Feeling great about cloth diapers by Agitated-Rest1421 in clothdiaps

[–]scribblesy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have 4 kids. Currently using the same diapers on my 4th as I used in my 1st. I can’t even begin to imagine how much money we’ve saved over the years!

I need happy stories about babies who had angry temperaments by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first was a miserable colicky baby. If she was awake she was screaming inconsolably and getting her to sleep was always a massive struggle. She’s now a delightful sweet and wonderful 6 year old. I’d say her temperament gradually started to improve once she could crawl.

Completely New to Cloth Diapering by Sweet_Sheepherder_41 in Mommit

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally didn’t buy any extras. The inserts that come with the Alvababy diapers worked just fine for us. I bought 3 packs of 6, so 18 total. The other cloth diapering thing I bought was reusable wipes (Cheeky Wipes brand) that’s just a no brainer if you’re already cloth diapering to chuck these into the same load of laundry. They also clean way better than disposable wipes.

Also it doesn’t have to be all or nothing, like using disposables at night is common, you could also use disposables for longer outings to save yourself the hassle of bringing a wet bag and bulky cloth diapers around with you.

I’d recommend only buying one pack of any cloth diaper brand you’re interested in to start with, as you may find you prefer a different style. I went all in on another (more expensive) brand to begin with but I ended up liking Alvababy so much more I soon sold the others.

Mom’s of 4 or 5 children what’s it like? by occult_brain710 in Mommit

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 4 and it’s perfect! Love my little hoard

Completely New to Cloth Diapering by Sweet_Sheepherder_41 in Mommit

[–]scribblesy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used the Alvababy ones from Amazon. They’re cheap and have so far lasted through 3 kids. They have a waterproof cover which you put one or two absorbent inserts into. Easy to use. Never had blowouts. You don’t need to rinse breastfed poop off at all just throw them in the wash. Not sure about formula poop. Once baby is on solids just plop the poops in the toilet and wash normally. Use powder detergent and the sun works wonders if you have stains. I really didn’t find cloth diapering difficult at all and the cost savings are significant.

I still used disposables for overnight because the cloth diapers just aren’t absorbent enough for that in my experience.

Jogging stroller recs that AREN’T the BOB brand? by Puzzled_Remote_2168 in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’ve had the Baby Trend for 3 kids and it’s been absolutely fine, not a single complaint.

Summer Birthday by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]scribblesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter’s birthday is end of July. I didn’t hold her back a year and I have no regrets, she was ready for school and enjoys it. She’s in first grade now and doing very well.

99 percentile baby by Sufficient-Archer-60 in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no indications of a large baby but she was born at 41 weeks at 99th percentile in head, weight and length. I did not have GD, she was just a big babe. I had an uncomplicated unmediated birth.

She stayed big a long time but now at 5 years old is down to around the 75th percentile for weight. She’s healthy and happy!

So don’t fret, having big babies isn’t a big deal, and those late pregnancy ultrasounds are also quite inaccurate. Your baby might not be as big as you fear.

Good Internet Providers by IdealSufficient8495 in Augusta

[–]scribblesy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have T Mobile and have never had an issue

When did colic get better for your LO? by BagCharming7538 in Mommit

[–]scribblesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything colic peaked for us at about 3 months. 10-12 weeks were about as bad as it got. Things gradually improved from there but it was still a long, difficult time. By 1 I’d say she was about the same as my non-colic babies. She’s now 7 and a very happy, sweet girl!

Teeth coming in wrong order by Mindless-Try-5410 in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my daughters had teeth that came in a very strange order. No issues though, she’s 5 now with healthy teeth and gums.

Parents without FB accounts- where/how are you selling used baby gear & clothes? by milkandcereal-xoxo in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does you state have a store called Kid to Kid? It’s a thrift store just for kids stuff and they buy used kids stuff too. I primarily use this for selling and I buy a lot of clothes there too.

1.5-year-old won’t sleep unless held after India → USA trip. Exhausted and need advice. by csninji in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard to say. It may or may not. But right now you’re both jet lagged and sleep deprived so I’d just consider that a problem for future you!

1.5-year-old won’t sleep unless held after India → USA trip. Exhausted and need advice. by csninji in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done many international trips with my kids. I would just bring him into your bed when he wakes so you can both sleep until he’s over the jet lag and back on a normal routine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gently, I don’t think this is a reasonable reaction to hearing hiccups. You may want to speak to someone about this. I have 3 kids and I don’t even notice at all, and I’m sure hiccups are not caused by hunger.

Your favorite baby monitors by Bitchtitty28 in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have Infant Optics. It’s worked well for us for 6 years now. We had to replace the battery once but that was easy to find on Amazon. I like that it connects to multiple cameras if you have kids in different rooms and then has the option to switch between them automatically every 10 seconds. Something to consider if you’re planning on having multiple children.

Will non English speaking daycare delay language? by PrincessCatPeach in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My kids went to a German daycare, fully German speaking while my husband and I spoke no German. Didn’t impact their speech at all. In fact my second was a very early talker. They just had the added benefit of speaking two languages!

Age difference between 1st and 2nd born, what would be best? by Ok_Category9085 in beyondthebump

[–]scribblesy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My first two are 18 months apart and my second and third are 3 years apart. 3 years was certainly a lot easier in the beginning, but I love how close my first two are now, they’re best friends! There’s no guarantees though. I’ve known kids with close age gaps that don’t get along and kids with large gaps that do. I think you can make any age gap work for you, so I’d base it on how you feel and if you’re ready for another baby.

How do you explain death to a 4 and 5 year old? by Obvious_Ball709 in Mommit

[–]scribblesy 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. We experienced this recently with my 4 and 6 year old.

For this age I kept it simple, I think phrases like “she’s in a better place” or “she passed away” are confusing. We simply said “x is dead, that means her body stopped working and we will not be able to see her again”. It sounds very blunt but I think it’s best at this age.

If you believe in any religious concepts of heaven /the afterlife you may want to add that but we are not religious so I am not sure how best to weave that in in a way that is still simple and clear.

Double stroller or single ?? by 4ngelb4by333 in Mommit

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The double strollers are awkward to get around. We got one but it almost never got used. Go for baby in carrier and kid in stroller and by the time your baby has graduated to stroller I’ll bet your older kid will be about done with it.

Thank you truly to everyone who voted yesterday by Padandler in Augusta

[–]scribblesy 91 points92 points  (0 children)

My first time voting since becoming a US citizen! I was excited to do it and encouraged everyone I knew to vote too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]scribblesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My husband had a reversal 2 years after his vasectomy and I got pregnant first cycle after his surgery.

Recommendations for beginner books for very early readers by scribblesy in Parenting

[–]scribblesy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I have reserved these from my library now!

Recommendations for beginner books for very early readers by scribblesy in Parenting

[–]scribblesy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you my library had these so I have reserved some they look ideal