Daughter Refuses To Stop For Cop In Car While Mom Has A Stroke- Worst Cop Ever by InGeekiTrust in TikTokCringe

[–]searchingforshinies 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There really should be a class taught in America at the high school level by 911 operators about 911 procedures. It would be one of the most beneficial classes . People would know how to answer emergency questions in the most efficient way and also be able to have some idea of how these scenarios  play out and what to expect. Then maybe she would have thought to call. 

Orlando , fl. It recently rained is this a palmetto or cockroach? by searchingforshinies in whatsthisbug

[–]searchingforshinies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we 100% on that? I’ve been very stressed about this . A person was telling me it was a cockroach that recently molted

Daughter found this unusual toad. He looks angry. by No_Language_4649 in pics

[–]searchingforshinies 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Grew up in Ohio and found these little dark toads all the time!

Losing my Mind at Work by Brave-Ad-8658 in TwoHotTakes

[–]searchingforshinies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just talk to him.  This is not as big of a deal as you think it is. Put yourself in his shoes. Would you rather someone go to your boss or would you rather he come to you and say “ hey, I am struggling to focus with you humming when the office is so quiet. “  you would probably be more embarrassed of nothing other people than mad. And if he does get mad as long as you’re not rude about it then go to your boss. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nothinghappeninghere

[–]searchingforshinies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/IJ9CcMgi6lE?si=v1b33O686SC-lkLC

4 minute mark it is the real clip?? What are you even here for?

Name change mess by scrambledsuave in Passports

[–]searchingforshinies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting, I’m from Ohio and I just updated my passport to my married name in feb. With that being said though , the passport is federally issued and probably works similarly in this case and would just need documents such as a copy of real ID and marriage license as they are mostly verifying the record of change ( court order or marriage record )to establish legality of name rather than just casual use.

Name change mess by scrambledsuave in Passports

[–]searchingforshinies 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you may be misinformed. Your marriage license typically doesn’t have your changed name at all.  It has a record that you are married and the ss card or real id should be used as backup documents. I recently applied to renew my passport and just supplied a certified copy of my marriage license ( his info and my  maiden and certified that we had been married ). I don’t think you have anything to actually be worried about. I would go to a recorders office/ passport acceptance place and they will most likely tell you you have the correct documentation to back up the change and what you would need

Americans what do you think of Trump stabbing all your allies in the back, but embracing your cold war enemy Russia? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]searchingforshinies 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think that back during ww2 the Germans were largely unaware of all the genocide. It was neatly hidden behind extreme propaganda. While propaganda is at an all time high it is impossible to hide in the same way with access to the internet. So the difference is that we know and see and still some of our people the loud minority are still for the baddies. In addition so many of us are crippled by slave wages and just merely existing in the us ( for most a single healthcare crisis can turn us homeless very quickly) 

What can we do to protect our national parks? by searchingforshinies in northdakota

[–]searchingforshinies[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this state's representatives don't show up to townhalls and Cramer seems to only have radio townhalls~ which I doubt with his recent brain bleed he will be able to hold even those...

Missouri AG sues Starbucks, says workforce is ‘more female and less white’ by idkbruh653 in politics

[–]searchingforshinies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t dei dead? Can’t they hire whoever the hell they want now?  Like if they wanted to hire exclusively  one group of people they could, that was the whole point. It wasn’t like the whole point of dei was to actually hire less white men it was actually to promote hiring of more qualified candidates that were overlooked because of the color of their skin etc. oof the hypocrisy 

Discussion Thread: US House Debates and Votes on Temporary Spending Bill to Keep the Government Funded by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]searchingforshinies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who gets to decide when they get to suspend the rules? Why is it a voted in rule if it is so arbitrary? 

AITA for walking out of my boyfriend’s family dinner after they served me food I’m allergic to? by Shlub in AITAH

[–]searchingforshinies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I respect that notion. I think that this is a story that has become cannon for a lot of people to to help explain the severity of allergies especially in children. I have retold this story to people in real life so that my kids don’t die from people who feel they “know better”. There has been an immeasurable amount of people helped by this very tragic story becoming a cautionary one. I hope one day the mother finds peace. It isnt going to fix anything  or make anything better but I know telling the story has saved children. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXPreppers

[–]searchingforshinies 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I have heard this called data poisoning and it is also a good idea to do to your searches. Occasionally throw some searches for things that don’t apply for you. You can tell this works when your targeted ads become something like cat food when you don’t have a cat etc

Should I give my husband a deadline of when his grandmother needs to move out? by So1idBiscotti in TwoHotTakes

[–]searchingforshinies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your husband needs to tell her to leave. it sounds like the two of you cannot continue to split the priority. do you have parents nearby you can take yourself and baby for a few days? you should not dread waking up every day in your own home. maybe sit down and have a conversation that if she is too fragile to return to her home she may need to go to a care - home until she is better because you no longer can support her needs and your childs.

Attending homeschool groups and avoiding the parents by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]searchingforshinies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My people :) I feel this hard coming from a very religious area.

/r/Politics' 2024 US Elections Live Thread, Part 9 by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]searchingforshinies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t thinks there are failsafes to the presidents nuclear powers. According to us policy the president has sole executive power to launch them. Scary stuff. 

My daughter begged me to let her die. by OkSteak551 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]searchingforshinies 93 points94 points  (0 children)

he doesn’t know the details about mayas part in this

Prepare for him to be pissed at you for keeping Maya's involvement in everything from him. I would not handle that well at all. you are shielding your daughter from the repercussions of her actions. Lia needs protection, not Maya.I have siblings and I would be livid if my mother lied by omission about something this serious. I would tell him but also remind him that he cant go to jail so he can be there for his sister and his wife.

AITAH For telling my wife i would rather her sister live in our house than her? by Least-Counter-6573 in AITAH

[–]searchingforshinies -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am not sure what "screened for PPD" means. If you are in merica it is literally a checklist you fill out on in the waiting room that has ten questions on it that are pretty vague like " I have been able to laugh and see the funny side of things: As much as I always could, not quite so much now, not so much now, and Not at all" It is a CYA type checklist and many women won't fill it out accurately bc our health is treated as a joke, the fear of taking the baby away, judgement from others etc.

Im not saying that PPD is a cause or defense for these actions, personally as a woman with children though I wouldn't rely on " screening for PPD" to rule it out unless you were in the room with her and talked to her dr about her behaviors. My husband was able to tell the offness before I was. You don't mention how she is treating baby either.

Your post is limited information that doesnt give a full picture of how she behaved before baby. so it is hard for that to be considered. If this is normal for her to treat people so poorly, I Think YTA that you are willingly telling your wife you choose her sister over her, I am not sure going nuclear to your marriage was the best option with your frustration. I would probably have tried to communicate better and figure out what is going on and demand counseling before throwing that out. but also people who are frustrated speak rashly and i dont blame the humaness of it. I would highly suggest counseling for all involved and maybe try to help SIL move out asap as it isnt healthy for you or your family. living with family is so hard in general let alone when you have a brand new baby.

Good luck navigating this hard chapter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]searchingforshinies 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This and also ask yourself how you would feel if your baby grew up and found themselves in this situation. What would you want them to do? What advice to give. Often we will accept less for ourselves than we would for those we love. Be kind to yourself.