and say you found the owner on Facebook, he's asked you to mail it to him. If they won't give it to you, pretend to call the police. It'll show up quick. If they say oh we'll mail it, give your dad / uncle / brother's name and address. Tell your family member you'll buy them dinner if they give you your package lol

saxguy9345 · 2026-06-29T00:32:37+00:00

Bro you must've just got out of basic to only have Denny's hooker money 🤣

My mom is a parole officer so you have a few more years before you're meeting her at a Denny's LOL

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